The stories that follow are true tales of my sexual journey. They are based upon true events and relationships. Some have been embellished a bit just for entertainment purposes, and of course the dialogue is not likely to be 100% accurate in every instance since these events happened over a period of more than ten years, and there was alcohol involved in some of them, but for the most part everything is true and accurate.
My name is Phil. As background, I grew up in Virginia and have lived in southern Virginia my whole life. I had one serious high school girlfriend, and then in college I pretty much played the field. I am 6'5", about 240 pounds, former college athlete at a D-1 school in Virginia. I've kept in shape with almost daily exercise -- running, weight lifting etc.
These tales begin while I was still married. I met my wife Caitlin in graduate school, where I was studying forensic accounting. Unlike the other women I had dated and been with previous to meeting her, she was serious and ambitious, and at that stage of my life, I figured it was time to settle down with someone like her, have a real relationship, raise a family etc.
We had a good and active sex life, and she knew from the start that I had a high sex drive. We didn't do anything crazy, but we covered all the basics and the quality was usually pretty good. Some things were a no go for her, but that was fine with me. I had had plenty of crazy sex in college so I didn't feel like I would be missing out on anything.
But as our family grew and life became busy, we fell victim to the same old story. Caitlin wanted sex less and less frequently, and accused me of being horny all the time. If I reminded her that she knew this and always liked that about me, she would scold me for not growing up. So, we ended up splitting up.
I have come to enjoy rough sex as the dominant party, sometimes combined with a dose of humiliation, with the right partner. Everything from spanking and hair pulling, to name calling, spitting, and golden showers. I don't do it with everyone, and over the years have been a pretty good judge of who would like it and who might not.
As you all read my stories, it may seem that I've been very lucky when it comes to sex, but luck comes from confidence. Women are attracted to confident, alpha male types. But believe me, I've struck out way more than I've scored.
I write these stories now during my second marriage, with the encouragement and assistance of my second wife, Wendy, who is a fine editor as well. Some of the stories are not super exciting, but you take the bad with the good, and I decided if I'm going to tell my story, I need to tell it in full.
Lauren
When I was still married to my first wife, Caitlin, we employed a series of smokin' hot babysitters. Our friends would always make comments to me (in private of course) about how I must be in charge of hiring the "help", but in reality, it was Caitlin that always interviewed and selected the babysitters. Believe me, I never complained.
We were in our mid-thirty's when we started having kids. We only had two, so when our youngest was born, I was about 36. Caitlin decided to go back to work when the little one was about one, and this changed my life forever in many ways.
First of all, going back to work, and working a lot of hours in a new job she loved, made her very tired at night, and with two little kids, there was less time for us to be intimate. We became impatient with each other - me wanting our usual frequent sex, and her wanting me to leave her alone. You all know the drill.
After a year of juggling the after-daycare routine without help, we decided to look for help with the kids after daycare/preschool, so we could both work full days. I hated it, because being somewhat of a traditionalist, I would have preferred that we raise our kids without daycare or extensive help, but Caitlin wanted to work, and the extra money was nice.
Insert Lauren. A graduate of the local Christian college, Lauren was about 26 (I was 38 at the time) and sure didn't fit the mold of the usual graduates from that school. Long, tanned legs, a tattoo on her calf, long blond hair. Kind of a Barbi doll, standing I'd guess around 5'10." Super nice, to be sure, but a naughty side just beneath the surface that I immediately picked up on.
Lauren started with us in the early fall. She'd get the kids from pre-school by 3:30, get them cleaned up, play with them, start dinner etc., until we got home. She would be at the house most days until about 5:30 or 6:00. Sometimes I might get home early, occasionally an hour early, which gave me and Lauren a chance to talk while the kids were watching TV or coloring or doing whatever kids do at that age. They were always close by, still pretty young, but we had some privacy to talk. We flirted slightly, as I found out more about her.
Her father and mother married young and were still happily married. She lived at home, worked as a waitress in the evenings, sometimes at lunch, and worked for us in the afternoon. Nothing unusual or out of line with her upbringing or family life, just a nice, normal young lady trying to find her way.
