How to Receive a Facial Cumshot

Facial cumshots are one of my fetishes and--as a guy--I've delivered many of them. I've also written quite a lot of erotic fiction about the topic (so check out my works here at Literotica--several have earned "HOT" status!).

I thought to write a guide about the perfect facial cumshot, initially thinking to write it for guys. But I think, really, it's the recipient of the facial who I can talk to most. OK, so it sounds simple. All you have to do is have a guy ejaculate on your face. But it's more nuanced than you might think. Little things you can do will amplify the erotic potential significantly.

I'm conscious that, out of context, this How To guide could be seen as crass or offensive. Why might somebody want to do such a sex act? It's messy. Filthy. Humiliating, even.

Well, there's all kinds of reasons. You could be submissive and want to please your dom. You might just want to give your partner a treat on a special occasion. Or you might just love the feeling of hot sperm splashing on your face. (If it's the last in that list then do not hesitate to get in touch with me to discuss more...)

The facial could follow oral. Or it could follow the guy pulling out after fucking. I've not made any assumptions here.

I've tried to make this a guide for anybody. I refer to the person with a cock as a guy but that could be anybody with a cock, such as a trans woman. And I've tried to avoid referring to the recipient of the facial cumshot as a woman, too.

THE ESSENTIALS

There's a handful of things to consider when receiving a facial cumshot.

-- Towel: Have a towel ready. Myself and my wife have special towels for this, always ready and available at the side of the bed.

-- Make up: Why do guys like to cum on their partners' faces? It's something to do with how beautiful they find you. Covering that beauty with their sperm seems to make erotic sense. They orgasm on the most beautiful part of you. It's just the best, and hard to describe unless you're the owner of a cock. However, a face that's made up and looks amazing is going to make the whole thing a lot more erotic for the guy.

-- To assist, or not: It's usually better if the guy strokes himself to orgasm, because he knows his own body. He can also take aim if he intends to cover your entire face in cum. If you bring him off then it's likely the cum will fly everywhere. This can be fun. But it's perhaps not conducive to a good facial cumshot. You can obviously lead him up to the point of no return with your mouth and hands (or tits, or pussy etc). But let him take over for the actual cumshot.

-- Maintain eye contact: This rule for a good blowjob also applies here. OK, so the guy is likely to have his eyes closed as he experiences orgasm and when he ejaculates. But if he looks down at you for even a split second, and sees you looking up at him as he's spurting cum on your face, then the erotic effect is massively magnified.

-- Coax out a load: Whether the guy is a spurter or a dribbler is ultimately down to genetics. But two things really will help him build up a good load of cum. The first is how turned on he is. If the facial comes after a hot, lengthy fuck session then the guy's likely to have more of a load to deliver. So, really ensure he's begging to cum. Secondly, licking a guy's balls, perineum and even their asshole is likely to fill those balls right up to bursting point. So, pay attention to them as he strokes.

-- Be quiet: You might invite the guy to cum on your face, or cover your face in cum. But after that? Just keep quiet. He really doesn't require any further encouragement as he strokes his cock and the orgasm starts to build. All you're going to do is distract him. Just maintain that eye contact.

-- Leave it alone: When the guy has cum on your face, leave the sperm alone for at least five or ten seconds. Just maintain that eye contact and let him enjoy looking at your face covered in his cum. Let him enjoy it running down your face and onto your body. Don't rub it in. Once he's had his fill of gazing at the mess he's made of your face, that's when you can reach for the towel.

-- Laugh: I don't think I've ever given a facial cumshot without some fun and laughter involved, largely because I spurt a massive amount, and my partner is typically amazed (even my wife, to whom I've given facials literally 100s of times). Be natural. Having a guy cum on your face is a weird, crazy thing. Acknowledge that.

-- Suck him dry: Some guys are too sensitive after ejaculation, but many guys will enjoy it even more if you take their cock into your mouth to lick and suck the final few drops. Again, this magnifies the erotic power of the facial.

-- Scooping up cum: After the guy has enjoyed just gazing at his cum on your face, pushing some into your mouth as you once again maintain eye contact is likely to blow the mind of the guy even more. There's few things hotter than pushing the cum from around your mouth into it, or licking around your lips to gather it up.

-- Tongue out: Alongside maintaining eye contact, opening your mouth and putting your tongue out is one of the most powerful things you can do to boost the erotic feeling for the guy when receiving a facial cumshot. Yeah, it's a porn cliche. But that's why it's so hot.

