I had been seeing a guy for a few months but it was a complicated situation. We were both married.
It wasn't a romantic relationship. We didn't love each other or intend to leave our respective partners for one another. It was about lust, physical and sexual contact. We both understood this and got to know each other's bodies intimately but we never actually slept together. But I wanted more.
One evening we were having a flirty chat on messages and he jokingly suggested I sign up to a swingers web site which he was also a member of. I initially laughed it off, but one night when I was bored curiosity got the better of me.
I found the site my friend told me about and set up an account. This was when my alter ego Mia came to be. Mia is my character, my alter ego, a faΓ§ade, a mask to hide behind, a platform to allow me to explore my fantasies. It didn't take long for Mia to get noticed by other members on the site. I could tell you so much about those whom I caught the attention of, but this isn't about them. This is about when Mia meets her Vince.
In amongst the plethora of unimaginative messages, which mostly consisted of cock pictures, one made me stop and pay attention. It was clear he had put thought and a bit of imagination into his message. The Mia Wallace reference wasn't lost on him and he cleverly assumed the role of a fellow Pulp Fiction character. Not only was his message intriguing but his profile pictures also caught my eye. He had the most beautiful body with amazingly defined muscles. My first thought was 'Oh my god ...surely he can't be interested in me'. But he was and after a few messages he suggested we meet up.
The time from creating Mia to arranging that first meet was short, and as he was the first person I had met with from the site, I felt incredibly nervous. I was coming straight from work and I can recall saying to myself ...'what the hell am I doing?!' But the excitement and intrigue overrode any nerves I had.