So is Valentine's Day the best day and way to celebrate true love?
I suppose it could be and then again, if you are in a relationship with someone who you are not indeed hearts and flowers in love entangled, it may be a chore.
The story about to quickly unfold here is the latter. The pressure Dale felt as a lover of any woman who would have him was not about Valentine's Day at all. He didn't feel the passionate, cannot live without you forever love of the romance novels he spent hours re-stocking in the main library in downtown Albuquerque.
He was a buff weight lifter, soccer player, and a triathlete, so he was extremely fit and healthy. He was always on the watch for a quiet moment with you if you were within his reach where ever he was. He had scored with women he met in the grocery store, and also with women he had seen sitting alone in a park.
This Valentine's Day he was going to take Judy for the full gambit of romantic activities related to love and romance, starting with candy, flowers, and a card at her door when he picked her up for the evening date they had scheduled two or three months earlier.
He had reservations at a very cozy, classy, upscale steak and cocktails restaurant near Old Town. The booth he reserved was open only to a hallway that leads to the office. The wait staff seldom walked there, and he had always requested it because of its inherent privacy away from the main dining area.
He arrived at her house on time. She had prepared dirty martinis and oven-hot blue cheese mini-pastries in her living room with the lights on low with smooth ballroom dance music in the background. They seated themselves on a love seat in front of her small gas log Horno-like fireplace, using an antique brass box for a cocktail table.
He was pleased to see her in an LBD, as in his experience of 25 years of dating, that usually implied romance and an interest in sex. He acknowledged how terrific she looked, and noticed that she had a sudden blush in reaction to his compliment. The dress was short, fitted to her figure, and a special dress for her to wear, as it looked very expensively made. She was wearing a single strand of pearls, pearl earrings, and a single pearl pin on her left chest above her breast.
She had on black patent leather heels and no hose on her golden tan legs. The dress accented her beauty and drew his eyes to her hips. She had a very balanced figure, and seemed perfectly shaped, which undoubtedly would cause other women to envy.
He was wearing a navy blazer, gray slacks with a white shirt closed with a regimental stripe tie in gold and red. He dressed carefully, and he always seemed to be noticeably neat and pressed.
He raised his glass to her and offered a toast to a lovely lady and a fun evening.
While sipping their drinks, they discussed dinner and the plans for the evening, which was full of romance and closeness. Judy hadn't eaten at this restaurant, so she asked a number of questions which he answered just enough to keep it intriguing to anticipate. His charm showed as much then as it might later in the evening.
Her loveseat was the shortest length loveseat he had ever seen but was the perfect size for her small living room. She was either very nervous, or forward, or just naturally casual which he enjoyed. She was touching him with almost every comment she made. His thigh was tingling where she had her hand, and he had begun to think of the end of the date, and she was apparently happy to have him there with her.
She had the flowers in a vase she had had ready, the candy was at hand in a pottery candy dish, and the martini pitcher was at his right side on a little Navajo Drum table on a serving tray. Her living room was a perfect studied, predate cocktails setting.
He wondered who was going to seduce whom. She had him already way more interested in her than the evening, and she appeared to have anticipated all of his masculine as well as lustful, maybe romantic thoughts and hopes.
She knew he dreaded Valentine's Day expectations and appeared to have neutralized all of them before he arrived. He did not realize that she dreaded Valentine's Day because of the same reasons. She was as experienced at dating as he was, and had been exposed to the expectations of Valentine's Day with as much dread as him.