-He wants a constant feeling of sexual arousal.
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Are there benefits for me?
Believe it or not, most women don't want to deny the man they love an orgasm. So this is a common question. The answer is YES. Here are a few benefits most women experience.
Extended foreplay. When you both understand you won't be allowing him to orgasm, he will not be in a rush to speed up any phase of the sexual experience. Foreplay will continue as long as you wish. If you make it clear his chance of being allowed an orgasm depends on your satisfaction, he will be especially eager to please.
Orgasms. Lots more orgasms for you. When a male is denied, he never finishes. He will be an eager participant until you are completely satisfied and ask him to stop. If you want three or four orgasms, he will have the energy to give them to you. No more minute man two pump chump. He will have the lasting power you need. He can deliver these orgasms with his fingers, tongue, or toys; preferably a combination of all three.
Oral Sex. A man who is sexually denied will be eager to give you frequent oral sex. In fact, he is likely to become a pussy connoisseur. His pent up arousal will keep him eager for any sexual contact with you. You can focus this need however you like, including oral pleasure. If you give him some basic instructions while he is going down on you, you will find his skills improve rapidly.
Snuggling. Once the main event is over, when you are sexually satisfied, there is nothing better than your man holding you while you gently drift off to sleep. So often a man just finishes, then rolls over and passes out. When you deny him his orgasm, he will desire continued connection. Expect your denied man to want to hold you after having sex. Remember his arousal is still at 90%.
More intimacy. This seems counter-intuitive, but you will experience more intimacy in your relationship when he is denied sexual release. He'll be more attentive and interested in physical contact, but since there's no pressure to make him cum, it can be of the relationship building variety.
Secrets. Having your little secret will bring you closer together. Many couples love knowing that he has been denied and is extremely horny. Going out in public or with friends can be exciting. It can be fun watching him try to hide an erection when you tease him in public.
Spark. If you have been together for several years, you may notice that your sex life is a little less exciting than when you were first together. Practicing tease and denial will help keep an incredibly strong spark in your sex life, and hopefully also in your relationship in general.
Stress. If one of you has physical sexual problems, male denial can take the stress of sex away. If you experience pain during intercourse or an inability to orgasm from penetrative sex, knowing that he won't be cumming removes the expectation of penetration. If he suffers from erectile dysfunction (ED), lowering the pressure he feels to perform can save him stress. Since ED is usually at least 50% mental and exacerbated by stress, this can often even result in relief from the symptoms of ED. (If either partner is experiencing sexual problems like these, seek medical attention.)
Feel like a teenager. You will find you both crave sex play like when you were a teenager. Denying him at the end of a sexual encounter will leave him in a state of arousal just like when he was a teen after a long make out session.
