Jen: "We have mentioned our 20 methods to increased sexual pleasure in a previous show. One method involves the couple shopping together for sex toys. I see you have brought some to show our audience. Would you tell us some more about them, please?"
Jackie: "Sure. These are powerful ways to increase the libido in both sexes. One toy I particularly like is the remote control butterfly."
Laura: "A butterfly? You mean it really flies?"
Jackie, laughing: "No, it is a type of vibrator that the woman can wear over her genital area, in her panties or even without underwear! It is shaped like and looks like a butterfly, hence the name. It makes contact with the clitoral area and is completely hidden from the view of others. She can use the small remote control to give herself pleasure whenever she desires, like in her car, on the train, even in public places. AND, if she is in a good, trusting relationship, her lover can use the remote control to drive her crazy at times like dinner at a nice restaurant, at the show, etc. I know one well-known female CEO who has one. She is so busy that she can use it between meetings and during frequent travels, and it is even rumored that she used it once during a board meeting!"
Jen: "Wow! That sounds very exciting."
Jackie: "Yes, it is. And another new toy is the crystal dildos. Actually Pyrex. They are clear and clean - they can be totally washed and sanitized because they are non-porous. And they can be heated or refrigerated with no problem. They hold their heat, unlike other materials. Can you imagine using a heated one almost to the PONR, point of no return, then inserting one fresh from the fridge? It's quite an experience, believe me! Their premiere device is called the 'Grand Slam'. It has a shorter head on the rear, just right for the sphincter muscle, then a longer length specifically tested to give the 'G' spot maximum stimulation, and a clitoris massager, all swept up to a convenient handle for self-use. It has been extensively tested and refined to perfection."
Laura, smiling: "That is quite a device. I would like to try that myself." Jen, laughing: "Get in line, Laura. I saw it first. Jackie, you have mentioned different physical stimulation items. What about techniques that individuals or couples can use?" Jackie: "There are many various techniques that couples or singles can use. Couples should communicate their needs to each other, not just during the sex act, but at various times away from the bedroom. They could both drop sexual innuendos and hints throughout the day, things that will excite their partner's imagination. Wear some sexy underwear or lingerie and give your partner peeks during the day of what is to come later. Set the mood with a nice dinner, (But not a big one), candles, soft music, or whatever will make you forget all your other troubles and SEE your partner. Edible oils are good for massages, as is other contact with fingers, hands, arms & legs, tongues, whatever."
Laura: " We read about a specific technique, the Venus Butterfly, in your book. Please describe that for us."
Jackie: "Certainly. It can be done to yourself, but is better with a partner. After sufficient preparation and foreplay, and when you are both ready, your partner starts by lying in between your legs, looking up toward your face, with his or her mouth over your genitals. He starts by licking your clit with quick, soft strokes, about 10 or 20 times or so, then he moves his tongue down the vaginal opening, and up and down between the lips and opening several times, nice and slow, not touching the clit. Then he returns to the clit with the fast, directed, almost vibrating strokes and repeats the process over and over again, from clit to vagina and back."
Jen: "How long does he keep this up?"
Jackie: "Until she reaches about 80% of the PONR, or climax point. Then he inserts a finger or other device into her vagina and starts massaging her 'G' spot, on the upper wall, about an inch and a half inside, close to the urethra. He can pat it or rub it, whatever SHE likes best, while continuing the external technique with his tongue."
Laura: "How does he know when to insert his fingers?"
Jackie: "Good question. She tells him! Like, '80, 80', or 'NOW, NOW', or whatever words or sounds she wants, to give him the ok to proceed to the next level. If they communicate like this, she will be getting maximum stimulation and he will know that he is providing her ultimate pleasure. Slight adjustments may need to be made because we are all different. Besides, why would you continue to let someone use unpleasurable techniques on you? TELL HIM! But tell him what is good, not just what he is doing wrong. None of us want to be criticized."
Jen: "We have three members of our audience who have learned the Venus Butterfly technique. Welcome, Sherrie & Rod, and Tanya. Tell us about your experiences. Does it really work?
Sherrie: "Oh, Yeah, it's the most luscious feeling I have ever had. And it was fairly easy to teach my husband Rod how to do it. We are fairly open and willing to try new things to keep the excitement in our marriage. We still have regular sex but he doesn't have to worry if he doesn't get me off, and I don't worry about trying to cum every time, because I don't and won't. I know that he is loving and caring enough to do this for me when I need it. In return, I give him whatever he wants. It's a win-win situation for us." Sherrie is a pretty wavy-haired brunette, in her early 30's, about 5'9", tan, thin looking build because of her height but not skinny at all. Rod is 6'0", tanned, better that average looking, and very fit. Rod: "It's a lot of fun for me. I have always loved eating her anyway, and now I know how to give her the most pleasure. And I don't worry about being perfect during normal sex because we both know that the other person will do something later to make up for the little imperfections. Since the pressure has been taken off our lovemaking, we are actually more relaxed and even have better 'normal' sex now."
Sherrie, hugging Rod: "Maybe variety really IS the spice of life. It's all good."
Tanya: "I'm single and not in a long term relationship. In fact, I think I'm bisexual. I really like a man inside me, and beside me. However, they often do not satisfy me. The better ones are willing to try the Venus Butterfly on me, and most can learn it sufficiently enough to give me pleasure. And, I have been with a few women. They understand a woman's feelings and are able to learn this very quickly, and do it with much skill. I'm really glad I learned this technique and can share it with others." Tanya is in her late 20's, streaked hair, around 5'7", full-breasted, about 130lbs, not fat but more of a solid woman.
