Think of cuckqueaning as an expertise. For the husband who decides to cuckquean his wife, he must have complete mastery of certain skills. Much like in any profession - he must go to school, read, and practice. So like a professional, before you ever begin training your wife, you must first train yourself. You're about to go on an incredible journey; you want to be prepared, right?
The world of cuckqueaning is unlike the normal world. It has various rules and customs that are different from everyday life, of which you must be aware. You must immerse yourself in this new culture. To begin, start reading erotic stories that deal with cuckqueaning. Many men before you have cuckqueaned their wives and recorded their experiences. Also, many women have written about their descent into male domination. Learn from them. Reading stories will acquaint you with the new world of cuckqueaning and will prevent you from having to reinvent anything. Beyond stories, you may want to read books on male domination and buy videos of doms training women.
You must also train yourself to be sexually independent. If you want to control your wife you need to not need her pussy. In the future, you will need to deny your wife the pleasures of your body and this will be only possible if you are strong enough to abstain from sex. Sex between you and your wifey is probably pretty vanilla anyway if you're thinking about cuckqueaning her, so it shouldn't be too hard. Masturbate often. Splurge on vibrators, sex dolls, lotions, clothing, and pornography. Have fun! Visit your local sex shop and ask for ideas. You may also want to think about buying toys that, after using on yourself, you can also use on your wife once she's properly trained. The key is whenever you have the urge for a fucking, train yourself to seek satisfaction from a source other than your wife. For example, when you're horny, take out your sex doll.
A good way to help your training along is to change your appearance. Make it your goal to become a hothusband. The prime focus of a hothusband is expressing his sexuality in all manners, from the type of shoes he wears to the way he shaves his pubic area. A hothusband wears fashionable clothes as much as he can. He wears vibrant pants, perfume, and nice shoes all the time. He does his hair and washes himself daily. At night he wears a sexy bathrobe to tease his wife. He goes to the gym often. When he goes to the grocery store he doesn't wear underwear, so other hungry women may see his raging boner. If you start doing things like these, not only will you be sending a signal to your wife that you've changed, but you'll be sending a signal to yourself. Because you look like a hothusband, you'll think you're a hothusband, and then you'll be a hothusband! The advantages to being a hothusband are numerous. Your wife will lust for you much more, even if she doesn't show it, other women will croon over you (this will increase your confidence), and your sexual energy will increase, all of which you can channel into power.
Also, feel free to start flirting. It's probably been a long time since you've flirted with another woman, so you'll need practice. Look women in the eyes and smile. If you drop something in the office, bend over without bending your knees, show your coworkers what a sexy ass you've got. At night go out with girlfriends who like to party. Make it a goal to flirt with at least one woman a day. The key is to increase your confidence. Not only will it be very satisfying to know that there are other women out there who are interested in you, but in the back of your mind you can use this knowledge as leverage against your wife.