Like I said, I was getting a little tired of the sex without intimacy, but it would take another 2 and a bit years for my big and little head to agree...
A job came up in a specialised industry, thru an ex colleague who had a brother working in the industry, and at the beginning of 98 I started my initial training. I really enjoyed the quality of equipment used, the training was very thorough and the money was pretty healthy as well.
The one thing I wasn't sure of was the shiftwork on rotation, initially a 15 day cycle, later a 9 day cycle, meaning my days off would keep moving. As I was quickly to find out, this was a real blessing for someone in my position...plenty of time for daytime fucking and sucking!!
It also started a brief but frantic period where I screwed lots of women....adding to the conflicting emotions I was having. Once I got thru the training period at work, got settled into a shift pattern etc I resumed my hobby in earnest.
Still had an advert in Ribald (contact magazine), the replies would come in occasionally, but the majority of interest was created on a couple of internet contact sites. Again, the rapid contact method, online chat and then meeting often took only a day or two.
I had developed a ruthlessly efficient process of eliminating pretenders, not wasting any time on women who wanted long term relationships....focusing merely on those who had the nerve to tell me that all they wanted was a hard cock to play with.
It was here that I was first got in touch with another couple, Tina and Alan, in their early forties. Alan contacted me, explained he suffered from premature ejaculation and to make a long story short, he simply wanted his wife to get dicked properly every now and then...he also admitted he would like to watch Tina getting fucked.
I went to meet Alan and Tina at their house, even though both were short and on the chubby side it was the sparkling eyes of Tina that got my attention immediately. After a bit of a chat we worked out that I'd come around to see them in a few days time, when they'd have their teenage daughter was staying with a friend...free to frolick in other words. It was quite exciting how Tina had been looking at me with desire, almost swooning when I told them that for me sex appeal is more to do with attitude, state of mind etc than physical perfection.
So on the night in question I knocked on Tina and Alan's door and found just Tina by herself, initially looking a bit miffed when she told me that Alan had been delayed at work. Anyway, we got settled on the couch and the phone rang, Alan then telling Tina he'd be another hour at least....go ahead and start without me he told Tina...I heard him say it, and instantly Tina's face changed from being annoyed to being aroused!