One of the best favors you can give your cocksucker is to save up your semen for a week. Get those balls full and heavy with jizz and tell your cocksucker you've been saving a big load for him and he is expected to take it all in his belly. He will eagerly suck your cock, knowing that a warm, thick, salty, sweet reward will be the end result. You literally can't feed a submissive cocksucker enough jizz. We live for it.
Another way to show your dominance over your cocksucker is make him hold the load in his mouth after you've cum. While you look down at him while he is on his knees, tell him to tilt his head back and open his mouth wide so you can inspect your cum deposit. You can comment on the thickness, the color, the size of the load--anything to keep him there, patiently holding his mouth wide open for your amusement. This is also the time to praise your cocksucker and his subservience. This scene works especially well if you've invited a buddy or two to share your cocksucker with. I've had to hold up to five cum loads in my mouth while on my knees surrounded by a group of men. As a cocksucker, it doesn't get much hotter than that.
Once you're satisfied with your cocksucker's compliance, tell him to swallow it all. You can also make him lick up any errant drops of semen on the floor, on your balls or pubes--it is important that you make him clean up the jizz completely so he knows that will always expected of him as part of his service to you. Once you've gotten him to do that a couple of times, it will be automatic.
On the subject of licking up cum, here's another nasty trick you can do with your cocksucker that will further instill his submission. Instead of shooting your jizz directly into his mouth, make him lick up your cum from a plate or off a table or even the floor. I've serviced several men who wanted to watch me eat their jizz slowly, so I've known guys to cum on a plate, in a cup or bowl, or on another man's back or stomach, then been ordered to slowly lap up the semen. For the cocksucker, this can be an extreme act of submission which he will indulge in. The cocksucker wants to feel owned by you and to be subservient and by making him lick up your jizz while you watch, you are further instilling in him the symbolism of how important ingesting your semen is.
Remember, the cocksucker wants to worship your cock and what comes out of it.
Share him with your friends
Here's a dirty little secret about cocksuckers: they can't get enough cock and cum. Take advantage of that. After you've gotten into a rhythm with your cocksucker after a few dates, surprise him. Invite one of your buddies over to enjoy using his mouth as well. Most submissive cocksuckers will be thrilled if you ask them to suck off your buddy, or even a group of your friends. The point is this: your cocksucker understands that he is there to please you and will do anything to keep you on his email list of cocks to suck. So, make him suck off your friends. You are doing him a huge favor and your friends will appreciate your generosity by making a willing mouth available to them. I have happily serviced a group of men while they watched a football game for example, going from one cock to the next, greedily swallowing their cum loads until I felt a fullness in my belly from all the semen I had ingested by the end of the game. Train your cocksucker to perform this service for you and your buddies from time to time. Everyone--and most especially the cocksucker--will have a good time and it will keep him hungry for more.
Another man I've serviced over the years often invites a friend or two to surprise me on our dates. The first time he did it I was embarrassed as he told me to strip in front of his friend. He then ordered me to get on my knees and suck on his balls and lick his asshole while his friend watched and commented on my wantonness. His friend joined in after a few minutes of degrading comments and the two of them had a long afternoon of using my mouth to suck out two loads from each of them. It was glorious.
As a submissive cocksucker, I've done a lot of blow bangs and can say without hesitation that they have been some of the most exciting sexual experiences I've ever had. You can slowly build a group of like-minded friends who want to use your cocksucker on a regular basis. Your cocksucker will be eternally grateful for you giving him the opportunity to indulge himself with multiple cocks and multiple cum loads, and he won't forget to show his appreciation when he's sucking your cock.
Rimming, Tea bagging, handcuffs and other delights
I have yet to meet a man who doesn't enjoy having his ass licked. This is one of those pleasures that until you've tried it, you have no idea what you have been missing. Although not everyone enjoys this kink, your cocksucker will probably relish this form of submission to you. If it's something you'd like to try, once your cocksucker is in position on his knees, instead of presenting him your balls or cock to suck, turn around, tell him to spread you ass cheeks, and start eating. Most submissive cocksuckers will instinctively know how to use their tongue to pleasure your asshole, and once they've gotten used to the taste, will happily indulge in this kink with you. My only advice to the dominant man is make sure you're clean. Your cocksucker will be grateful and is more likely to spend a long time rimming you as you pump your cock and prep for orgasm. It is a sure fire way to show your dominance as well as heighten your orgasm when it comes time to release your seed.
