Woman Finds Her Perfect Match

This is a very vanilla sweet story about a virgin man finding a woman who falls in love with his inexperience, genuine personality and sweetness. Both of them realize what they truly want and find it.

This story came to me, and I wanted to write it out. It reminds me of who I am and what I had hoped would have happened to me when I was younger. I hope you enjoy reading this.

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SPEED DATING

Ben and Sarah met at a speed dating event on a Saturday afternoon at a board game convention in the late summer.

Both of them were in their mid-20s living in Minneapolis.

In the three minutes that they had, the two spoke about the type of games that they liked to play, how often they have attended conventions, their favorite games and how long they have been playing board games.

They were very passionate about their answers and were smiling at each other.

Ben thought she was really cute with her pink highlighted hair and glasses that fit her face very well.

He loved her nerdy game shirt. He liked her answers and wanted to chat more with her than the 3 minutes.

Sarah liked his smile and also thought he was cute. She liked his boyish looks and the geeky shirt he was wearing for the convention.

She also liked his answers and did not want the conversation to end.

Both of them felt relaxed and enjoyed talking. The buzzer came and they moved to the next person.

After they had sped through all the other participants, they retrieved their cards and saw who wanted to talk to them further.

Both Ben and Sarah had marked each other's cards. Ben had one other person who was interested in meeting him, Megan, while Sarah had three men on her card.

After meeting with the Megan to briefly talk and exchange numbers. Ben waited for Sarah.

She came his way, and they finally started to chat. They found a quiet little area in the convention hall.

"Hi there," Sarah said. "Wow that was fun. Did you have a good time?"

"Hi, yes I did," Ben replied. "I have never tried that. It was better than I expected."

S: "Well, tell me more about yourself Ben. What else do you like to do other than play games? What do you do for work?"

B: "I like trivia, I go a few times a month to a few different breweries in town as well as trying to get together with some guy friends for games. The beer is a bonus. I also like hiking and traveling. I am an accountant. What about you Sarah?"

S: "I like getting together with my girlfriends once a month to chat and meet for brunch or dinner. I also like trivia and trying different breweries, although I have not been in a while. Hiking sounds fun. Any places you like the best? Traveling overseas has been exciting as well as in the US. I am an aerospace engineer."

B: "Wow an aerospace engineer! How did you get into that? Where are your favorite places to travel to here and abroad? I like hiking almost anywhere in Minnesota, but when I visit friends in Colorado, I find some good trails there too. Do you have a favorite brewery here in Minneapolis?"

S: "I really liked science in school and always have been fascinated with space travel. I went to the University of Houston and was able to work with the Space Center there while getting my degree. I really love Europe. I like Colorado too. My family is from New York, so I visit there often. When I am downtown, I love going to Surly. What made you want to be an accountant?

B: "That is really amazing. I bet that experience was incredible. I have not been to Europe yet. I like traveling to Canada. Toronto is my favorite place so far. I have been to New York once in the summer. I went into accounting because I love math and statistics. I am a baseball fan too. I often get tickets to the Twins for a night out by myself or with some of my male friends."

They kept talking for nearly an hour. Both of them realized they had games coming up and soon and had to end their conversation.

"I have a 3pm game," Sarah said. "I really enjoyed talking to you Ben. Here is my number.

Please call me next week. Let's get a beer together."

Ben was really happy how forward and interested she was. He had not been out on a date in a while.

He gave her number as well. Sarah shook his hand and smiled as she walked away.

He had a game coming up too. He was happy he had a nice conversation with someone so sweet.

He thought he would also text Megan about a date who he was talking with at first.

Ben looked forward to meeting each woman for a date.

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FIRST DATES

In the next week, Ben had a date with both Megan and Sarah. The date with Megan did not end up going well for either of them. But he was glad to have met her.

Two days later on a Thursday night, he met with Sarah. She still had the pink highlights in her hair and wore a nice dress and a 20-sided die necklace.

He really liked how much of a gamer she was.

Ben wore a polo from his college, Brown University, and a nice pair of slacks.

