Little did I know when I was walking along the lake on that brisk autumn day that my life was to take a turn for the better.
At 38 years old I am divorced and lonely. MY girlfriends are all happily married so we don't hang out together nearly as often as we once did. That's not to say I never see them.
Anyway I was eastbound in Headlands State park when I spotted her in the distance. Her auburn hair cascaded to her shoulders framing a heart-shaped face. Full lips were painted red. A hint of eyeshadow adorned her lids.
She looks familiar. Did she attend Mentor high school?
Cheryl Wallace?
We approached to within arms reach and both of us stopped in our tracks.
Cheryl and I did not hang out with the same cliques. Openly gay, she had joined the school's LGBT organization. I, on the hand, had boyfriends.
I was 28 when I got married living up to family expectations. Get a husband and have a family. I never had a child. There was always the excuse that we needed to have savings for lean times. Looking back, that was total crap.
Jack Lombardi is a good catch for any girl. To this day, six years since the divorce, he remains a true friend. The operative word is "friend" Down deep real feelings were not there. I imagined myself making love to a woman but kept that a secret right up until the day that I asked for a divorce.
"Hi Cheryl," I said in a cheerful tone.
"Stephanie hi.I love that sweater, It's pretty."
Her compliment was definitely not lost on me.
I gave her a smile.
I was dressed casually in a recently purchased Sonoma Lilac crewneck, bootcut jeans, and ankle booties.
She was dressed similarly but with minor differences. Her Sonoma sweater was Cherry Lava and her footwear Nike running shoes.
"What's new? Bring me up to date."
"I'm divorced since I was 32."
She nodded.
I added, "my marriage just felt wrong."
"I know that feeling. My X and I had a falling out."
"Recently?"
"A year and a half ago," she replied.
Recalling that the high school had a gay and lesbian youth club I asked, "is she anyone I know."
"Not unless you attended Ohio State," Cheryl replied.
Neither of us were in any hurry to be someplace so chat came easily. I found that we had much in common.
We both liked and attended football games, the only difference being that I was on the cheerleader squad.
We both enjoyed the same tv shows and read some of the same authors. We both work in Health Care, just not the same hospital.
An hour passed before we realized it.
"I have to run some errands. It's been nice seeing you Stephanie."
Without giving the matter a second thought I asked, "can we go out for coffee, say tomorrow morning."