I'm Bill and I work for a large oil company. After college, I spent 3 years working on drilling rigs in the Gulf of Mexico. I learned a lot about the oil business, but my social life was virtually non-existent. Finally, I was promoted to the main office in Houston. With the money I saved, I was able to buy a house and start a normal life. I made many friends at work and in the neighborhood. I met many nice women, but no one special. My sex life was pretty limited, but that was really my own choosing. Don't get me wrong, just physical sex was nice, but when it was over, it was over. I needed there to be more to it than that. After a year, I wondered if I would ever find the right woman.
My best friend, Sam and his girlfriend Nancy, invited me to a party at their place. They told me that they wanted to introduce me to Nancys best friend. She had been dating someone for about a year, but they broke up a couple of months ago. Blind dates scared me, but they assured me I would like her.
When I arrived, they immediately introduced me to Cindy. We shook hands and exchanged hellos. Cindy was a nice looking woman about 5'6" with shoulder length brown hair and a cute smile. I think it was the smile that got me. Then suddenly, they had something to take care of and left us alone. There were a couple of moments of awkward silence before I asked Cindy if she wanted to get something to eat and drink. She did and as we ate, we became more relaxed and started talking.
I told her that blind dates always scared me. She said she was uncomfortable with them too and almost backed out tonight, but Nancy wouldn't let her. I told her I was glad she didn't and she smiled.
We talked about where we went to college. I told her where I worked and what I did. I asked her what she did.
She said, "I work for a small medical supply company. My degree is in Marketing, but I do a little of everything. I've been in sales and advertising. Lately, I've been helping write proposals to generate new business."
All too soon, the party was winding down. I said, "Cindy, I'm sure glad Sam and Nancy talked both of us into coming. I had a very nice time. Could I give you a call and maybe go to dinner or movie sometime?" I always hated this part. It's embarrassing to wait for the woman to say yes, we'll see, or just plain no.
Cindy said, "I'd really like that. I had a nice time too and would be happy to get together again."
I said, "Great, I'll call you next week." I called Wednesday and made a date for dinner and a movie Saturday night.
We got to the restaurant and the food was excellent, but the service was extremely slow and we missed our movie time. I asked, "Do you want to catch the late showing, or go get a drink and talk?"
She said, "The last show won't let out until well after midnight. Let's just go somewhere and talk. I've had enough alcohol tonight, but there's a coffee shop near my house that I go to all the time. It's nice and quiet. We can continue our conversation there."
I said that was fine with me. We got our coffee and found a booth in the back. We continued talking and the subject of sex came up (she did, I didn't). She said, "I take sex seriously, it isn't a sport. I don't sleep with someone just for the fun of it. There has to be an emotional attachment and an exclusive relationship. I haven't had many partners, 3 to be exact, but they were in a committed relationship. For what ever reasons, they didn't work out."
I said, "I understand completely." We finished our coffee and I took her home. I walked her to the door but she didn't ask me in. So I told her I had a nice time and would like to do it again. She said she would like that too. I leaned over and kissed her, just a plain kiss on the lips. She smiled and went inside. I stood there for a few seconds thinking how nice that simple kiss was.
The frequency of our dating increased over the next few months. We went out 2-3 nights a week and talked on the phone most every day. Most of the time we went out alone, but sometimes with Sam and Nancy. I really enjoyed being with Cindy and always had a good time. After we had been dating for 3 months and I decided I was ready to commit to an exclusive relationship with her.
Friday, after dinner, instead of stopping for coffee, which had become our custom, I asked if we could go to her place to talk. She looked a little puzzled but said OK. We sat down and she asked, "What's this about?"
I said, "Cindy I really love being with you. I remember on our first date, you said for our relationship to go any further than friends, there had to be an emotional bond and an exclusive relationship. I'm ready for one, with you. You've had my heart for some time and I'm falling in love with you."
She just had a startled look on her face and said nothing. I was beginning to worry, but finally she smiled and said, "I'm falling in love with you too. In fact, I'm in love with you."
I took her in my arms and said, "I love you too. I got you something to celebrate. I handed her a small box containing a gold heart pendant. She opened it, smiled and said, "It's beautiful, I love it. I'll cherish it always." I put it around her neck. It looked beautiful on her; she looked beautiful.
I said, "Just because we're going steady doesn't mean that I expect us to make love. It's up to you, but I'm ready when ever you are."
She laughed and said, "I'd like that very much. Wait here, I'll be back." She headed to her bedroom. I was so excited that I had goose bumps. After about 15 minutes, she walked back in a sheer black negligee with no panties. I just stared and she asked, "Do you like it? I bought it several weeks ago." I had a questioning look on my face. She said, "I knew this day was coming."