Now to begin, by using your hands and LIPS, rub his legs and thighs up and down not to forget the insides of the thighs which are very sensitve and does give great pleasure, keep doing this until you feel he is relaxed and ready to proceed. Gently touch his balls with your fingers, lifting them, weighing them, massaging them, rubbing your face all around on them. Pulling his sack gently down toward the floor, never out to you, remembering not to smash his balls, this will hurt bad. Pulling down will cause his forskin on his shaft to tighten up and pull his cock out towards you at the same time so you can lick, suck and tease the head. Use your other hand to run your fingertips up and down the shaft. If he is still soft, this will surely get him hard! I doubt his cock will be soft. Remember that his cock is not only above the balls, it is also below them as well. The shaft goes all the way to the anus. Rubbing and stroking firmly down there on that spot between his balls and anus a few times will get him going.
Now, making the "OK" sign with your thumb and index finger, don't worry if you can't touch your fingers together once you have them around his shaft, the point is, to be barely touching the shaft, start by stroking very slowly. Do not touch the head just yet until you do this for at least 20-30 strokes slowly all the way from the base of his shaft to just under the head. After that go to the head, using the same "OK" sign, stroke the underside of the crown in very short very quick strokes up and down rubbing the crown only and not touching the shaft. Again with 20-30 strokes.
After this point, still using the "OK" sign with your fingers, very gently rub the underside of the head and shaft in a back and forth motion (like a washing machine moves). Going with these techniques, varing the amoumt of time you use with each, and you should have his cock leaking alot of precum. From time to time stop everything and grab his shaft like you would grab a handle and squeeze it real firm but gentle, this should bring out a big drop precum to use however you please. Now once you have grasped his cock in a firm grip jerk it up and down a few times allowing his balls to move with your hand as not too stretch the skin too much causing pain.
Now sit up higher and bring your breasts up to rub your nipples all over his cock teasing each of your nipples at the same time while teasing his cock using some of those drops of precum to lubricate your nipples with. Turning him on is the point, right!!! So why not turn yourself on also. Take his cock by the base with your thumb and first two fingers and with your other hand hold one of your tits out, using his cock like a hammer to pound your nipples with like you would be driving in a nail 10-15 firm splaps will do (it will make his cock feel great not to mention your nipples). Mashing your tits onto his cock and thighs will be a big turn on for him also. Now put his cock between your tits, hold them together yourself, and rub his shaft with them, using the precum to lubricate with, squeezing them together firmly to form a warm soft pillow for his hard shaft to fit around. Remember not to cover your nipples with your fingers because men like to look at a nipple gettin hard, also he can pinch, pull, and twist'em to tease you too. A big turnon for guys is to watch a woman touch herself in a way that makes her enjoy the moment. After a little bit of this treatment make him take your breasts so he can work them up and down on his cock and you can concentrate on working the head with your mouth also using your hands on his balls.
At this point, you might want to begin the blowjob. Start by taking one of his balls in your mouth, kissing them, sucking them, feeling their heat. Be gentle, as they are tender. Doing the same to both, putting both in your mouth if you can. Taking your time, time should not be an issue here. NEVER NEVER use your teeth at all at any point, this is very important. He might be moving about a bit, or letting you know by grunting or groaning, of your doing a good job. When you are ready, run your tongue up his shaft and all around it, lightly but firmly, stopping to kiss him here and there. Pause, tell him how much you like to suck on his cock and want to make him cum, to feel it throb (by this point you should be into it as much as he is, you know what to say!) Move back down, stroking him, kissing his cock. Then, get very close to the head, and blow gently all over his cock and his balls and thighs. Slowly, lick the head, around and around, slipping your tongue over his slit across the "V" area. This is what will really will please his cock, so be careful and not overdue it. Stop, and run your tongue along the shaft while using your thumb, gently rub the head back and forth over that "V" spot just below his slit. Run your tongue to his balls, playing with them, pulling them down, sucking them into your mouth then kiss your way back to the head.