It had been a great night out, which was saying something because country dancing wouldn't have been my first choice. The club had a pretty good rep, but being from the east coast country had been something we'd all made fun of. I think it was mainly the seemingly overdone costumes - big hats and boots, jeans that people IRONED (for god's sake!), the big belt buckles, and so on. The people had always been great, and seemingly unaffected. Since moving out west I chalked it up to regional differences. But enough of that!
I'd gone country dancing with my apartment neighbor, Jeannette, and a couple of her friends from work. She had the apartment below mine, with the same floor plan. It was a nice complex - good amenities, nicely maintained, and very new. And our apartments were the two bedroom/two bath floor plan - we were both divorced with one kid each.
We first ran into each other picking up mail - her mailbox was next to mine, and I asked if she was new to the complex.
"Yep, we just moved in a few days ago. Moved out from California to get away from the ex and closer to my folks. How about you?"
"Yep, moved in about a month ago. How do you like it?" I said.
"It's good - love being in Colorado."
"Yep, me too. I'm Mark, incidentally." I extended my hand and she took it, shaking firmly.
"I'm Jeannette. Nice to meet you - which building are you in?"
"I'm in 31 - second floor. You?"
She chuckled. "So am I, although I'm on the first floor. Are you on top of me?" She asked quizzically, then with a slight blush as she realized that could be taken a couple different ways.
"Well, I'm in 3120, so if you're 3110, then yes." I tilted my head a bit and laughed. "You are, aren't you? That's you in the Toyota SUV in the garage next to mine, right?"
She laughed this time - "Yep, that's me. You've got the blue 325i?"
My turn to laugh - "Close - it's a 328xi. But blue it is!"
By now, we had retrieved our mail and were walking back to our building, exchanging some small talk.
"Well, pleasure meeting you! We should get the boys together sometime - I suspect they'd get along." I had no ulterior motive - my son would enjoy having a friend right downstairs.
She tilted her head a bit, and sai,d "I bet they'd like that. Feel free to stop down - as long as it's not TOO far." She smiled as she said it, and then we turned and I went up to my apartment and I saw her go down the hall to hers.
We had indeed gotten our kids together a few times, and visited with each other at the same time. I learned that her ex could be violent, though never to her or her son, which was why she had moved so far away, and that her folks lived a few miles from our apartment complex. She managed the local branch of a large headhunting company, which kept her busy. It seemed like the right kind of job for her - she had a confidence about her that was appealing, and a willingness to hear "no" from prospects. Somehow we never got around to talking about relationship status, though I figured she, like me, rarely had trouble getting dates.
And I have to say it was nice to have a woman friend, where there weren't any expectations. We wound up doing different trips with the kids, as well as the typical kid movies and outings, like the zoo, the museum and so on, and it was always comfortable. It was all the funnier because we'd each seen the other in workout gear - she used the apartment's gym, and I cycled a lot. And I would have been confident in saying we both appreciated the other physically. Despite that, there didn't seem to be a whole lot of sexual tension between us.
It had been a few months since we first met retrieving mail when I heard a knock on my door. I wasn't expecting anyone - it was unusual for anyone to just knock without having texted or called. I answered the door and it was Jeannette.
She blew in to my apartment. "Hi! How are you?"
"I'm good - thanks. To what do I owe the pleasure?" I asked.
"Do you have any plans for Saturday? I'm going out with a couple of my girlfriends from work and thought you might like to join us since I don't think you have your son. We're going to that big country dance place on the highway."
"I don't, as a matter of fact. Country, eh? Succumbing to the lure of the Rose? I'm not sure I have anything appropriate to wear, but I'd be happy to join you. I can even be your designated driver."
She laughed. "Oh, that's OK - one of my friends is picking me up, and can fit you in also if you want. And for clothes - just wear some jeans and a black t-shirt - it IS summer, after all. Well, good - it'll be fun. Do you know how to country dance?"
I shook my head ruefully. "No, but I'll try not to step on your - or anyone else's feet too much."
"Oh, after a couple of drinks I'm sure no one'll know. Or care. Say about 8 on Saturday?"
"Sure, that works - it'll be fun."