I hope you enjoy reading this as much as I did writing it.
I've had a long standing love of Irish lasses. Their eyes, complexion, smiles have always warmed my heart, and a few have broken it.
Constructive criticism as always is welcome in the comments, others will be dealt with in the usual manner.
*****
We sat at the gate, the noise of bustling humanity racing around us. I was nose down in my phone, Cate's arm looped through mine as she watched the ebb and flow of the crowd.
"So far everything looks good, cloudy with intermittent showers in Dublin."
"That's not really a surprise." She said leaning her head on my shoulder with a smile.
"It's warmer there than it is here." I said laughing.
"That's why I made you dress like this." She said tugging on the fabric of my jacket, which was over a sweater, and a shirt and a tee. I felt like I was layered for a trip to the Arctic, or New York in Winter, which is can often be similar. "By the time we land you'll be glad you can take off a layer."
"Are you going to be okay with a manual for a rental car?"
"I think I can handle it. It's here that they seem to be a dying breed." She patted the front of my coat. One of the gifts she'd gotten me for Christmas was a leather travel wallet which held my passport, and documents. "Got everything you need in there?"
"Everything I need is right here." I said kissing her forehead.
"Look." She whispered with the slightest lift of her chin. I glanced side-long in the same direction, to see a toddler sitting on the floor in front of his parents playing with a stuffed animal. "He's in his own little world. He'll probably never think twice about the fact that he's sitting in a busy airport, surrounded by thousands of people, coming and going to somewhere else."
"He'll never realize that it once it took months, even years to traverse the globe until he learns about it in school." I said smiling. "Do you like kids?" I said looking down.
"A bit soon for that isn't it?" Her grin lighting her face. I rolled my eyes in fair imitation of one of her usual expressions. "I like them well enough. I'm not sure I'm at that stage in my life though. Diapers, getting spit up on, sleeping in snatches if at all, and the crying." She did roll her eyes.
"Sounds like Auntie Cate has some experience with the little one?"
"A little, Sinead took to it like a duck to water once Declan was born. I gave her a break as often as possible, but sometimes he was inconsolable and wanted his mum."
I grinned. "I know you don't even realize how strong your accent is right now, but it is the most adorable thing I've ever heard."
She laughed. "Probably because in a few hours I'm not going to have people wondering what I said if I don't enunciate every syllable in the Queen's English." Which she did just then. "It's going to be fun watching you the first time you hear a few strong accents and wonder what in heavens someone said."
"I'm sure glad I have a translator. Dia duit, conas atΓ‘ tΓΊ?" I tried slowly. Cate watching my mouth sound it out.
"Doot, not do-wheat. You might hear it pronounced like, hewt, as well. The emphasis is at the beginning, fast at the end." She corrected. I repeated it. "Good. People will know you're not Irish, but they'll appreciate the effort."
"That worked well for me when I was in France. If I at least tried people would light up and help me. I saw other tourists who wouldn't try and they would get the sourest of looks from the natives. I remember, I was at a little cafe in the countryside with my host family, and they were chattering away, and I was trying to pronounce some of the food on the table. Jean Baptiste was helping when an old guy sitting at a table nearby interrupted and corrected both of us. I guess it was a particular kind of sausage there on the cutting board. Pas seulement une saucisse. When he found out I was American he lit up. He spoke in heavily accented English about when the Americans came during the war to liberate his village. He didn't look like it but I did the math in my head and even if he was a kid then, he had to be nearly ninety. He grinned and asked if I had any bubble gum like they did. Sadly I didn't or I would have gladly given it to him." I said smiling.
"It's amazing when you put some effort into something how quick people are to help you, but if you just go off half-cocked and demand things be done your way they'll ignore you just as quickly. I think knowing that, is the sign of a good traveler. I had the hardest time when I was in Munich until I fumbled through some basic German phrases. As soon as someone recognized I spoke English they would change almost immediately without batting an eye." She paused. "I'm glad that they've made Irish language a requirement in school again. I'd hate to think of it fading away."
I nodded. "My folks decided to trace their roots up into Canada years ago and went on a two week trip driving up through Quebec and out to the Maritime provinces. Mom found it odd that the English speakers had such animosity towards the French, and vice versa."
"Cultural survival, sort of like the English. Everywhere they went, they did their best to try to bend everyone to their will. In some places they succeeded, mostly through sheer bloodshed, ask a Scot, just the mere mention of the English is enough to get you in trouble in some places." She said referring to a remark I made the day we met.
"Aye, I'll never call ya an English woman again. I was clearly mistaken and ask your forgiveness for my carelessness." I said softly so as to not mock any Irish people who may be sitting around us.
Cate smiled. "Be careful with that. Some people might take offense."
"I only do it to tease you, and I'd like to think I'm a bit more culturally sensitive than that."
"Oh really. This from the man who said he was going to wear a hat covered in shamrocks and a Boston Celtics jersey to meet my father." She said squinting harshly at me.
I laughed and held up my hands. "I'll have you know that I don't own, and did not purchase either of those items. I'm not even sure I packed anything green to wear the entire trip."
"Good, it's nice to see you exercise your cultural sensitivity with others at least." She added smartly.
"All this time I thought I was being funny. I'm sorry." I said and kissed her on top of the head.
"Oh I'm only teasing you." She said with a smile.
"Is breΓ‘ liom tΓΊ go mΓ³r, and if I didn't say it right, then it's one I'm definitely going to practice." I said. Cate smiled, the tips of her ears turned pink.