In retrospect it did not take much convincing for either of us to take the first step. Years before this moment my wife Audrey and I [Dave], both in our forties and being married with kids for over ten years, had decided to open the doors to exploring as many aspects of sex as we possibly could. We refer to that moment as opening Pandora's box. As we opened ourselves up to the journey neither of us could have guessed where our sexual adventures would take us but, both of us were committed to taking the journey together. In the time since, we both purchased a laundry list of sexual toys, a full set of leather restraints, a variety of spanking accessories, and some leather body harnesses. We also did a ton of research on a variety of different topics. Our purchases and research allowed us to begin dipping our toes into the realms of Bondage, BDSM, and Fetish play.
Now though, as it was in the beginning, our relationship reached a point of unpredicted evolution. Where the first evolution would be the beginning, establishing the parameters of things to come, this evolution would be the exploration of our individual and collective sexualities.
The entire morning was spent in either the kitchen or the dining areas dodging interruptions from kids, answering random phone calls, and dealing with household chores. One of the highlights though was the time spent being playful and teasing each other. The occasional kiss, pat on the ass, cock grab, or a brush up against one another added to the arousal for the day. The day went on as it had on most Saturdays, breakfast, then send the kids outside to burn off some energy while we tried to accomplish a task in the house, a midday meal followed by more time outside for the kids. Rinse and repeat. Anyone looking in on us from the outside world would never guess that later in the day our world would change. We finished our morning tasks, then after lunch we decided to stay at the kitchen table and talk.
Our discussion started with some mild conversation about school, work, followed by some questions about what we thought about a particular topic. The last topic always led us down a rabbit hole of sorts. Together we explored each other's views on the subject. We may not always agree with the other but we both respected the others view on a subject. More important than that was the fact that we took the other persons view in for what it was rather than shutting the other person down without hearing them out. We cherished this as one of the most valuable components of our relationship.
Our topic of discussion for this week was based around a Netflix documentary on porn that Audrey had watched. She was sharing the highlights reel from the documentary with me. As she did, we began our trip down a deep rabbit hole. We had already discussed our feelings with each other about porn and neither of us had any aversion to watching porn or our partner watching porn. In fact, we both felt it was a good way to expand our exposure to a variety of sexual acts, some of them we might try and others we might not. As our conversation progressed so did our arousal around to topic.
We bounced a variety of viewpoints about porn around highlighting our likes and dislikes for each other. This ultimately, escalated into a sexual game. Audrey began the game by posing a question to the universe.
"Why don't we find a porn clip we like then show it to the other and see if it turns them on?"
She turned to Dave and asked,
"I'm game, you pick the first one."
I responded enthusiastically.
"Okay but you find the website to use from one of your usual sites."
I selected a website that I had frequently visited and showed her how to search for different topics. The default search was limited to straight porn but I showed her how to switch to other topics like gay and shemale porn. Her porn searches would not be limited to just straight porn. Audrey grabbed the laptop and turned it towards her making it impossible to see the search criteria she was using. Her first video selection was a very vanilla clip with very little depravity. The clip had an attractive redhead who was getting fucked doggy style by a lean muscular bald guy. Although the girl was attractive, I did not find much arousal in it. We watched the 5minute clip then as it ended, we asked each other questions about the clip.
"Well, what did you think of it?"
She asked.
"It was vanilla as hell, the redhead was hot but it really didn't have much spice."
I replied and then countered.
"What about you, is that something you like?"
She took a moment to respond.
"Yeah... It was vanilla as fuck!"
"The only redeeming thing was her getting fucked doggy."
After her answer she pushed the laptop towards me then told me to pick something better then. The gauntlet had fallen at my feet. I spun it around and began my search, I stopped for a second wondering how daring a topic I should search would be, should I go the safe route or go way outside the box. I decided to play it somewhat safe since the first clip was vanilla but my selection would have a bit of an edge. I entered "BDSM" in the search bar and hit enter. I was confident in my selection as we both found the topic interesting making it the safe move. The video results began to populate one the screen. I scrolled through the results and decided to select something outside of our ordinary video tastes. I spun the laptop around and started the clip.
"I think you will like this one."
I told her as the video music started to play.
The BDSM clip had a Dominatrix with a female sub. The sub was restrained to chair that was suspended from the ceiling. Both women were very attractive and the Dom was smacking the sub on the thighs with a paddle. She would alternate every couple smacks with some pleasure by shoving a Hitachi in between her legs to vibrate on her clit until she was close to cumming then removing it to deny her orgasm. The went on the entire clip and the sub was never allowed to cum. After the five-minute clip finished the q and a session began again.
I started this time by asking her,
"What did you think about the clip?"
She took a moment then replied,
"It was okay but I'm not sure how we could incorporate a hanging chair into our fun."
The back and forth between us continued through the next couple videos. There was an escalation in the edginess of the video clips. Our Q and A sessions continued as we quizzed each other on our level of arousal from each clip. Even as we expressed our arousal for something, we were both convinced there was no way for either of us to confirm it... or was there? Audrey played a couple more videos for me and when asked if I was aroused by them, I responded that neither of them really did anything for me which was 100% true. Audrey's frustration boiled over since the videos were similar to a few we watched previously that I had found arousing. Audrey promptly stood up after my response and with her hands plated firmly on her hips, she sternly ordered me to remove my shorts.
"This is some bullshit!"
"Loose the shorts now!"
"I want to see with my own eyes that it's not getting you aroused."
"Your dick won't lie!"
With a perplexing look on my face I stood up and unbuttoned my shorts. I pulled the front apart forcing the zipper down, then let go of them and they dropped to the floor. I stepped out of them and tossed them towards the door to the laundry room. Now I was completely nude from the waist down. Shortly after we started our adventures together, I stopped wearing underwear all together on weekends. It was extremely exhilarating and once they were gone, I refused to go back to wearing them on weekends again. Audrey was thrilled once I switched, it was one less layer to get through allowing her more spontaneous access which she exploited regularly. After flinging my shorts across the room I stood there flaunting my freshly shaved pubic area.
