When I awoke on the morning after our return from vacation, I could tell I'd slept in much later than usual. While I'm usually up before the sun, I could tell by the light and sounds from outside that it was well into the morning. Rolling over and checking my phone, I saw it was a little after nine and I rolled back onto the bed.
I had clearly been worn out from our trip but waking up this morning, I felt refreshed. A moment later, I got out of bed and went into the bathroom to prepare for the day. After completing my morning routine, I went back to the bedroom and pulled on a pair of jeans and a t-shirt before making my way out to the kitchen.
Amber was standing at the counter, pouring another cup of coffee when she heard me and turned around to greet me with a smile. Getting a cup of my own I said, "Sorry, I have no idea why I slept so late. I must have been absolutely exhausted."
"Are you feeling better this morning?" Amber asked.
Stretching my shoulders and neck I said, "Yeah, I feel great."
Giving me a little kiss with a grin, she asked, "So you enjoyed your visit to my spa?"
With a chuckle I said, "Amber, that was unbelievable. Seriously, your massage did everything I needed. You're really good at that." Then with a hint of embarrassment I asked, "Is it weird that I really enjoyed being pampered? The candlelight, the music, the massage oil... it was awesome."
With a laugh she said, "Uhh no... that's the whole reason I did that. What? Guys can't enjoy relaxing? No, babe, you need to stop worrying about what you're supposed to like and not. You like what you like and I'm here to provide that for you. Same goes for me with you." With another laugh she said, "I've clearly got more work to do on you."
Giving her a kiss I said, "Oh I think you're doing just fine on me. I have absolutely zero shame admitting that that last thing you did for me was hands down the best sensation of my life."
With a sly grin Amber said, "Good, because I fucking loved doing that."
With one final kiss, I took my coffee to the table and sat down. Between sips, I asked, "So what do you want to do with the day?"
Looking proud, Amber said, "Well, while you got your beauty rest I've almost finished all the laundry from the trip already. You know, I realized there's not much to do really when we spend half our time naked."
Laughing I said, "Good point. But thanks for doing all that. I really appreciate it."
"Seriously, it's fine," Amber said and then added, "I just need to strip the bed but we can let that run while we're out."
"Ok great." Then with a bit of disappointment in my voice I said, "I really don't have anything exciting for us. I really need to go to the grocery store and maybe run a couple other stupid errands."
With a shrug of her shoulders Amber said, "...and? What's wrong with that. I'll go with you, we'll just spend the day together doing normal, married people things. That's life, let's go do it."
Amber's attitude lifted my spirits a little, "Yeah, you're right. Ok, let me go do a couple things and we can head out if you're ready."
Walking back into the bedroom Amber hollered out to me, "Hey, would you mind just helping me with the bed real quick?"
Joining her at the bedside we stripped the linens. Then holding the comforter she jokingly said, "Aww, it's sad. Each of those little stain outlines is a record of all the fun we've had."
We both laughed and I said, "You're such an idiot... but I love you."
After we both finished a couple things we were ready to go. Getting into the car Amber asked, "Ok, so where to first?"
Defeated I said, "I hate grocery shopping. Let's get it out of the way so it's not hanging over me all day. We can bring the stuff back back here, put it away and then head back out."
Patting me on the leg Amber said in a jokingly patronizing tone, "What a good, responsible decision you've made. I'm proud of you."
As I started to drive away I couldn't help but laugh, "What the fuck has gotten into you today?"
So yeah, we went grocery shopping. Nothing at all exciting happened; there were no profound discussions. We just picked out food for the week while listening to the soft rock hits playing from the store's overhead speakers. As much as I enjoyed cooking, I absolutely despised grocery shopping. But after checking out and on the way back to the car, I looked over at Amber and smiled as I had a realization. Once we were in the car I leaned over and gave her a long kiss.
Surprised, Amber asked, "What was that for?"
Pulling out of the parking spot I said, "I've been feeling kind of down today. I hate going grocery shopping and other boring but necessary things we have to do with our time. But then I thought back on how much worse it was when I ran errands and then just came back to an empty apartment. But now even on seemingly boring days, you're with me and there's never anything boring about that. I've always got something to look forward to now. So thanks."
