I have a female friend who is married and who seems to always be telling me about her sex life. Maybe women do that with each other, but I keep thinking that she is trying to get me to make a pass at her. I don't want to be rejected or punished if I am wrong- and I figure that if she can tell me about her sex life, she can propose sexual interactions to me.
I did kiss her once, actually several times (and it was so very nice, but she didn't seem to want to do that again because she later told me that I "should have asked first". Maybe so, but we were kissing for more than 15 minutes, and she had a lot of opportunity to tell me to stop if she did not want to kiss. That is even more true because I had a hand in her pants, fingering her labia gently without penetrating her. Very gentle but enough that I could feel the swelling and wetness. I know part of her was enjoying, but I guess she later decided that "IF you had asked, I would have refused".
One recurring theme in her stories about how sexy and demanding her husband is- is that he often suggests she set up a "3-way" with "one of her friends". I started laughing and when she asked what was so funny, I explained "I AM one of your friends... maybe you should tell him that you have set up a "3-way" and one of your friends agreed, on the condition that she (not him) would be in charge of the action- he would follow instructions."
She started to laugh, but then went serious and said, "THAT'S PERFECT...exactly what he deserves... and he will not see it coming! Then she started laughing again and was still laughing every time she looked at me and then looked at my crotch bulge.
She insisted on kissing when we parted- usually it is just a hug which I enjoy because I can imagine having her naked in bed, and I can feel her breasts pushing against my chest.
She says she enjoys hugs because they are "comforting", but I suspect that most guys who hug her are less comfortable when they get done with the hug. Maybe they are somewhat reassured that she likes them, but comforting? that would be a blow job or a quickie, NOT a hug.
So she apparently told her husband exactly the way I had suggested: "You are always asking me to set up a 3-way and I have a friend who agreed to do that Saturday night at 10 pm, but you need to agree that I am totally in control of "any action" - you don't order anyone around, you do what you are told to do.
She explained that she was sorry I could not have seen the silly look on his face as he imagined being ordered to do stuff that was clearly not going to be "on her agenda", with a woman who did not exist.
I had to burst her bubble and explain that "I don't have sex with other males- I don't even TOUCH them, so you aren't going to be able to order him to suck my cock or fuck my ass or order me to do that to him."
She laughed at me and explained that was exactly what she was going to order him to do- "and if you just shut up and play along, he will TOTALLY REFUSE... but if he doesn't, THEN (and only then) YOU CAN REFUSE. But make him refuse first.
I will change my mind, I don't want to lose both of you to each other! She thought that was hilarious and started laughing at the idea. Me, not so much.