I'd like to thank Kenjisato again for editing and my friends for input. Sexual activity only involves characters over the age of 18. Any similarities to persons, living or dead, is purely coincidental. Random Names have been used to protect the innocent and my bank account.
May-December Teachers
A workaholic changes and finds love.
Friday evening, I am sitting on my back deck, my two dogs keeping me company. Looking out over my hot tub and pool, this is my kingdom. It is what I have left after divorcesβ yes, more than one. I have a son, and two stepdaughters, who in my later years, would give me grandchildren, but now at thirty-four I was single. My name is Dan Taylor, and for the last twelve years, I have been a teacher and coach. Coaching has kept me in shape because I work out with my players.
How I got to this place.
I lost two wives because I worked too muchβ teaching, coaching, summer job, post-grad work and union work.
I finished my master's and I had just about finished my PhD during my second marriage. My thoughts were to get my PhD, and then kick back and teach easy subjects (not really easy, but easy for me to teach). But my plan was too late for either of my wives. I guess I lost both due to not paying enough attention to them in the present,
in their eyes
. I was constantly looking long term and not taking care of them in the
right now
. In my eyes, I wanted our forever to be as comfortable as could be; my mistake, but they thought they found a trade up, but their trade up was not to be so.
The first wife, Jan, became a pariah in her career. When our divorce became known, it was because she had an affair with a guy from work. From work! She was fired and it followed her to every job she applied for. She never regained the type of position where she was trusted with any managerial duties. I felt sorry for Jan.
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I used my head... during the divorce from my second wife.
Even giving attention to my son, Johnny, and stepdaughters, Ruby and Holly, was not good enough for my second ex-wife. She hooked up with a guy that she thought was going places. He was a parent of two girls in our neighborhood, they met at our kid's school. She shared her frustrations of marriage with this bastard, and he zeroed in on her. He knew just what to say, he groomed her and was able to turn her against me.
During the divorce, I was persona non grata because her soon-to-be new-husband dreamed up reasons to keep my son away from me. I was accused of hitting and bruising my son! I was not able to see my son without supervision! I said fuck that! I am not a criminal, I will not allow my son to see me treated that way! I did call him and send him little gifts. For five months, I did not see my son, that was when the psychologist said there was no way I would hurt my son! And was able to see my son using the ordinary pattern of visitation, which sucks, 'til the new custody agreement was filed!
It made me a part time dad!
My shining star. The agreement:
I wrote the divorce custody agreement, you see I had the summer off and I spent the time doing research, not having the kids to watch, I was free to do it, karma does work in strange ways.
The custody agreement, I would get my son every Wednesday,
pretty standard
, and on the
first
and
third
weekend of each month, not the every
other
weekend that was prevalent. The problem with every
other
weekend was if one parent wanted to complain they could say, "You had him last weekend!" Cops, on a civil standby, could not tell who had the child the weekend before! With my plan, all a cop would have to do was look at a calendar to see what was the first or third weekend. My weekend custody would include any holiday on Monday or Friday.
The reason I mentioned the police was that I had to use the police for 'civil standbys' when I picked up my son, (to protect myself from false accusations). It is not the cops' job to interpret wordy custody orders. Listing the first and third weekend of each month is
concise
. If Saturday or Sunday was the first day of the month, that was the first weekend! His mother, now Mrs. Ann Felli, did not catch on, (almost
all
three-day holidays are on the first or third weekend of the month), I got Martin Luther King Jr's Birthday, Presidents' Day, Labor Day, Columbus Day, almost all of the three-day weekends. Memorial Day weekend was hers, this made her new asshole husband Paul mad. I informed Paul's ex, Denise, that I had Johnny on the first and third weekend, she was able to get the second and fourth weekend, to tell the truth she did it just screw with him, since my stepdaughters' dad had died a couple of years before, they were never completely free of kids!
Paul had custody of his two daughters who were about the same ages as my stepdaughters. I told Denise the way I was set upβ Thanksgiving, Christmas and Easter (aka spring break). I let Denise know, she took the exact opposite on the holiday schedule, it did not make them happy, but mostly Paul, why? Because it was
fair
to Denise and I, maybe more fair to us!
Paul kept Ann away from her family which was okay with my former in-laws because they hated him. I kept a friendship with her brother 'til the day he died.
My oldest stepdaughter Ruby called me and told me that they were going to leave for the three-day Labor Day holiday weekend, with Johnny before I would get to their house. I called a friend who was a cop in the city police department, Sergeant William Johnson, Bill, and asked him if he could give me a 'civil standby' while I picked up Johnny two hours early at his school. I was on Johnny's pick-up list (court ordered). Paul and Ann were going to pick him up, but only an hour early. I still had to wait for him to get some school and 'homework' together (As much homework as a kindergartener could have).
The office had no reason to not let him go with me. Like always, I had my court paperwork with me, just in case. Bill checked it over and made sure it was totally legal.
Minutes later, as I was coming out the door, Ann and Paul drove up; Ruby had a Cheshire cat smile on her face in the back seat. Luckily, Ann and Paul did not see her smile. I had told my stepdaughter to erase all our texts and call records with me to keep her out of trouble.
Paul started to yell that I was kidnapping Johnny!
Just then, Bill walked out of the office and Paul immediately tried to tell Bill I was kidnapping Johnny, (my own son?). Bill looked at him and asked (knowing the correct answer already), "Well, who has custody of him this weekend?"
Ann and Paul both said, "We do."
I said, "I have the paperwork right here, sir."
Bill took the paperwork (which he had read just minutes before) and re-read the custody agreement signed by both Ann, me, and
the Judge
! He took out a pocket calendar and pointed to the weekend and said, "This is the first weekend. It says here, it is the father's weekend... You may go, Mr. Taylor."
Paul said, "This is a fucking joke."
Sergeant Bill turned to Paul, and asked him, "Sir, have you been drinking?"
"Shit no!" was Paul's answer.
Ann knew enough that if Paul kept cussing on the school grounds, he'd be in big trouble. Little did I know this was just an added reason for the two of them to fight with each other. As I found out from Ruby, things were not too happy in the Felli household.
Bill told me he almost arrested Paul for disorderly conduct (for cussing at a school).