I had a string of unsatisfying relationships starting with an ex-wife and it's been a slow process finding someone that I really connect with and have the kind of communication that can lead to amazing trust and intimacy. I have learned over the years that quickies can kill great sex so I make sure I put in the effort to please my woman with lots of foreplay and several orgasms before we head to the main event. It takes great control and effort to please a woman properly I don't do this for just anybody I meet and choose wisely.
I had to change my dating strategy to weed out the ladies that are not aware of how amazing sex can be between two people that strive to put the other person's pleasure ahead of their own and take pride in bringing the other person the most intense pleasure possible. When two people like this come together it is amazing beyond words.
I had time to kill after work and decided to stop at Whole check foods to pick up a few things for dinner and check out the beautiful women in sun dresses and yoga pants. The view was beyond words and I decided to have a seat in the Tap Room, have a drink and admire the beautiful people. I have learned to ask the right questions in the early stages of meeting someone to determine whether she is aware or not. I was just getting seated and lifting my glass for a second taste when I noticed her approaching and caught sight of her amazing figure in yoga pants and a thin tightly stretched top that displayed her braless breasts and amazing nipples in beautiful detail.
It appeared as though she was looking at me but I assumed she was headed to join someone seated at a table directly behind me and was quite surprised when she stopped in front of me and tipped her sunglasses and just looked at me and smiled. I knew there was something different about her and stood to introduce myself and ask her if she would like to join me. She smirked told me her name is Heidi and said she would love to as she sat in the chair I pulled out for her and ordered a drink.
She was everything I dream about in a woman, confident, fit, 5'6" black hair down past her shoulders, 140 pounds, early 40's in age I would guess, green eyes, perfect b cup breasts with perky stand up nipples, curvy hips and a great ass with a smile that lights up the room. The sexiest part by far was how smart and intuitive she is with a personality that makes you wonder how you ever lived before meeting her.
Right about the time I was thinking she is definitively not normal due to the type and scope of the questions she was asking without any signs of embarrassment about the very personal nature of her questions. I had just asked her three personal questions and saw her expression change to a sly smile as she said the same thing I was thinking about her,
"You're not normal"
We both laughed. Most people would think of this as something negative but we both take it as a compliment as we take pride in being aware of seeing the big picture in life and not being afraid of asking real questions to get to know someone intimately. The conversation flowed effortlessly and we talked for hours about everything from religion to cooking before calling it an evening. I walked her to her car and received the nicest hug and kiss before she boldly reached into my pants pocket brushing against my semi hard cock while she gave me a coy smile and pulled out my phone to enter her contact info.
I was so excited after meeting her that I don't remember driving home that night but by the time I arrived she had sent me a sweet text telling me how much she enjoyed meeting me and sent me a sexy picture of her lying in bed and a text saying sweet dreams. The first time meeting we had already established that we had great communication together and were both looking for basically the same things in life. I called her the next morning and asked her over for dinner that Friday, I couldn't stop thinking about her.
When she arrived she looked amazing wearing a simple little sun dress with no bra and no panty lines. Her smile lit up the room as she came over and gave me a hug and a kiss that immediately made my cock thicken and press against her tummy confirming just how sexy she is. We talked as I made dinner and Heidi informed me that tonight we would be getting to know each other intimately as we seemed to have so much in common that she wanted to be sure that we are compatible in the bedroom before we get too caught up in the heat of a new relationship.
She explained what she had in mind and wanted to share our desires and fantasies to better understand what we are both looking for and what our boundaries might be so we can properly please each other without guessing or confusion about likes and dislikes. During dinner we talked about turn-ons as we figured out that we both had boring sex in our previous relationships and are looking to experiment and explore sexually with someone we trust.
After dinner we moved our conversation to the couch to get comfortable and started some slow sensual kissing as we shared our biggest fantasies and turn-ons. She showed me how sensitive her breasts are and that she can orgasm just from playing with or having her nipples sucked on and her biggest turn on is role playing about impregnation risk type sex even though she has not had kids and didn't think she would have kids of her own.
Heidi told me that after she ended her last relationship she was determined to keep from repeating the same pattern of dating guys that did not satisfy her needs and spent most of her free time thinking about and researching exactly what turned her on and the type of guy that was capable of satisfying her the way she had only dreamed about in the past.
I let her know the role playing risky impregnation stuff was a big turn on for me also and how adding a creampie to the fantasy makes it even hotter. To show me how much this conversation was turning her on she grabbed my hand in hers and guided it under her short dress, slowly sliding it up her thigh as she whispered in my ear.
"Feel how wet I am just from thinking about doing all of this and more with you."
The first thing I noticed is that she definitely was not wearing panties and I let her know that was another one of my biggest turn-ons that always makes me hard as I slowly explored her hot slippery pussy with my fingertips making her moan. I told her that one of the things I had read about but had yet to try is called edging and it sounded amazing because I really like the slow build up and tease to draw out the pleasure, creating an intense orgasm and huge loads of cum.
I let her know another turn on that took a while to warm up to was kissing after oral sex. I used to get really turned on kissing my girlfriend right after eating her sweet little pussy and making her taste herself on my lips as I passionately kissed her. I never realized it would turn her on just as much and that she would turn the tables and kiss me right after she made me cum in her mouth.
I was a surprised the first time until I realized how excited she got just from sharing a kiss after she made a show of licking a huge drop of pre cum off the head of my leaking cock and then slowly pulling me in for a slippery passionate kiss then going down on me again until she could get more pre cum to kiss me again and make it slipperier with each kiss. Heidi told me how much our conversation was turning her on as she slid her hand up my thigh placing it over the obvious bulge in my shorts to confirm that I was just as excited as she was.
