I had seen him at the coffee shop for weeks now. We had gotten to that friendly-smile-and-nod stage when we passed each other at the counter. He was interesting looking -- much taller than my 5-foot height, honey-brown hair, beard and mustache well trimmed and neat, and eyes that could change color like the North Sea. Which was apropos, since he ordered his coffee with a delightful, vaguely Northern European accent.
I was curled up in one of the big chairs, a good book open on my lap and a tall cup of mocha latte precariously balanced on the chair arm. I heard his melodic voice ordering his usual cup of coffee and glanced up from my book. He turned his head and our eyes met. We both smiled and started the friendly nod, but then the gaze held a heartbeat longer than normal. It held long enough for my hand that was holding the book open to tremble slightly as a small sizzle of energy made its way back and forth from our eyes.
quickly dropped my gaze back down to my book and grabbed my coffee cup that was teetering from the sudden movement. Taking a deep gulp of the warm, thick latte I steadied myself and then slipped into a mini-daydream and again tried to figure out where that accent came from. I'm a student of languages; they have always fascinated me and I have made it a hobby to train my ear to accents and dialects. So, besides being interesting-looking, the coffee shop man posed a mystery that I intended to solve. I just wished I could hear him speak more than just a coffee order.
My wish was granted.
"Would you mind if I sat here?" He was standing in front of me, indicating the chair across the low table from me. I smiled up at him and made the proper and polite responses to let him know it was okay. He sat down, put his cup on the table in front of him and then leaned forward with hand outstretched.
"My name is Peter." I extended my hand and was pleased that he took it firmly and shook it once, then let go. So many men think it is debonair, when shaking a woman's hand, to take it with his palm up as if he was about to kiss the back of hers. In actuality, there are very few men who can pull that move off...for the rest of the male species, a simple sideways handshake shows respect and won't get him thrown into the lounge-lizard pile quite as quickly.
"My name's Kate, I'm pleased to finally make your acquaintance." I replied, throwing all my demure, Southern courtesy at him all at once. I wanted to see how he fielded that particular curve-ball, batting eyelashes and all. His only response was a slowly widening smile and relaxing back into his chair.
The conversation started lightly. A question here, a question there, back and forth across the table. We could have been batting a shuttlecock across a badminton net....we could have been playing chess. I asked what he did for a living; he answered that he was a financial consultant for an investment group. I made all the proper impressed noises and sipped my coffee. He asked what I did for a living; I answered that I was currently in the market for a job and used the coffee house as a refuge from faxing resumes and going on job interviews. He made all the proper consoling noises and we talked for a bit about the growing recession.
Finally, I thought I had the answer to my mystery.
"Forgive me for being forward, but are you from South Africa?" I asked, trying to keep my inner sense of triumph from showing.
"No, not South Africa. I'm from the Netherlands, right outside of Amsterdam."
I had guessed wrong. My cheeks turned pink with embarrassment at both my audacity at asking such a personal question and my ignorance at the accent. Peter took pity on me and said that it was a common mistake, since Afrikaans comes from Dutch.