Amber smiled and then with a mischievous grin asked, "So what are these things you're looking forward to?"
I laughed and said, "Well, that's the best part! I have no idea. I just look forward to our time together and something pretty fun usually ends up coming from that."
Teasingly Amber said, "Wow, that's a lot of pressure to put on me."
I chuckled and said, "Nah, I'm learning."
We both smiled, knowing that I was in fact getting better at asserting myself as Amber had suggested. Soon we were back home, where we started the process of carrying the groceries inside and then putting them away. After a few minutes that task was completed and Amber came and put her hands on my hips, "See? That wasn't so bad. Come on, you need to eat. Let's go get lunch out and then you won't need to make anything for dinner. That will free up our evening for something... more fun."
I managed a smile, knowing she was right. I had been pretty grumpy all morning and being hungry definitely didn't help. I gave her a kiss and said, "I'm sorry, I don't mean to be so miserable. I don't know, I'm just having a bad morning."
Amber smiled and kissed me before we headed back out. Getting in the car I said, "Please do me one huge favor though. Can you pick where we eat? I can't handle all that responsibility right now."
Amber laughed and said, "Yeah of course. Let's go get Thai food."
I perked up just at the suggestion. Thai food was one of my absolute favorites but probably the one thing that I hadn't learned to cook at home yet. Pulling into the parking lot, I was already in a better mood and felt even better when we got to the table and ordered. As I sat there, taking a sip from my Coke, I felt myself relax and I said again, "Amber, I'm sorry. I didn't mean to be miserable this morning."
Amber chuckled and said, "Honey, we live together now. Not every day can be as perfect and exciting as the past week has been. Sometimes we have bad days. Trust me, you'll see me grumpy at some point. We just try to help each other out of it, ok?"
With a relieved smile I said, "Deal, thank you."
The waiter came and brought us our spring rolls, which we immediately started in on. As we ate our appetizer, Amber mentioned that she had gotten a message from her uncle's realtor. He apparently had a few places picked out that he wanted to show us.
Surprised I replied, "Great! Did he say when he wants to meet?"
Between bites she said, "Yeah, he said he can either do tomorrow or next weekend."
With a shrug I said, "I mean, we might as well go tomorrow. No point in waiting unless you had something else you wanted to do."
Shaking her head Amber said, "No, I was thinking the same thing. Cool, I'll message him back after we're done here."
A minute later, the waiter came out with our food. Amber got a vegetable and noodle dish while I got a plate of basil fried rice. Seeing the pepper flakes all throughout mine and getting a smell of the chili, Amber leaned back coughing, "Holy shit, how do you eat that?"
Taking a big fork full into my mouth, I chewed then swallowed and said, "It's great. It makes my mouth feel like you made my dick feel last night when you rubbed that oil on it."
Her eyes got huge and surprised she said, "Oh my god, babe! I didn't even think about that."
I laughed, "No, it's fine. Honestly it felt really good..." Taking another bite I added, "...just like this."
"You're insane," Amber said as she ate her mild noodles.
We continued verbally teasing each other throughout the meal. When we were done, I felt great again. I reached across the table and, rubbing Amber's hand, said, "Thanks, I feel much better now." I paid the bill and we headed back to the car.
Closing her door Amber asked, "So what other errands did you need to run?"
Suppressing any annoyance I said, "Ehh, well we need things like paper towels, toilet paper, soap... exciting stuff. Luckily we can grab all that in one stop."
"And then we're done," Amber said cheerfully.
I couldn't help but smile at her exuberance and said, "Yeah, and then we're done."
We made a stop at a big box store. As we strolled the aisles, we got everything we needed as well as a few extra things along the way. Checking the cart to make sure we hadn't left anything out, we then cleared the checkout and loaded up the car. Getting back in, Amber looked at me and said, "See? Free at last. Shit, when we have more space we're going to need a membership to one of those price warehouses because I can't go through this every couple weeks."