'...a lady in the drawing room, a whore in the bedroom.'
Copyright, 2007, by jR
Contents are for entertainment purposes only. The author assumes no responsibility or liability for its use or abuse.
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For me, and I suspect, most TG 'girls', the anus becomes our 'pussy.' Curiosity and a desire for the total female experience naturally led me to explore 'feminine hygiene'. First, of course, I practiced douching, a very essential chore for all us women. Playing with tampons was an easy progression. As a teenager, I would insert one after douching/enemas, then remove it immediately after masturbation. Now, as an older adult, I have begun tampon training in earnest. Why? As Vince McMahan of pro wrestling says, "For those who get it, no explanation is necessary. For those who don't, no explanation will suffice."
To help other 'girls' explore their womanhood, I offer my experiences in tampon training.
My MISTRESS doesn't require tampon training. Rather, it sprang from my desire for complete femininity, inspired by HER remarks, when I get bitchy, that I must be having my 'period.' SHE has even mentioned marking four days in red every twenty-eight days on the calendar as my 'monthlies'
For the beginner, I would suggest inserting tampons only after douching, or at the very least, after a bowel movement. Then there will be some natural lubricant present to ease insertion.
Since even genetic women can suffer Toxic Shock Syndrome [TSS] from tampon use, I would recommend NEVER wearing a tampon overnight. Just wear a pad instead. We'll discuss pads later.
For discipline and humiliation, my MISTRESS requires me to go in the store alone to select and purchase my feminine hygiene products. The first few times, this was super embarrassing I was sure the clerk knew I cross-dressed and the tampons were for me, sort of like when you begin buying cosmetics or lingerie solo. You remember, you pretend they are for your girlfriend or wife, but you're certain the clerk can see through your charade. Over time, I have gotten more comfortable shopping for my intimate needs.
Unless you just MUST have a fancy brand, the 'house/generic' brands in the drug stores will do just fine. For the beginner, I would recommend buying an assortment pack which contains 'lite', 'regular', and 'super' tampons. That way, you can try them all and feel the differences [and there ARE differences, dearie. We'll go into that later].
By checking the magazine ads, you can sometimes even get free samples by going to a company's web site.
Select a 'lite' or 'regular' tampon for your 'maiden voyage.' After carefully unwrapping it, apply a LITTLE water soluble lube to the applicator tube containing the actual tampon. In your choice of position, carefully insert it, leaving only enough of the tube to grasp while you push home the plunger to seat the tampon in you. This is why I said 'a LITTLE' lube. If you use gobs and gobs, then you won't be able to grip the tube.. Make sure the string 'tail' is hanging out for easy removal later. You can use saliva to lube the applicator in case you have to change tampons in a restroom emergency situation, or just for a more uncomfortable insertion at home. FWIW, sucking on a tampon applicator is extremely humiliating and could be used for discipline or punishment- just look at yourself in the mirror, girl. Imagine having to hold it in your mouth while being whipped, not dropping or crushing it... but that's a tale for another time.
Those with S & M tastes might wish to try soap or mentholated chest rub as a lube on the applicator and the exposed tip of the tampon. A completely dry insertion also keeps you very focused. After it is in for an hour or so, your body becomes more used to the intruder. So for continual discomfort, change it every couple of hours. A small tug on the string will also remind your body that you are 'female.'
A tampon inserted after douching will feel differently than one inserted without douching.
After several rounds of douching, my pussy, anyway, tends to flex and spasm around the tampon. This produces delightful feelings. Without a douche, a tampon gives an unusual feeling of fullness down there, which takes some getting used to. Even with a douche, over time, the feelings caused by the tampon will change. My experience is that at about the half-hour mark, it changes to a dull ache that lingers long after the tampon is removed. Start by wearing it for a half hour, and add an hour each time, working up to 8-12 hours a day for several days in a row.
For your first couple of times wearing a tampon, I would recommend staying home, and close to the bathroom. The intrusion of the tampon itself, coupled with your movements, can stimulate the bowels to action. If this happens, hold it as long as you can comfortably [remember, this IS training, sweetie ]. Then, remove the tampon, do your business, clean up, and insert a fresh one if your training schedule that day is for a longer period of time. A sensible woman does not flush her tampons down the toilet, but rather, carefully wraps them in TP for disposal. Tampons, sanitary pads, and even panty-liners tend to clog toilets, so please be prudent here to avoid accidents and embarrassment.
Peeing, with a tampon in, is its own adventure. Sitting as a woman, of course, requires different muscle control/relaxation than standing, regardless of how badly you have to go. Your first few times, you will swear that tampon is going to come right out. Don't worry, it probably won't. I've never had this happen to me. Passing gas is another unforgettable moment. Again, your whole insides won't come rushing out. If it does, just clean up and insert a fresh one. After all, the world isn't going to stop spinning just because a 'woman' had an accident!
