In the beginner's lust chapter, we learn simple skills. We suggest you first practice lusting for someone close by, or famous person, someone you won't actually have a real relationship with. This could be a fellow office worker, neighbor, handyman, friends spouse, actor, actress, perhaps even a sister or brother or other relative, if you have that kink. The latter works well as a matter of convenience.
This shouldn't be difficult, as we know in fact, you lust after someone already, more than likely. Admit it. Come on. Admit it. We know you have your eye on someone or several people. We are just going to help you bring this to a new level of lusting. That's what this book is all about.
Fantasizing: this really is the key component of this chapter. The imagination!!
Now the Bible says
You have heard that it was said, 'You shall not commit adultery.' But I say to you that everyone who looks at a woman with lustful intent has already committed adultery with her in his heart. If your right eye causes you to sin, tear it out and throw it away. For it is better that you lose one of your members than that your whole body be thrown into hell. And if your right hand causes you to sin, cut it off and throw it away. For it is better that you lose one of your members than that your whole body go into hell.
However, we take the opposite approach. Fun, fun, fun. So keep those members, the eye, the hand. Really, would you want to walk around without an eye or hand. Lust, lust, lust, think about banging that woman or man. Just do it. You are on your way!
Now as for fantasizing. I am sure you are doing some of this already. Thinking about holding them, kissing them, taking their clothes off, making love. Ok, fair enough, but pretty basic. Kick it up a notch. Short on ideas what to do. This website is a good source for all the naughty things you can do with your object of lust. Anal, BDSM, Exhibitionist, Fetishes (see Appendix 2 for ideas), Gay, Lesbian, Mature (we know you have been eyeing the old lady or man across the street), Forced sex (see legal disclaimer at the beginning of the book).
Ok, for the dim witted of you out there (most of you, I am afraid), we will give you an explicit example of a beginning lust fantasy exercise. Dozens and dozens more can be found in Appendix 1.
As stated above, think of a person you can truly lust over in your mind. Come on do it! Don't read these stories like popcorn. This is serious! Close your eyes and think of someone!! You may have to think about several until you come across, The One. The neighbors husband, that girl at the coffee shop, the guy in the cubicle next to you. Maybe even a famous actor or actress. You will know when you find them.
DO IT!!
Now when you can find some time to be alone, at least sufficient time to bring yourself - have an orgasm - this could be leisurely in your bed, or a quickie in the bathroom stall at work. That's right you are going to play with yourself while thinking about your fantasy lust person. This is called Conditioning, like Pavlov's dog. You will associate pleasure with your fantasy person, and eventually become addicted.
Ok now close your eyes, and start fantasizing about your lust partner. See every detail about them. Eyes, lips, face, breasts, pants bulge or camel toe, body, legs, every detail, their scent, their voice. You two are together. Really together.
This is where personal preference comes in. Do to want to do in a bed? Be sucked off? Do it outdoors? Be watched? Have your vag licked out? Be tied up? Whipped? Forced? So many choices! (Again, see Appendix 2 for ideas if you can't think of any on your own)
Now don't be lazy! I know you! You will get nothing from this book if you don't do the exercises. So stop right now and fantasize! Lust after your fantasy partner.
DO IT!!
And very, very, very, importantly get yourself off!! At the very least edge yourself. Remember CONDITIONING!!
DO IT!!
Now that feels good doesn't it. And think about what you are doing to them, or they are doing it to you. Feels so real doesn't it. And you get shivers and shakes as you get yourself off at the same time. SO SO GOOD...
