My girlfriend and I have been off an on for almost six year now. Recently, she says she's in it strictly for the sex. She doesn't want to marry me. But I can feel it in her. She's not happy when we're just having sex. She expects me to take her places, make her laugh, treat her like a person... as far as I can tell, that contradicts "just sex."
She just can't make up her mind. But I developed a plan for getting her head straight. The last time we were together, I made sure we had a few days to ourselves.
I brought her back to my place the first night and I could immediately tell she was feeling frisky as she all but tried to run to my bedroom. I caught her up in my arms and told her not to move from where we stood near the front door. I told her that if she expected anything to happen, it was going to start right there and now.
She was always up for having sex in the most awkward of places, but she was apprehensive about having sex out in public where we could be caught. With a bit of gentle prodding though, she could be coaxed into it. However, we were in no danger of being caught, so she just bit her lip and smiled pensively. I gestured for her to undress and she did so slowly. I felt myself begin to swell with arousal as I watched perform a little show. She was not well practiced in seduction or anything else exotic. She had always been the one to get seduced. But her nervousness was somehow all the more attractive as she stripped the last of her clothes off.
I let her stand there for a few seconds as she wondered if I was going to make the first move or if she would have to. Impatiently, she raised her arms, beckoning me for a hug. I pulled her in close and kissed her as I grabbed hold of her butt and tugged her groin against mine. My hands slid down between her thighs and I hefted her up, wrapping her legs around me. I sat her down on the arm of my couch, nuzzled her neck, clawed her ribs, pulled her hair, kissed her chest and sucked her nipples.