Another pleasurable way to show your dominance over your cocksucker is by Tea Bagging him. After he's shown the proper submissiveness to you by kissing your cock or feet, get him to lie flat on his back on the floor or bed/couch. Then as he watches you squat over him, slowly lower your ball sack into his wide open mouth. Your cocksucker will be thrilled to perform this service for you. I've been Tea Bagged many times and enjoyed every minute of it. The submission and degradation is incredible, sucking on those hairy, sweaty balls while your man slowly jerks his cock and tells you what a nasty depraved whore you are. This can be a wonderful way to further cement your dominance with your cocksucker and you might find that it is so delightful you'll want to include in your regular dates.
I want to touch for a moment on the subject of handcuffs and other bondage gear. This is probably a niche area for cock sucking aficionados, but for a dominant man sometimes having a willing cocksucker on their knees, hands cuffed behind their backs can be the ultimate turn on. Your cocksucker wants to please and knows they are there for one single purpose: to bring you off. If you've ever been curious about incorporating bondage into your sexual encounters, an easy way to start is with a pair of handcuffs.
Once you have established a relationship of trust with your cocksucker, tell him you want to cuff his hands behind his back. With your willing, submissive cocksucker cuffed and on his knees, you now have complete control over him. His mouth can be your pussy, so fuck that pussy! Many cocksuckers like me dream of being in this situation. I have a pair of leather cuffs and a matching slave collar that I have started using more and more with my 'regulars' as in almost every case they love to see me naked, kneeling, and cuffed. Their cocks instantly harden in this situation, and the pre-cum starts flowing like a leaky tap. They usually make me gag on their dicks as I'm helpless to do anything else but take it in my throat. For some added spice, put a collar and leash on your cocksucker. This will add to your sense of controlling them and make them even more compliant to your demands.
The beautiful thing about cuffing your cocksucker is that you now control every aspect of how you use your cock in his mouth. You may want a long slow, wet, sloppy blowjob while he's there on his knees, hands cuffed behind his back. Alternatively, you might want to give him an aggressive throat fuck. The point is you are now in complete control and your cocksucker with thank you for it--however you choose to use his mouth and throat.
Drinking from the tap
I know this will be a controversial topic for some people, but for those of us who have learned to enjoy piss play, read on. Once you've established total dominance over your cocksucker try this if it turns you on. Maybe you've always wanted someone to drink your piss, but this is not something your wife or girlfriend is willing to do. Your cocksucker, however, may very well enjoy this form of degradation, and if you're lucky, he might even start to ask you to piss in his mouth on future dates. You can get him used to the idea by putting him in the shower on his knees. Tell him you'd like to piss on him. This will be a good gauge of whether or not he will enjoy pee play. If he's willing, start by pissing on his chest. The next time tell him you're going to piss on his face. If he likes that, the third time you can tell him to open his mouth and let the piss pool up in his mouth and cascade down his chin. If he gulps any piss down, you know you can use your cocksucker as a urinal now, and this opens up a whole new avenue for you sexually.
The first time I drank from the tap was totally unexpected. I had just finished sucking off my man in the shower and he made sure that I swallowed every drop of his cum. As I started to pull my mouth away from his dick, he grabbed the back of my head and told me to keep his cock in my mouth. He gave me a serious look and said, "Now I have something else for you to drink." I froze, keeping his now softening cock in my mouth, and knew what he expected of me. I was a bit scared at first, but when his warm piss came out and started to fill my mouth, I swallowed instinctively. He encouraged me throughout his piss stream, saying things like "good boy" and "that's it, drink daddy's piss." I found the experience to be a great turn-on for both of us and as a submissive, I knew that I was pleasing him immensely. I had fantasized about this fetish for years and he finally made it happen for me. You can do the same for your cocksucker. You never know. He may be incredibly happy to be used in this way. After that first experience, I've since done a lot of "drinking from the tap" from other men who have enjoyed this kink with me.