They found a table that was quiet and resumed a lot of their conversation from the game convention.

Sarah told him all about being an aerospace engineer, the University of Houston and NASA.

He talked about attending an ivy league school before returning home to get his MBA at the University of Minnesota.

"I loved being at Brown," Ben said. "Rhode Island was so beautiful. It was such a great place to attend college. My parents preferred I get my MBA here since being at Brown cost so much."

Sarah really liked he had a good education and was in a professional career. She also liked that he made an effort to dress nice for their evening.

"I learned so much while studying at the University of Houston," she said. "My time at the NASA Space Center was unforgettable. I am so grateful for the experience."

They kept talking over another beer. Ben was so fascinated by her education and career. He felt they could talk about that all night.

As they finished their beers, Sarah suggested they go for walk and chat some more.

Ben liked this idea and held the door open for her and they slowly walked outside through the neighborhood shopping district.

"So, Ben, tell me how it is you are single," Sarah said. "I think you are really nice, and I want to see you again."

Ben knew at some point this question was coming. "Well, I have not dated that many women," he replied. "I think also being only 5'5" has made it more challenging. I know you are about my height, but other women I have met want someone taller, thinner, more muscular or someone who is interested in different hobbies. How is it you are looking for someone?"

"Well, I think you are really sweet and kind," Sarah responded. "I have met a lot of men since getting out of college who just want to have sex. I want more than that. I also find that men don't like that I have a professional career or that I like board games."

"I think you are brilliant," Ben said. "I could listen to you talk about your studies or board games or anything you like. I am glad we have beer and board games in common."

"Me too," Sarah replied. "I think on our next date, we should try going to a movie or trivia. We'll chat about it over text this week. How does that sound?"

"I would like that very much Sarah," Ben replied. "I definitely want to see you again."

They made their way back to their cars and said their goodbyes, Sarah squeezed his hand for a moment longer. She smiled and got in her car.

Ben watched her drive away wondering how lucky a guy could be to have such a nice date.

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Ben and Sarah chatted over the next week. They decided on a movie date. They decided on the Alamo Draft House east of St Paul so they could have a beer before the movie.

They met in the bar area. Sarah was in a colorful dress that blended well with her hair and accentuated her figure and her blue eyes. Ben wore another nice polo and jeans.

They enjoyed their beers before moving into the movie theater. As the previews came on,

Sarah whispered what movies she like that looked good to her and smiled at him. Ben smiled back, he felt good about the choice of their date.

Sarah looked so beautiful to him when they were so close. Ben tried not to be so nervous. He put his hand on the arm rest, and she put her hand on under his and

encouraged him to hold it.

Ben did, and they took turns who had their hand on top throughout the movie. They both enjoyed the movie and talked about it as they walked together to her car.

"I really had a great time with you tonight, Ben," Sarah said. "I want to see you again next week for trivia. Would you like to go out again?"

He smiled. His confidence was growing a bit. "Yes, I would really like to see you again as well," he replied. "I had a great time tonight too."

Ben initiated a hug, and Sarah almost kissed him but settled to embrace him.

She liked how warm he was, and they held it for a few seconds.

Sarah had not told Ben that she went out with the other two guys from the speed dating, but nothing had happened with them.

She was feeling all in with him and just needed another date to confirm it all.

They each drove home feeling optimistic that more good things were to come in their futures.

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A FREE PASS TO 1ST BASE

Ben and Sarah texted a few days during the week before they got together for trivia as they had planned on a Thursday night.

Ben knew one or two of them, but the others were just looking for a team. Their team finished in 3rd place.

Both of them had the best time being on a team of people at the brewery.

After they celebrated with their team, the two of them found a quiet spot in the brewery to chat.

"That was so much fun tonight," Sarah said excitedly. "I forgot how much I like trivia. This was such a great idea."

"I am glad you had such a good time," Ben replied. "This is one of my favorite breweries. I had a great time as well. Trivia is so much fun."

Sarah held his hands. "I have something I want to talk about, Ben," she said softly. Ben tensed up, he thought this was too good to be true.