We got along well. Sometimes she was still at the house with me when Caitlin got home, and Caitlin would always have a snide comment about me in front of Lauren, and it did not go unnoticed.
One day Lauren commented to me "It seems like Caitlin is not happy about something."
I replied, "She's not happy about anything."
Lauren laughed and said something like, "Well that can't make for a happy marriage."
I took a chance and said, "Yeah, and not for a happy sex life either."
She chuckled and blushed a bit and said, "Sorry to hear that."
At the Christian college Lauren graduated from, everyone there believed that you should wait for marriage to have intercourse. That explained why so many of them got married right after graduation.
Over the first month she worked for us, as our conversations became more and more personal, I learned that she had a high school boyfriend with whom she had had sex, but her boyfriend at college wouldn't have sex with her until they were married.
As she approached graduation, she found out that her boyfriend had been fucking his high school girlfriend, which, she said, explained why he never really pressured her into sex.
I asked, "Didn't you guys do anything?"
She paused for a second, and said, "Well, let me put it this way, I'm really good at giving blowjobs."
Now it was me who blushed.
Fast forward about two weeks - that comment had been on my mind (and in my pants) since she made it, and I was anxious to see where I might be able to take it. Sex with Caitlin had dwindled to pity sex every couple weeks, without very little oral to speak of, so it was starting to become a mini- obsession. I love oral, giving and receiving, so I was living in a fantasy over Lauren's mouth since that comment.
One day Lauren was supposed to take the kids to a friend's birthday party at Chucky Cheese or someplace like that, and meet Caitlin there, but I secretly arranged for a neighboring parent to take the kids instead of Lauren taking them.
I got home early and began my usual chat with Lauren, who then said, "Well, I guess we better get going."
I said, "Oh, I guess I forgot to tell you, Mrs. Smith is taking the kids to the party since she's going too."
Just about that time, the bell rang, and the kids said their goodbyes and off they went, with me telling them their mom would meet them there.
I knew I would be alone for the next two or three hours, so I invited Lauren to stay and have a glass of wine. She accepted, and now the ball was in my court.
Lauren wasn't exactly shy, and like I said I could tell she had a bit of a naughty steak (which she confirmed with the blowjob comment), but taking it to the next level would be delicate.
After a few minutes of friendly chit chat, I asked her, "So, I'm curious, with your last boyfriend, you said you took care of him, but did he ever take care of you?"
She looked confused for a second, then blushed with understanding.
Looking away, she admitted, "Not really, no. Occasionally, but honestly, he didn't seem to like that, and it showed. He wasn't good at it."
I said, "Well that's too bad, stuff like that should work both ways."
She paused, then asked, "Does it work both ways with Caitlin?"
I said, "It used to, early on. The but last few years it has worked mostly one way, me giving to her, with an occasional pity blowjob, but even that has really stopped. In fact, you couldn't even call it a blow job anymore, she doesn't do it to completion, if you know what I mean."
She looked at me wide-eyed, like it never dawned on her that oral sex could be used only as foreplay.
She stammered and said, "You mean, she never, in her mouth, like, swallowed it?"
Now I was getting bold, loving where this might be going.
I replied, "Never once. In fact, the one time she took me 'all the way' (I used air quotes) early in our marriage, she made me tell her when I was going to come, and then she just let it shoot all over the place. She was kind of grossed out by the whole thing and hasn't done it since. She hates the, you know, 'end product.'" (air quotes again).
After a brief silence she said "That's too bad. I find the whole thing hot, and I love it, especially the 'end product.'"
Now it was time to be even bolder. My first boss once told me, if you want someone's business, sometimes you just have to ask for it instead of beating around the bush.
"You gotta take your shot!" he would say.
So, I took my shot.
I looked at her and said, "Would you do it to me?"
Even though she knew what I meant, she played the game, asking, "Do what?"
She was going to make me say it.
"Give me a blow job, and swallow my cum, right here, right now," I said.
We were sitting across from each other in a little sitting room off of the kitchen. Lauren put her glass down, took three steps over to me, and dropped to her knees in front of me.