I can't tell you why, but the non-kissing incident continued to gnaw at me. Looking back, I think it was that I didn't like being characterized as not nice. That's really what he had accused me of.
Nobody had ever accused me of that before, but maybe that was because they were afraid to say something unflattering to me. I hadn't thought of myself that way, but I guess I could understand how he could.
The next afternoon I called Jennifer.
"Did he say anything about me, about what happened?"
"First, he would never say anything about what happened between you. He would consider that your business. He doesn't tell tales.
"Second, even if he somehow slipped, I would never repeat it. I respect him too much to do that. He did make a general comment about you and that I can repeat. He said you were complicated."
"Complicated?"
"Yes."
"I have no idea how to take that."
It was better than other things he could have said. Maybe it was like saying, "Your baby looks intelligent," instead of, "What an ugly kid."