Recently I have read an article asking for a man to tell the male state of mind. Now what I say may not apply to every man but I'm sure most of us think in this way.
Now when we guys screw up you ladies seem to think we don't care. Nothing could be further from the truth. We just don't see it in the same light. I guess a good example is your man is working in the garage. While he is staring into his project you would ask "does my hair look ok?" he answers "ya" In a tone that shows no enthusiasm.
From my experience this is where you ladies assume that he did not even look, so there for he is trying to get rid of you, there for he doesn't give a shit about you or what you think, then all hell breaks loose and we end up on the couch. Well from what I understand this is the track in which the female mind works. Ten assumptions ending it that one and only reason some guy invented throw pillows.
Ladies believe it or not a guy thinks in a similar way. But we do it thinking about other stuff than if you like us. When you asked your famous question of death, you didn't realized he did see your hair in the corner of his eye. So when he said "ya" he meant it. But at that same moment he also figured out why his engine keeps stopping after 10 seconds. So se we don't have a one track mind it just seems that way.
And sometimes it seems like we are just trapped, mostly with all the questions you ladies ask.
The questions we really hate are things like "Do I look fat?" and "Do you think she is pretty?" these are two death sentences, "Do I look fat?", No matter what we say we are dead. If I say yea because I think you look great I am going to get accused of lying. Ladies believe it or not you are in no way ugly, if we get to this question you should already know the answer. "Of Corse not I like the way you look or I would not be dating you".
If this question is common I would suggest doing some self searching to get rid of what ever daemons are giving you doubt, because sooner or later he is just going to start saying "yea" just to get the same punishment for the least amount of effort.
And ladies don't ask questions for which you don't want to know the answer.
"Do you think she is pretty?" guys have a natural instinct to look at women it is a reaction we try to fight it around you but its hard so asking this question is like giving a loaded needle to a recovering heroin addict.
We are being forced into a habit we are trying to stay away from and it is going to destroy our lives.
If you have a man he loves you for a reason and will not leave you no matter how many breasts he looks at. If he does you deserve better anyway.
