September 25
Hello Robert, so nice to meet you and sorry we had to cut it so short this morning. Often that is the case here as interruptions happen quite frequently, but when I get the opportunity to have a conversation with someone who seems of a similar mind and experience, it's exciting to take that one further step to see if the stars really do align and it becomes possible to talk about these feelings about our women and their beau(s)...
About me, I am 66, live near NYC in the New Jersey suburbs; a retired banking professional. Sharon, my wife, is 57. We have been married over 35 years. She has worked in the media realm since her late 20's for a media group with a national presence, coming in very much on the ground floor during the infancy of the cable TV boom and following the growth and all of the opportunities it offers all along the way. Accordingly, over all these years, especially since the inception of the internet era, she has developed quite a social media following with a number of connections that I won't provide in detail, as you would think me to be fabricating the frankly surprising number it has grown to over time.
Sharon coordinates trade show and convention events, and the nature of her position means that she is literally visible to the public, shall we say. When younger she used to travel for 10-14 days at a time every 90 days or so, mostly to convention cities such as Las Vegas, Orlando, Vancouver, San Francisco, Denver for example, as well as the usual cities on the East coast. Most often she traveled with a dedicated team of both men and women. That settled back with the pandemic, and though she travels now, the torch is in the process of being passed, so the away periods are not as frequent as before.
I couldn't adore her more at her age now, still about 135 and 5'6" in height She is clearly 36D-29-38 from what I can see of her clothes labels: a size 12 or 14 depending on the fashion. She is a bit thicker than when she was a younger woman of course, but I think I'm objective enough when I say I still feel she is an exquisite, very attractive talented business executive. She is absolutely confident, looks you straight in the eye when she speaks to you and never questions her leadership status. To me personally, its most exciting when prominent professional men locally give her praise on her social media; constant compliments on what a good job she does, and how lovely she looks. She knows exactly how to dress and when and when not to show certain features of her body. Her smile, her eyes, hair and her breasts must all be fully visible, then the men begin to comment. May I admit it causes her husband to feel pleasure.
Please do drop me a line when you have the time to do so. I look forward to hearing from you again...
Best,
James_
September 26
You sound like quite a happy and successful couple! Quite a history...it is truly enlightening to hear the truth of what is really happening in the relationships of long marrieds that never can be easily discussed in, shall we say, "polite company"? And yes, I am quite interested in hearing more about those loose ends you have left hanging...what the one way she fails to please you is, and how the interaction was with the married women you were with, as they stepped out on their husbands. The feelings of pleasure must have been immense.
For our part, my wife Sharon has always been very mindful of the power of her body all the way back to when she was in high school and college. I've often thought that there was a certain aspect of her personality that caused her to desire praise for her appearance, and/or affirmation from men in particular. It was evident that she had her father completely wrapped around her finger even then. She had his credit card to use whenever she wanted, though she was very appropriate in using it, and often the things were for him as well as her.
She was very charitable and was involved in many local charitable causes and I think made everyone proud of her, but she was also an incessant flirt and dated constantly. She was a member of the cheerleading teams in middle school, high school and college (as she would say, "small schools, no big deal").
She and the other girls on the cheer team at her university used to work with local businesses to fund raise, so in a sense they would make appearances to help publicize the events and attract interest. All very 1970's and certainly nothing (perhaps) that would fly now, using them for the purpose of which I'm sure you can imagine. One of the local boosters that she became most friendly with was a gentleman who owned a regional group of auto dealerships during that time. He and his wife used to have pool parties at their home, and they invited Sharon to attend. She has told me about this many times and about all of the liquor and the marijuana....how over several invitations she, still being a bit naive even at 19 and after all of this other exposure, began to understand why she was asked to attend and enjoy herself.
She has always minimized the importance of her being in those cheer programs, but it was always clear to me that the values that had been pounded into her head by their coaches, the emphasis on their fitness, diet and being seen became very much a part of her and still is. And she learned how to use the assets she was given to lovingly manipulate men, first her father, and many other men, including me. As a result, I would still do anything for her, including work out with her a way that is acceptable for the both of us for her to have meetings with Daniel, her college era boyfriend who is still in her (therefore our) life, and to be with him, and to serve her which she knows brings me pleasure. He takes her on a ski trip each winter for ten days or so, last year was Banff Springs, this year is still in the works, perhaps more on that as I know more! It's truly exciting to have her go, as I'm sure you can imagine.
When we were at our summer place with the family celebrating the holiday, we had time alone in the kitchen for a period and everyone else was outside. She was wearing a pretty beige tank top with spaghetti straps that showed her extremely well. She obviously caught me looking and after seeing the coast was clear, hand supported and lifted up both of her breasts and asked me if I liked what I saw, and told me to remember that Daniel was visiting family near us and coming home to town; that if I please her and that I'm a good boy, I can have my treat. That is her code for our having sex as soon as she gets home after visiting with him and his family, with whom she is also somewhat close, and her meeting my most desired wish, which is to have her climb up and press herself against my face so I may clean her lovingly and completely. She uses this to no end to get me to do whatever she needs, be it chores, work projects, running to the store for errands. Even to the ATM for $500 (yes it's true, and I went down to get it for her) to pay for my session with her on our 35th wedding anniversary when she posed as my "escort" who called on me in my (our) hotel room at the Bellagio in Las Vegas, a fantasy I had for years which she fulfilled. I would call it manipulation if it weren't for the fact that we both enjoy it so.
Trying not to ramble....I can focus in as we exchange thoughts, I guess ;)
Best,
James
September 27