Once upon a time, there was a young woman named Sukh who lived in the City of Ottawa, Ontario. Such missed her homeland of Punjab State, located in the heart of India. Such lived in a rented room somewhere in the City of Ottawa and worked hard to pay for her rent and groceries. Sukh worked at Tim Horton's and most of the time, she didn't care for the work because the customers had many ways of being mean to her. In India, people tend to express their dislike of others while in Canada, they were more subtle and passive aggressive. For the lovely but naΓ―ve Sukh, this took some getting used to.
Canadians claim to be the friendliest people on the planet, and while Sukh liked Canada, she knew that many saw her as a foreigner, a stranger, and therefore somewhat less than them. Sukh studied chemical engineering at the University of Chandigarh and aspired to work for a major company in India, but circumstances drove her to come to Ontario, Canada, to pursue a different life. Sukh toils away at Tim Horton's and hopes to enroll at a Canadian university someday in order to complete her studies. Sometimes, it seems like a pipe dream for the hearty young Indian woman...
"Good morning," said the big and tall young black man seated at a back corner of Tim Horton's, his deep voice snatching Sukh out of her reverie. The young woman was pushing a broom, a dour look upon her face. A pair of white college student types were dozing off in a corner, and Sukh had been told by Ali, the African manager, to rouse them. Such had done just that, and gotten cussed out for her troubles. Now she found herself facing a well-dressed stranger with intense eyes and an enigmatic smile.
"Hello," Sukh replied, using her best customer service voice. Working at Tim Horton's taught Sukh that people in Canada were friendly for the most part but could turn against you at any time. Still, there was something about this young black man who looked right into her eyes as he spoke. Was it Sukh's imagination or did she see sympathy, or pity, in his eyes? The young woman stiffened. Like most Sikh women, Sukh is a proud gal and loathes to be pitied. She locked eyes with the dark-skinned stranger, wondering what he wanted.
"Ma'am, are you from Punjab?" asked the young man, and Sukh nodded, then paused. In her experience, brown people were considered to be one and the same by the denizens of Canada regardless of their origin. Sukh had lost count of how many Canadians, black and white, who thought that Indians, Pakistanis, Bangladeshis and Sri Lankans were one and the same. The ignorance of such people could certainly boggle the mind. Such was no world history expert but she'd never tell an Irishman that he was the same thing as an Italian. Such was more tactful than that...
"Yes, what if I am?" Sukh replied, with more haughtiness than she felt, expecting an ignorant rebuke from this stranger who spoke English without an accent. The young man smiled, and nodded, as though confirming something inside his head. He rose from his chair, inclined his head, and held out his hand. Sukh, who had been cleaning the restaurant all morning, briefly hesitated then shook the stranger's hand. Nodding, the stranger replied to her at last, and what he said surprised Sukh...
"My name is Steve, and my roommate Dhaliwal is from Punjab, he's teaching me about Sikhism," the stranger said, as he shook Sukh's hand. The young woman looked this interloper up and down, and a flicker of surprise appeared in her brown eyes. Steve smiled, and this tall, large, dark-skinned fellow, with a decidedly imposing demeanor, looked at Sukh like they were kindred spirits. Sukh paused, and bit her lip, wondering if she should take this strange young man named Steve at face value...
"You like Sikhism?" Sukh asked dubiously, pondering why Steve, who looked like he was from the depths of Africa, yet spoke English flawlessly, seemed to be interested in her faith. Sukh had met many Canadians of all hues who claimed to be fascinated by brown people, but usually they had ulterior motives. Steve nodded at Sukh and then launched into a brief tirade about his fascination with Sikhism and its prophet du jour, whose philosophy he apparently found pretty legit. Such an admission surprised Sukh, to say the least...
"I am reading the teachings of your Guru Nanak, and I found his writings fascinating," Steve said, and he nodded sagely. Sukh did not quite remember how she ended up sitting across from Steve, who had finished his coffee. She could not quite recall how she got pulled into a discussion of Sikhism as a way of life, as seen through the eyes of a black man raised in North America. Steve was easy to talk to, and charming, without overdoing it, and while Sukh is usually guarded around men, especially foreign men, she did find him interesting.
"Facebook me," Sukh told Steve, scribbling her name on a receipt before smiling at him and returning to her work station. As Steve exited the restaurant, he waved at Sukh, who smiled at nodded at his retreating figure from the cash register. Standing next to Sukh, her manager Ali glowered at her, but the young woman ignored him. The foreigner reads good books and has a nice butt, Sukh thought to herself as Steve headed onto the street.