"I have had the best time with you over our last three dates. I went out with the other men that I wanted to meet, and I did not have nearly as good of a time as I have had with you. In fact, I never went on a 2nd date with either of them."

She continued. "You have been a perfect gentleman and exactly the type of guy I want to be with. I want to keep seeing you and see where this goes. I am optimistic that things will get more excited for the both of us."

Ben was so relieved. "I am so glad to hear that," he replied. "I have never dated anyone like you Sarah. You have been so nice, and I thoroughly enjoyed your company. When you put your hand in mine at the movie, my heart leapt. It is the best I have felt in a long time."

She squeezed his hands a little tighter and smiled at him. Sarah loved the words he used to describe how he was feeling.

"I am so glad to hear that you had a good time with me too," she said. "Come over here so we can sit on the same side of the booth."

Ben sat next to her, and she held his hand again. "I have not dated anyone like you either," she continued.

"You have not rushed me with anything or put any unreasonable expectations on me. I am tired of men that treat me awful. I am so glad you are different."

Ben smiled at her and moved a bit closer. "I need to tell you something as well," he replied, closed his eyes and took a deep breath. "Sarah, I am a virgin. I have not even been to 2nd base with a woman. I have barely been to 1st."

"I went on some dates in college and after, so I went to the speed dating event to hopefully meet someone who would want to go out with me. I really want to keep seeing you. I like you."

He continued. "I am nervous about telling you all this. But I also wanted you to know about my inexperience and if it made a difference to you. You are the first woman I had the chance and courage to tell."

Sarah smiled at him and became much more relaxed and excited. "I couldn't believe I could get so lucky," she said briefly touching his face. "It does not bother me at all that you are a virgin or inexperienced."

She continued. "I am so glad for you to enjoy your firsts with me when the time is right. I think it will be fun for you to get more confident and we can do it together. For now, I want you to get to first base."

She reached up and kissed him and he kissed her back. Both of them moaned and cooed.

They put their arms around each other and just kept kissing. Ben loved how good she tasted. Both of them liked how the other kissed.

"Wow, that was amazing," Ben said. "It has been a while since I kissed anyone. You are a great kisser."

"So are you, give yourself some credit.," Sarah replied. They kissed more and held an embrace for a little bit longer. "You can use your tongue. I will help you get more relaxed and certain with your feelings." She smiled at him. He loved the way she smiled.

They kissed again and she rubbed his back as he started to use some of his tongue, and he put her hands through her curly brown hair with green highlights.

She cooed more and then they finally broke the kiss.

"You are already getting better at this," Sarah said. "I can't wait for more with you."

The bartender came around and let them know they would be closing in 15 minutes, so they needed to close out their tabs.

"Hey Sarah, don't break his heart," Steve the bartender blurted out. "Ben is one of the good ones. I have known him a long time."

"I will say he is," Sarah replied. "I don't plan on doing any of that." She turned to Ben. "How do you know Steve?"

"He bartended a few places when I was in grad school and then he came here where I like to play trivia," Ben replied.

They paid their tabs, thanked the staff and made their way to the doors. "I like holding hands," Sarah said directly.

"I would like to do that with you. How do you feel about that?"

"I would love to hold your hand, it makes this feel more real," Ben replied. He took her hand, and they walked to her car.

They slowly walked and both of them just chatted about the trivia game as they made it to her car.

"I cannot wait to see you again," Sarah said as she held his hands. "I really appreciate you telling me all this tonight. I know it was difficult for you. Please know that I am serious when I say that your inexperience is turn on for me. I have had too many trashy men. I want someone who values me and enjoys dating."

Ben went into kiss her. They started a passionate kiss, and she loved how his confidence grew more. They embraced as he pinned her against her car.

"Wow that just keeps getting better," he replied. "I really like kissing you. This has been wonderful. I am excited about our next date as well."

"I like kissing you too," Sarah said. "I also like how you just moved in to kiss me just now. We will take this slow and talk about when I think we should do more."

