***All characters are over 18 and are fictional. Any resemblance to any real-life persons or situations is purely coincidental.
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Grant sat in his car for a few extra minutes, contemplating his situation. He was a little nervous about the idea of coming to this particular restaurant. He felt there was something sacrilege about coming here of all places. But his blind date was very persistent in the text messages about wanting to come here because she was a big fan of their lasagna. He thought that dish was alright, but it was too basic. But he wanted to make a good impression, so he agreed to come here.
He finally convinced himself that it was no big deal, got out of his car and walked inside the restaurant. He spoke to the hostess, Emily, who recognized him immediately. They exchanged their usual pleasantries and asked about how each other's' kids were doing. He used to be a regular here and was very friendly with the staff, which sometimes came to his advantage when he used to come here.
"I'm a little early, but I have a reservation for two," he told her. "My date will arrive shortly."
"No, she's here already," said Emily.
"She is?"
"She's at the bar getting a drink waiting for you. Why don't you go wait with her until your table is ready?"
"Sure, thank you."
Grant assumed his date must've come early and told Emily she was waiting for him. He walked over to the bar and began looking for her. The area wasn't that crowded, but he was having a hard time trying to find her. She sent him a picture of herself, so he knew what she looked like. But it shouldn't have been that hard because she was a blonde and there were no other short-haired blonde women in sight. He figured she must've gone off to the bathroom and decided to wait at the bar until she showed up again.
"I'll have a negroni," he told the bartender, and he went off to get it for him.
"That's a step up from the old-fashioned you usually enjoy," said a female voice beside him.
He looked over to see who said that and was surprised to see who it was.
"Mandy!"
"Hey Grant."
He was looking at his ex-wife, Amanada, or Mandy, as he usually called her, sitting just five feet away from him with a martini in her hand. He didn't recognize her at the beginning because her back was turned and he was looking for a short-haired blonde woman, and Mandy was a long-haired brunette. He was surprised to see her here wearing a very elegant black dress; it must be new because he had never seen it before. What was really surprising about that dress was that it showed a good amount of cleavage on top, something she never did before when they went out. Her reasoning was that unless she was going to the beach, she didn't like to put her breasts on display in public. Now here she was, looking as beautiful as ever in a sexy dress, and he couldn't keep his eyes off of her.
"I'm surprised to see you here."
"Me too; what are you doing here?" she asked.
"I'm, uh..." He didn't know how to say this to his ex-wife.
"You're on a date, aren't you?" she asked.
"Yes, I am," he answered. "A blind date, actually."
"No way, me too," she said.
"Seriously? What are the odds?"
They both laughed. He asked if he could join her while he waited for his date, and she said yes. The bartender had just brought his negroni, and they began to chat.
Grant now realizes that when the hostess said his date was already here, she must've meant Mandy. They both used to come to this restaurant regularly when they were married, but they haven't been here together since their divorce. He told this to Mandy, and she started laughing.
"Oh, that's so funny," said Mandy. "That explains why when I said I was waiting for somebody, she said she already knew about it."
"She must've seen my name for my reservation and made that assumption."
"Oh, poor girl, she didn't know about us," said Mandy. "I'd hate to disappoint her when she sees us go off with other people."
"She may think we've become swingers," Grant joked, and they both had a good laugh at it.
"By the way, were you nervous about coming here? I was a little nervous because, well..." she trailed off.
"Yeah, me too," said Grant. "It was our favorite restaurant, after all. I tried to steer my date away from this place but she said she really wanted the lasagna."
"Really?" Mandy asked with a cringe. "I mean, it's alright, but it's very basic."
Grant was glad to hear that she felt the same way about it.
"I thought so too, but I thought I'd make a good impression and say yes to this place."
"Same here," she replied. "When my date said he wanted to take me here, I got very nervous about it. But I didn't want to appear demanidng, so I agreed."
"You're not that demanding," said Grant.
"That's not what you said during our divorce proceedings."
