Now what do I do?
For close to five years I had immersed myself in tech startups before launching my own company. I built an ace team of coders, marketers and others to launch a new product that had been well received. As we thought about what was next, I got a call from an attorney whose firm was big in the tech arena. He invited me to a conference with him at his office. Mystified, I accepted his offer and we worked out a time to meet. That day had arrived and I presented myself at his office.
"Hi, Brad, my name is Phil Whittier." He had me sit in a comfortable chair in front of his massive desk and took the other chair. "Before we proceed, I need you to review and hopefully sign an NDA. I can't really talk openly unless you do. If you're uncomfortable with signing today, you can have your attorney review it before our next meeting."
I took the proffered NDA and sat back in the chair to read. I hate attorneys and their fancy words and phrases. I could have used half a page to say what they said in eight pages. It was pretty standard stuff. We had used similar documents in our development phase. I took his pen and signed it on the corner of his desk and handed it to him.
"Now that's out of the way, here's what we need to talk about. My firm works with many tech companies. One of them wants to buy your company. They love your app and want to see your team develop more. They can take you all the way through becoming a very successful, thriving business without going through fifty or more meetings with principal investors with you essentially begging for money and sitting through endless meetings with attorneys and other parasites."
"Who's the company?"
I can't really say at this juncture but you will be very happy when you know. They want to buy your company and keep your development team together."
"OK, I'm intrigued. What's next?"
And so began a series of meetings. I learned the company's name at the third meeting and found out I would be very well compensated for our work. I owned the company with one angel investor. We would be bought out.
In the fourth meeting I found out I would no longer be in the company, as their management team would take over. So it was between being rich (by my standards) or being in control. I took my time to decide, talk to my investor and his attorneys and decided to be rich. I would miss what I did and what we had accomplished, a lot. But I would have the money to take my time before my next project.
So, what now? I went through a flurry of meetings with my personal attorney (he was a buddy of mine, so I tolerated what he did), accountants and a financial advisor who directed me as to investing my money. That concluded, I bought a house and worked to furnish it with something other than discount store furniture like my last apartment. A designer made a difference. Someone had to have taste. It sure wasn't me. Hayley was a blessing who gave me alternatives without pushing, slowly educating me that there was a life outside of sitting at a desk coding all day and night. I ended up with a great house that I loved. But now it was too quiet.
"Hayley, it's Brad. I want to take you to dinner to thank you for everything."
"That's not necessary, really. You've thanked me a hundred times already, but I'd love to go."
"Give me three ideas as to what you like so I don't make a fool of myself." She laughed, such a wonderful laugh, and gave me some favorites of hers. We made a date and she gave me her address. On Saturday, In spite of what she had suggested, I took her to to a tiny Vietnamese restaurant I knew. I told her it was the best I had ever had. An older man seated us at one of his five tables and introduced himself as Phan, the owner.
"I've seen you in here before, but not with such a beautiful woman!" He said with a huge smile on his face. I explained to Hayley that my coding crew and I had stumbled upon it and became regulars.
"He always brought all these men with him. I thought maybe he was gay. But now I don't think so."
Hayley smiled at him. "Maybe he goes both ways. I wouldn't mind."
Phan, the owner, laughed heartily, took our order and disappeared into the kitchen. The place had filled up while we talked and everyone was busy.
Hayley looked at me, her eyes flashing, her million dollar smile on display, and asked, "Well, do you?"
"What?" I was mystified.
"Do you go both ways?"
"Oh, that. I've spent five years being a monk, too busy to even think much about sex. I dated a little but nothing has ever really clicked."
"Maybe you should date men instead if women don't move you."
I smiled at her. "Looking at you, I'd say I definitely I am into women."
"If you change your mind, I can set you up with the right guy."