-- To hold, or not: Establish ahead of time if the guy is going to hold your head in any way. For example, dominant guys might want to grab your hair as he cums (not so great if you have extensions!). Or he might want to hold your chin to help angle your head for his cumshot, or the side of your head.

-- Cum kisses: Check ahead of time! Following the facial, some guys will be happy to have a filthy kiss in which they get to taste their own cum. Other guys... Less so.

-- Swallow or spit: Honestly, either are going to be amazing. If you don't want to swallow, pushing out with your tongue any cum that's got into your mouth is just going to be filthy in the best possible way. But ultimately, you are going to be swallowing at least a small amount of cum following a facial. It's unavoidable. So be prepared to grin and bear it if you don't like the taste.

POSITION

There are various positions you can adopt for the guy to cum on your face. Each has plusses and minuses, and while some of the positions are obvious, there's some choices you may not have considered.

-- Recipient kneels/he stands: This is obviously the classic porn way to receive a facial cumshot and indeed, if you've been sucking cock/mouth or throat fucking, then it's a position you might already be in. The benefits are that the guy is above you, giving him optimum scope for aim and sperm coverage. Another benefit is that the erotic effect is magnified after the cumshot because of gravity, when the cum drips down onto your chest (e.g. onto your tits in the case of a woman--the only thing better than a facial cumshot is covering the face AND the body in cum). Kneeling in front of him is also nicely submissive, if that's part of your sex life. The downside is that it can be hard on the knees (and you want to be comfortable during this, right?). Be sure to angle your head correctly. Really, you need to be looking up at the guy's head, and that can be slightly uncomfortable for the neck. If you're gazing ahead at his cock and balls then the cum might fly over your head, if he's a spurter, or end up going mostly in your hair. I mean, the guy might love this. But it ain't gonna be a facial cumshot.

-- Recipient lies back on the bed/he kneels astride the recipient's chest: This is another submissive position, and as such, one of my favourites. It also allows good access to the tits for a nice tit fuck, if that's something either of you enjoy. There's ample scope for eye contact as you gaze up at him. He will shoot his cum up your face in stripes, too, which if he's a spurter makes for a good visual effect. Downsides: You might get cum in your nose. Breathe OUT as he ejaculates...

-- He lies on the bed/the recipient puts their head on his stomach: This is a nice relaxed position. He lies back, his cock pointing to the ceiling. The recipient lies on his stomach, their head facing his cock. The recipient can stroke his cock as required, and fondle his balls while he strokes himself, or possibly reach under to his perineum and asshole. As he cums, the guy angles his cock upwards to spray the recipient's face (and sometimes, with a big spurter like me, both the guy AND his partner end up getting cum on their face!). The downside is obviously that he can't see the facial as it happens, although you can obviously show him the results. But this is an ideal position if the guy is pooped and tired after all that fucking and just wants to shoot his load in an erotic way.

-- The recipient sits up in bed, back against the headboard or wall/he stands on the bed above them: This is another of my favourite positions. It's not quite the same as the kneeling position mentioned earlier because the guy will be higher up. As such, the possibilities for the recipient to suck cock/lick his balls is more difficult because the guy will have to bend his knees to provide access. But on the other hand, the higher position allows the cum to fly through the air more, creating a more erotic view (ideal if you're capturing it on your phone!). The cum also splatters on the recipient's face in a more erotic way because it's coming from higher up, making for a much messier, filthier result.

--The recipient lies on their side in bed, with their head on a pillow/he kneels with his cock close to their mouth: This is a great position if you both like the look of a good facial cumshot, because if the guy spurts he will create stripes of cum across the cheek of the recipient. Alternatively, the guy can mostly aim for the mouth and shoot his cum straight inside, which can be equally hot. If you're submissive and the guy is dominant, he can also hold your head against the pillow as he ejaculates. The downside is, obviously, that you're going to get cum on the linen. But we take that in our stride, right?

-- Sitting: The recipient can sit back in, say, an armchair or office chair, while the guy stands and shoots cum over them. This is a nice way to cover the entire recipient in cum, if you're a spurter, as well as just their face (e.g. getting cum on the woman's tits, too). Downside: He's going to get cum on the furnishings... Alternatively, the guy can sit back in an armchair/office chair while the recipient kneels in front of him. Obviously, this is a classic way to give a blowjob, but the guy will have to angle his cock down to ensure the cum shoots onto the recipient's face. As such, it can make aiming difficult, with the potential for cum to fly over the head of the recipient, or the cum might just fly up and land on the guy. If the guy explicitly states he wants to cover the face in cum during the facial, then one of the other positions mentioned here is a safer bet.