Allow me to include a few hints I have discovered along the way. Do not, I repeat do not weigh yourself every day. There are too many dally variables for accurate recording to allow you to weigh daily. If you just happen to have a meal with too much salt in it, you can throw off the scale by a couple of pounds with water retention alone. Once a week is plenty and if you want, twice but do not weigh yourself more than three times a week. Many people don't believe in using a scale ever, just letting their clothes tell them where they are. Personally, I find it rewarding to see that scale drop as you get on it. Water is very important in all weight loss regimens. You need to drink at least eighty ounces of water per day. Unbelievably drinking extra water helps you from retaining water and it flushes the ketones (basically the ash left from consuming calories). I fill five one-liter bottles with water every day and I have found that it is much easier to drink and easier to keep track that way. As far as exercise, I would advise joining a gym just because there is more equipment and therefore more diversity. However if you don't wish to go that way, there is plenty of exercises you can do at home. There must be a hundred websites with both home and gym exercise tips on them. Cardio exercise is the most important as you need to raise your heart rate in order to burn more calories. Strength training is also very helpful in weight loss as muscle burns calories faster than fat.
Another thing to keep in mind is that we are all human and eventually we will slide off the wagon. A party or a night on the town it doesn't really matter what causes it. The thing is you have to keep the faith so to speak, if you have a wild weekend and eat and or drink too much come Monday you have to get back on that wagon. As I have said, this is a lifestyle change but it is still a life. There will be times when you will need or simply want to overindulge, just remember it is OK as long as you go back to your routine.
Well I hope my ramblings will help someone make the commitment to take that first step so to speak. The one thing that helps is that when you start you will lose weight faster than at any other time on your diet. Although most of this loss is just water it is still encouraging to a new dieter. So here is to your new lifestyle and your new look and believe me, I know you will enjoy it.