They kissed one more time before getting in their cars and heading home. Sarah never thought that was what Ben was going to tell her.

She kept thinking how good his mouth was going to feel on her breasts and helping him enjoy his first experience at 2nd base.

Sarah also thought about how so many other women she knew, including her close girlfriends, would not have kept dating someone so inexperienced.

She was so glad she felt the opposite about Ben.

Sarah kept thinking if the kissing was this good, everything else hopefully would be.

She remembered when she was a virgin, how nervous she was and how awful the last few men had treated her.

Sarah would also tell Ben a deep secret about her past when the time was right as they got more intimate.

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GETTING CLOSER

Ben and Sarah went on several more dates over the 6 weeks. As the end of the summer was approaching, they decided on a hike and a Twins game for events outdoors.

They also wanted to do adult indoor mini golf among other movie and trivia dates.

The hike went really well. Ben showed her one of his favorite places to visit. It was peaceful, quiet and they made a mini picnic out of it as well.

She loved that he enjoyed nature and wanted to get out be active.

When they had got to the summit of their easy 3-mile hike, Ben showed her what a great view they had. She was loving how his confidence was improving.

He wrapped his hands around her waist as they looked out from the top.

Ben rested his hands right at her waist, but she also knew he was really close to the top of her ass. She made no motion to stop him.

Sarah closed her eyes for a moment and just enjoyed his embrace. The view was spectacular. She was glad he brought her here and hoped they would return again.

She turned around and kissed him. Ben felt even more at ease as he kissed her back and pulled her in for a hug.

He was so thankful that Sarah liked him, and he enjoyed his time with her more and more.

They agreed to do this again if the weather held up. There would be plenty of fall and winter activities that both of them looked forward to enjoying together in the city.

The baseball game was also a huge success. Sarah liked baseball and she loved the new Twins stadium.

Ben really enjoyed going to the games and the great food and beer in the ballpark.

As much as she enjoyed the game, the best part for her was sitting next to Ben and holding his hand and listening to him talk about baseball.

She loved how genuine he was, she felt like he was completely being himself and enjoying her company.

Sarah truly felt like she was finally really dating for the first time in her life rather than being focused on intimacy like many of her other girlfriends would.

She was having fun. She saw the pure joy in his eyes, and it made her want him more.

She had not been to mini golf in a while. Luckily there was an adult indoor one where they could add alcoholic drinks and make it even more fun.

It was a perfect date night idea in her mind. On one of the holes, Ben was behind her helping her with her swing and he put her hand around her waist.

She loved his gentle touch and could tell there was a bulge in his jeans.

Sarah wanted to wait just a little bit longer before they moved forward with their intimacy.

Every time they kissed, she wanted more from him. She thought of a good transition.

After the mini golf they walked back to her car hand in hand. Once they arrived, they started to kiss, leaning on her car.

She looked around and saw very few people in the close vicinity, no one paying them any bother and put his right hand on her shirt covered breast.

He looked at her and she put her hand on his, smiling at him and encouraging him to hold and squeeze her breast. "2nd base is coming Ben," she said softly.

"I wanted to know how this felt before we got closer. I thought this would be a nice first step."

Ben nodded and kept kissing her. He loved holding and squeezing her breast as they kissed. His bulge was getting more noticeable to her as well.

He could feel the outline of her nipple against the palm of his hand. He swirled his palm so he could feel it through her bra and shirt.

Sarah was loving this and put his other hand on her left breast. He could feel that nipple as well.

They stopped a moment to look around to ensure no one was watching them. Both of them felt like teenagers.

The excitement of having some privacy in this cute neighborhood motivated both of them to keep going.

Sarah squeezed his butt, and he smiled at her. He cupped and squeezed both breasts as he went back to kissing her, and she let out a low coo at how good he made her feel.

His hands went to her back, and they embraced, finished making out. "Wow, that was just wow," Ben said excitedly. "You feel so good, and kissing is still just so amazing. I love that we did this tonight and did not get caught. It felt spectacular to touch you like that. I look forward to when we reach the next step. Whenever that is."