Hello again. I wanted to add one of my hobbies that I am totally invested in, I am the designated submissive trainer at a really nice BDSM Training Camp in the Southeast. The camp is known worldwide because of the Internet and many come from outside the US to train there.
The Tops get to be trained in things like paddling, whipping, bondage, leather social protocols, and later tying ropes into exquisite-looking and solidly binding workmanship. We actually model the ropes at the end of camp in a runway contest. All the subs/faggots have to get tied up in these ropes and model them for the camp. We are of course then fucked like dogs before the ropes cum off.
The Tops/Masters learn about safe words, negotiating sex contracts, reading their subs, the many levels of commitment to the relationship, and how that can change. Truly tough Tops learn to be more attentive and less aggressive. Very timid Tops learn to be more aggressive and assertive. It is a mix that all learn from and typically the camp only meets 2-3 times a year.
i am one of the submissive trainers. i teach the truly mind-altering head fucks of real BDSM restraints, bondage, and yes acceptable levels of pain. i am kind of out there on the pain scale. i am not a true masochist but i am pretty close.
The submissive trainees at the camp usually come in about ten strong. I meet them at the gate and take them to the open toilet and shower area. The open toilet area is a raised wooden stage. It is about ten feet by ten feet and raised about 4 feet tall, about waist high for most men. There are stairs to the front. On the left side is two conventional toilets, open to the air, no roof, no walls. in the back left corner is a sink for shaving and washing up. On the right side are three shower heads. the back two are for just showering. The one on the right front includes a 'shower shot' and an open drain for the subs/faggots to douche in front of the whole camp. Before the camp is over, every sub/faggot is expected to douche openly in front of the camp. This is to break all shreds of modesty before they leave.
Submissives must learn many things while here. Personally, i like to start the "end of modesty" class asap. For many men in America, especially the younger ones, modesty is a real issue. They cant even get undressed in a locker room. Nudity to them is unheard of by their peers. i get them from the van, walk them to the open toilet/shower. They are told to place the clothes they packed, all gay males pack way too much clothes, and place them in a shed "for safe keeping." Master Tim, the camp owner will lock that shed almost immediately. These guys will be naked for the next ten days. They have signed that on several papers and on the application. They just cant process that at that point. This happens every Training Camp i teach. While they are standing there, i light a fire i have built, strip off my clothes, and burn them completely. This usually has them very upset. i tell them i am a graduate of the camp and i will be their new instructor and i will be completely naked from now on to honor my Master. We then introduce one of the camp owners, Master Tim or Master John, and they reinforce everything I just said. 1) Their clothes will be locked up safely and 2) They are expected to be completely naked for the next ten days.