Why Does A Man Submit

Why does a man really submit to a woman?

When a man is at a crossroads in his life questioning everything about himself and facing down himself in the mirror having a deep reflective moment that last almost a year, things must change, he must change.

As an adult coming out of a culture where even the thought of submission to a woman as a man is not only verboten but is not taught as a way a man ought to be it was hard, hell, damn near difficult to break free from.

Surrendering puts a man in a mindset that works on his ego until the breaking-point to where he can experience what real true love is in an open mental state that allows for his heart to be accessed so that his emotions flow forth in order to truly free him from his prior state of egotistical behaviors.

When a man truly surrenders after his breaking-point and his ego is broken he can then accept being drawn to being submissive because his heart is now free to embrace his mind and his mind is free to embrace his heart. The re-marriage of both mind and heart is a wonderful and beautiful thing.

The submission of a man to the woman that he dearly loves can either be shown or seen without even knowing what really goes on between the two. His love abounds in ways that others are drawn to a hungry itch to know what he and his woman got going on. The others may be timid and frightful of actually asking and that's the trump card that is the most valuable not only to the Submissive Man but for his Queen as well.

A man's Queen can use the same trump card to her fellow women and flaunt her stuff in front of other women. This allows her man to become more submissive and more obedient; Plus, it personifies his masculinity in way a normal man cannot. He stands more confident in himself knowing that the chemistry and order to which resides between and within their relationship not only is powerful be truthful.

A submissive man is not weak, he is strong. An Alpha Male can be submissive to his Queen and still be a real true man. This is the freedom that is made manifest that leads to the liberty of a man to be his true self, and not have to pretend aka live a lie.

This is where being kept honest brings in the allowance to be disciplined as a submissive man. A man that surrenders to being disciplined in whatever fashion by his Queen brings upon himself a constitution of being accountable and responsible. This new constitution is governed by his Queen. Ridding one's self of undesired toxic behaviors.

A man that is free to submit to being bound and governed by his Queen is a real true man that loves accountability and strives for being responsible. Discipline helps and it convicts, but both helping and being convicted brings about positive changes in him. A truly surrendered & submissive man desires these things in life.

All of this brings forth even more love and more passion in a relationship. It all creates an even stronger bound between the man and woman. She is free to not worry about whether her man is full of fidelity and loyalty. Being a submissive man allows one to exalt and cherish his Queen even more than a regular man in a what's known as a 'Vanilla Relationship or Traditional Relationship' can. That man is limited mentally and constrained in his heart to the enslavement of traditional dogmatic generational indoctrination.

Some men desire to be Playboys who fornicate freely with unsatisfied hearts. His mind is overran with the dopamine of wanting more and more. His mind uncontrollably lack self discipline and his life has no one to bear discipline upon him. Deep inside his soul he's miserable but his soul is incapable of expressing that because his heart is hardened by the oppression of his mind, and his mind is enslaved by his ego.

A submissive man desires monogamy. His passion for his Queen bears the good fruit of his devotion, fidelity, loyalty, and honor to his girlfriend or wife. He is well disciplined of self because his mind has been humbled, his heart has been opened, and his soul screams out in freedom filled love towards his Queen. The adoration he shows her is also evident in and upon his face. The way he talks to her and sometimes gets nervous like a little boy is the most hallmark moment that he is truly in love with her. When he calls her Sweetheart, Honey, Baby, and other endearing love filled terms is emotional.

His physical love to his Queen in the way that he adores her with caressing, kisses, hugs, and others forms has a far deeper and much more soulful expression than any traditional vanilla man.

All these things stated is the end result of what "Why does a man really submit to a woman?" It brings the woman more pleasure and it all uplifts her with honor in a man's selfless service to his wife or girlfriend aka Queen.

I'm not going to state that this is a perfect explanation by no means. There is none. This has been my personal opinions and thoughts. I go by one rule with publications; "Take what ya need and leave the rest". I hope that this brings you to a better understanding and helps you on whatever journey that you're on in life. If you don't have a love interest in your life, I hope you find that one. Mena and Women do need to come together and have a CONVERSATION, not a debate, not a cut your throat session either. A simple and civil CONVERSATION about relationships. The CONVERSATION ought not t be dominated by either side. The CONVERSATION ought to be one of learning.

Let's have that CONVERSATION.

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