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The drive from my parent's house to work was not what anyone would call a commute. In a town of five thousand, you're never more than five minutes from anywhere. Add the fact that the plant started production at 7:00 in the morning, there weren't exactly traffic jams to deal with.
With Dawn fresh in my mind, and having escaped the house without having to face my mother, Betsy with any serious grilling about what I'd been up to over the weekend, I made my way through the quiet streets of small town America. I was tired and sore, and already I was bored. It was going to be a cruel day.
I was pleased though, at least about getting past the mom hurdle. I needed time to mull over what to say, and how to phrase things when it came to what happened over the weekend. I was never good at lying to her, and she had a sense about those kinds of things that seemed uncanny. But, when I could find a way to shade the truth in a certain light, I was often blessed with good results. It was all in the presentation.
Preparation for any kind of inquisition was the key. There was so much I didn't want to share with her, almost the entire weekend, that getting ready to answer the unknown questions she might have made me feel like I was about to walk into a final exam in college having never studied at all. I needed the time at work to cram for the test.
My father Darren, on the other hand, wouldn't be such an issue. He didn't ask the pointed questions she did, dealing more in generalities than in specifics. For instance, if he wanted to know if you had a good day, a yes or no would satisfy him for an answer. He didn't care about the details of why in either direction. That was good, because I'd be seeing him well before I saw mom again.
After college, I went to work for the company my father worked for. As a VP, he'd worked there most of his adult life to get where he was, busting his ass to work his way up. I'd toiled there seven years, working grunt jobs in the beginning and keeping my nose clean. After three years, I too started climbing that same corporate ladder, to the point where I was running my own department.
But nepotism is an interesting thing. It's a fact that I got my first job because of who I was related to. It wasn't like I went through a vigorous interviewing process. I'd already worked there every summer since we moved to town during my junior year of high school. Upon graduating with a degree in business, I needed a job. They needed someone to work in the shipping department, and who my father was got me the job.
Not exactly the glamour position I was hoping for coming out of school, but it was a job, and a start. It was also a fact that I got every promotion after that initial hire based solely on my own hard work. I knew my father's work ethic, and busted my ass just like he did. I never worried about any review I got from whatever boss I actually reported too. I knew the ultimate evaluation would always be given to me by the old man. If there was one edict I lived by as an employee, it was quite simple. Don't fuck up and embarrass dad.
But for me, the nepotism gate swung the other way. There was always a stigma against me. More than half of the people that worked at the plant viewed my progression in the company strictly as a result of that relation. It hung over my horizon like an ominous storm cloud, ready to rain down on any personal accomplishment I achieved in my job. It was never because I was qualified, or dedicated, or hard working, or had an actual degree. In those tainted, biased eyes of my co-workers, my success was always because I was Darren's boy.
Dad didn't roll into the plant until 8:30 or so, so I would be well into my morning by the time he got there and made his morning stop in my office to say hello. It was a habit of his, started early in my employment there to make sure I hadn't embarrassed him by not showing up. And it continued to the present day, where he'd stop and talk to me as a contemporary in management. He talked to all the department heads on his first pass through the plant.
I was knee deep into the large pile of mundane paperwork on my desk, twice as big as usual because I hadn't been at work on Friday. Dad strolled through door, carrying a bag and two cups of coffee.
"Here you go, sport... heard you got home really late last night."
"Hey Dad. Yeah, I got a late start back. We had to celebrate winning the tournament. What's in the bag?"
"A bagel and a danish. I didn't know which you'd want. So you won the tourney, did you? Did you have a good time?"
"Yeah. Nice bunch of people. Met a lot of folks at their plant on Friday, and I've got some great ideas on how to improve the relationship to help them better. I'll take the bagel, if you don't mind."
My dad dug through the bag and pulled out the bagel and a little packet of crème cheese to spread over it, handing it to me. I knew him. He had a big sweet tooth, and I would have ruined his morning if I'd chosen the danish.
"Sounds like you had
a couple
of big wins then. Good job. Here's a coffee to get you through the morning until you wake up. What are you doing this afternoon?"
"As it stands right now, I think it will be a nap after work, why?"
"No reason, really. But I am a big fan of the nap after work. Just get through the day Neil. I'll run some interference for you about the trip. They wanted to have a meeting today about how things went, but I'll get it moved to tomorrow."