Grant suddenly remembered that he had indeed said something like that to their lawyers. In fact, they both said a lot worse about each other during those proceedings.
"Sorry, I was mostly angry at the time," said Grant.
"It's ok; I know I can be a little demanding," said Mandy. "And I said some things too, so I'm not entirely innocent here."
"Since we're talking about it, will we be alright seeing each other on a date with another person?" Grant asked. "We've both been out with other people since we split up, but we've never seen each other in public like this. To be honest, this feels a little awkward."
"I'm glad you brought that up; I feel the same way," said Mandy. "But I think we're in a good place with each other now, and I'm sure we can handle seeing each other on a date with someone else."
"True, it will be strange at first, but we're mature enough to handle it."
Grant was happy that he had a good relationship with his ex-wife. There were other divorced guys he knew who were always bitching about their ex-wives. They did hate each other a lot at the end of their marriage and said some hurtful things to each other. But when the dust settled, they talked things out and realized there was no point in being angry with each other anymore and that they should try to have a cordial relationship. They also had two young daughters to think about, and they didn't want their divorce to have a bad effect on their mental health. Over the next few years, they became very friendly with one another and almost never argued.
They finished their drinks, and Grant ordered them another round. They were having a little fun talking and wanted to keep it going for as long as they had to wait there. They mostly talked about work, friends they hadn't seen in a while, and other things that were going on in their lives. They also talked a lot about their daughters who were both currently away at summer camp. They even brought up their mothers, who hated each other, and how glad they were that they didn't have to see each other as much since their divorce.
"By the way, it was my mother who convinced me to go on this blind date," said Grant.
Mandy laughed. "Oh my God, my mother set up my blind date too."
"Seriously?" Grant asked. "You don't think this was a set-up, do you?"
Mandy laughed harder this time. "No way, our mothers hate each other, remember?"
"True, my mother loved you, but she celebrated with champagne when the divorce was final because she didn't have to deal with your mother anymore."
"I got you beat. My mother went straight to church to thank God she didn't have to see your mother anymore."
"Your religious mother was happy we got divorced?"
"No, she hated that part," said Mandy. "But she said it was worth it if it meant she didn't have to see your mother anymore."
Mandy's mother was a religiously conservative woman, and Grant's mother was an agnostic research scientist. They only got along as much as they needed to because of their children and then for their grandchildren. But that only kept them behaving to a certain point; there were many times over the years where they got into screaming matches with each other. Mostly it was over religion, but many times it was for whatever reason they could think of to yell at each other. Grant and Mandy were often caught in the middle and tried not to take sides as much as they could, but it was hard not to when you needed to defend your own mother.
Emily had come by to let them know their table was ready. They didn't know what to tell her, so Grant just said they'd like to wait a while longer at the bar before they ate. Emily seemed really pleased to see them again, and they just didn't want to disappoint her. Eventually she was going to find out the truth, but they were hoping to hold off on that for as long as they could.
Emily said it was no problem, but she could only hold the table for so long. They assured her it wouldn't be that long. They were checking their phones regularly, and their own dates assured them they were coming soon despite being late. Before Emily left, she commented on how beautiful Mandy's dress was, and she thanked her for it.
"By the way, I've also been meaning to say that's a lovely dress you're wearing," said Grant.
"Thank you," she replied, feeling very pleased. "You don't think it's a little too sexy?"
"It's sexy, but in an elegant way," he assured her. "But I am surprised you're wearing something like this. You're usually against... how do I put this..."
"Publicly displaying my tits," she replied.
"I wouldn't put it that way, but that's essentially what I was saying.'
"I got this dress a while ago, after we split up and my friends convinced me to go on a shopping spree to celebrate single life. But as time went by, I never found a reason to wear any of the sexy dresses I bought. That is until my mother insisted I wear this tonight."
Grant couldn't help laughing. "Your super religious mother insisted you dress sexy tonight?"
"I know; I was surprised too."