Part 1
The first meeting was at a Starbucks. For my purposes, I was meeting a recruiter.
At the appointed time, SB came in and found me. We shook hands, and glances. She headed to grab a coffee, while I already had mine. I'd been a bit early, and was working on my laptop. This game is old hat for me, so the anticipation of meeting was not so exciting as the fact that my date had actually showed up. That was exciting; some of my prospects don't show up. I guess they just chicken out, when it's time to meet a potential, real life person who might want to fuck you (assuming the chemistry - always tricky - works out).
I was seated in a corner, in a low chair. There really wasn't much room for her, so she suggested we head for the patio. That's something I had anticipated, and my things were packed to go.
Outside, we seated ourselves. It was sunny and hot in this late September afternoon, even as fall was approaching. My eyes caught some glare, and it took a while to get acclimated. We started with small talk: how long did it take you to get here? How are you? Etc. We relaxed. That's easier to do once you realize the other person whom you've decided to meet turns out not to be an absolute psycho (at least on first contact).
SB was slightly older than I, by about seven years. I'm in my later forties, and am tall (6'4") and about 225lbs. I have brown eyes and fair skin where it's not tanned. That's due to my European heritage. I have a slight accent.
She was slightly shorter (5'6") and blonde. Her skin was firm and bronzed, but older. Her eyes were hazel and her mouth was attractive. She spoke with what I consider to be midwestern tones (she grew up in Ohio) and she was outgoing and curious. She bragged about being a cheerleader at high school. Her figure was curvaceous, but her breasts were relatively small - or compact. Although her hardened nipples were peeking through, her dark cut blouse was not that revealing. She was neither heavy, nor skinny. She had real "next door" attractiveness.
In email we had chatted about many topics including things that gradually led to a discussion about sexual preferences. She was curious, and this was a daring thing for her. She chaffed at the lack of sexual satisfaction in her home life while her sexual curiosity and desire had increased. She was a bit disgusted with some of the things she'd seen while searching. We couldn't agree about Jesus (and didn't discuss it much). She liked that I don't post dick pics, and that my profile was articulate and sane (a deliberate set of choices on my part, I explained). She joked about seeing rows and rows of penis pictures, each phallus nearly touching the other, when viewing male profiles. My AM profile stood out, but in the right kind of way.
The primary thing she wanted to know was, "why are you here?" It's the same question I get from all my dates (apart from the ones that immediately and relentlessly lead to animalistic, chemical and raw sexual immediate gratification). I answer that I don't get enough at home, and my wife is understanding, provided I never tell her (as *that* would be humiliating). Hell, I like sex a lot.