I had been seeing a guy for a few months but it was a complicated situation. We were both married.
It wasn't a romantic relationship. We didn't love each other or intend to leave our respective partners for one another. It was about lust, physical and sexual contact. We both understood this and got to know each other's bodies intimately but we never actually slept together. But I wanted more.
One evening we were having a flirty chat on messages and he jokingly suggested I sign up to a swingers web site which he was also a member of. I initially laughed it off, but one night when I was bored curiosity got the better of me.
I found the site my friend told me about and set up an account. This was when my alter ego Mia came to be. Mia is my character, my alter ego, a faΓ§ade, a mask to hide behind, a platform to allow me to explore my fantasies. It didn't take long for Mia to get noticed by other members on the site. I could tell you so much about those whom I caught the attention of, but this isn't about them. This is about when Mia meets her Vince.
In amongst the plethora of unimaginative messages, which mostly consisted of cock pictures, one made me stop and pay attention. It was clear he had put thought and a bit of imagination into his message. The Mia Wallace reference wasn't lost on him and he cleverly assumed the role of a fellow Pulp Fiction character. Not only was his message intriguing but his profile pictures also caught my eye. He had the most beautiful body with amazingly defined muscles. My first thought was 'Oh my god ...surely he can't be interested in me'. But he was and after a few messages he suggested we meet up.
The time from creating Mia to arranging that first meet was short, and as he was the first person I had met with from the site, I felt incredibly nervous. I was coming straight from work and I can recall saying to myself ...'what the hell am I doing?!' But the excitement and intrigue overrode any nerves I had.
I park the car and grab my phone to send him a message to say I'm on my way. I get a reply saying he's just asked another woman sitting on her own if she was Mia. I couldn't help but laugh out loud! I wonder what that woman thought.
I get to the door of the bar, take a deep breath and walk in to meet 'Vince'. I look around and catch the eye of a man sitting on his own. Is that him? The look in his eyes and the smile tell me it is. I take a seat, we introduce ourselves and I get a drink from the bar. We chatted for a little while about what brought us to the site and what we were both looking for. It was apparent very quickly we were both looking for the same thing. We were both looking for some fun and an opportunity to explore our fantasies.
I nip to the ladies and I can feel his eyes on me as I walk away. Whilst I'm in the ladies I'm thinking of this softly spoken, handsome, unassuming and very intelligent man. Should I go back to his hotel or should I politely decline and go home?