My wife has many hobbies and l include "Time With The Girls" as one. Not our girls but friends of the same mind or interest. These included Bowling Leagues, Knitting, and the one that ran the longest was her Book Club. That was understandable as l had my common fishing trips and other outings that were guys only. Some of those ran their course but always by the one doing such, l would never ask my wife to stop doing a hobby or as expressed above.
l was always under the impression more than talking about a book went on, l am not sure why. l wished it was a lesbian orgy, but l knew that was only in my mind. I figured it was the same stuff type of stuff my male friends and l do when together but maybe with far fewer dirty words.
On this one afternoon, the club was to be hosted by my wife. l was working some fifty miles away and I did not expect to be home until late, as we had a long day of work ahead of us. Good luck or bad, right before our lunch break a water main was dug up by a tractor by mistake. As the water was essential for us we had no choice but to clean up as best we could and leave to return another day.
I fully expected my wife's meeting would still be going on but that was no problem, there were always plenty of things for me to do allowing them the private time they expected. My wife was surprised but not upset when l walked through the door, l quickly explained what happened and how l was going to get a jump on the yard work.
l only got a task or two done when my wife came out to see me. It was the tone she used when she called saying "Honey" that tone was like when she hit something with her car or when her family was coming to visit or wanted me to do something she thinks l won't want to do. I gave her back a long "Yesssssss"
Like the cat that ate the Canary, she asked if l would come to join them inside. I told her no problem if l had the time to shower first, between working a half day and the yard work l would not present myself to a bunch of ladies, not like that. She assured me that would be fine and we went our separate ways.
There was loud laughter coming from the other room when l started my way there, hopefully, the joke was not about me. Another quick introduction as I'm terrible with names, then l sat among them. Everything was quiet for some time like they had a plan but it went south.
My wife broke the awkward silence, "Honey the girls have a few questions for you" this began another pause until Jenny found the courage to speak up. (names are changed)
Jenny "Hi, ah-ah your wife has told us so much about you and your wonderful sex life, and ah-ah (said very quickly) "How can l get my husband to want more sex"
l think that was the first time l blushed in many years. But l pulled me together as if she has the guts to ask then l should do my best to help her. "Well, Jenny that's a complicated query, one which l would need more details about. Plus I'm not a professional at such so my language would be harsher and l would hate to offend you.
Jenny "Don't worry about that, l grew up with four brothers". That was good for two reasons, she wasn't easily offended and the color on her face was back to normal.
I told her great and if she could tell me what was typical, and that she didn't have to give details if she did not want to. Just the who and how stuff so I could better understand what was going on.
Jenny went on to tell me how they have sex on Saturdays after the kids fall asleep but sometimes twice a week.
like clockwork? l asked
Yes, every Saturday!
Well, Jen, that's part of your problem right there. There is nothing wrong with having a tried and true fixed date but in my opinion, it has to be along with additional random romps.
Jenny "thing how do l do that?"
Once again sex is more complicated than many think, l don't know your husband's likes and dislikes or yours to be blunt. let me ask you, do you masturbate?
There was a long pause with the blush on Jenny's face quite red until she sheepishly replies "yes"
Great! that's a good thing and l know uncomfortable to talk about, especially to me but please believe me I'm not trying to embarrass you in any way. That is when my wife broke in and offered "even with the great sex life we both still masturbate, together sometimes"
I said thanks Hun and that was exactly where I was going. Turning my focus back upon Jenny once again, "The next time you want sex and it's not Saturday when you first lay down together just start touching yourself. No more than that and judge his response, if you're not happy with it make the fact a bit louder but odds are your body would do that on its own.
l think that's sage advice for you, Jenny. Let my wife know how it goes and l would be happy to help you with something else if needed but l think that will get you on the path to something far better for you both.
My wife took the floor asking "who's next? okay Cindy, ask away."
