Thanks for all your comments. Glad to see you're reading part 2. Looks like you're taking your 1
st
steps to be in control of your relationship. You know anger is a sign of fear.
By the way I do have a male dog. It's a little Japanese Chin that I had neutered immediately. Every 4 weeks he gets his nails trimmed hair washed and cut short except for his tail and his ears. He is always so happy after his treatment and he is always a well behave dog for mama. Guess who's job it is now to pick up after his little dropping in the back yard.
Let's get started. This life changing experience began when I caught my husband watching porn on his computer. I always wondered why some nights he would be so horny and want to have sex with me and then days would pass and nothing, I found my answer.
The night he was watching porn on his computer I walk up behind him he never saw me
(he must have been really concentrating)
I said are you enjoying yourself honey? He jumped and tried to close the computer screen only to fumble around with the mouse. He was a like a little boy that was caught with his hand in the cookie jar, in a way it was kind of cute.
Instead of yelling at him and going into the other room crying and being ashamed I said nothing. I just stood there for a minute looking at the computer screen and then looking down at him. He couldn't look at me, his head was pointed down towards the desk. Then I turned around and slowly walk out of the room. As I was walking out slowly, I stopped and said in a sexy teasing voice never looking back at him, enjoy yourself honey. I'm sure he though what just happened! No yelling no screaming, she doesn't even seem upset.
From past experiences I knew he must have been very horny after watching porn. Isn't that why they invented strip clubs, so boys disguised as men will go home with a hardon after spending their money or their wife's money LOL.
Before he went to bed he gave me a big kiss and told me how much he loved me. As horny as he was he never asked to have sex that night and for the next week. You think he was thinking about me that night especially being as horny as he was. I know he was and you'll see why.
What was this all about was he afraid or embarrassed being caught in the act. Now his secret was out. That evening after he had gone to bed I decided to do my own research. After a week of searching porn sights, I learned that men are little boys inside. What man does not like his toys, tools, cars, trucks, electronics you name it. Its boys and their toys. If you look back in time you will see many men have died to conquer countries in the name of their Queen,
(Cleopatra)
just to name one.
I noticed my husband was never the same after I caught him watching porn. His demeaner towards me was completely different. He was nicer wanted to do more things for me and after all these years I'd have to be crazy to stop him. He became more of the man that I married and did not take me for granted. Did he feel guilty?
That's when I decided it was time for me to take control of this relationship. I told him I've been doing some serious soul searching
(Porn Searching)
tonight we are going to have a serious talk about what happened the other night. He replied what night after all it has been a whole week. He thought I wouldn't remember. Really, I don't think so. What was going thru his head what took her so long for her to say something. In a very stern voice I said do I have to remind you what night, the night you were caught watching porn. Then in a meek voice he says Oh that night. I replied again in a little more dominant voice yes that night.
Now my voice became more dominant not yelling just being assertive taking control type of voice. When you're done working I want you to come and see me. He came and sat down in the family room. His chair is the big recliner as he could see I was sitting in it tonight. I said to him I want you to sit in my chair and he did, mine
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the double recliner.
I ask are you all done with work he replied yes. I want you to completely focus on what I have to say do you understand. He answered again in the same tone yes. I said when I ask you a question from now on you answer yes dear do you understand? His immediate replied yes dear.
I told him I understand that men like to watch porn isn't that right? He said in a low voice with his head down yes dear (let the training begin).
Well tonight I like to give you a fantasy how does that sound. He replied eagerly yes dear, I would love that. I made certain he hadn't had any sex for a week.
I told him I heard the most sensual sex is when both partners have no hair on their body. Remember when I started shaving my vagina area years ago. Now it's your turn to be shaven and get that same feeling.
I want you to go into the shower and shave your chest, arms and legs and
DO NOT
shave your crotch area. When your done call me and I will join you in the shower. I saw an article on the internet that says when you totally remove hair on a man's body he will become more submissive especially his toy area.
When I entered the shower, I said let me see if what you've done meets my approval. One thing I did notice is how hard his toy was. I shaved his back and buttocks he really doesn't have that much hair. I told him I want you to dry off put on the thong underwear I have left for you on the bed and go wait for me in the family room.
He started to walk away; I said in an assertive voice I'm not done with your instructions yet. I want you to sit in my chair which will be your chair from now own. I have the life time channel on. I don't want you to change the channel you sit there and wait for me do you understand. Surprisingly he said yes dear immediately. Could it be because his toy is hard as a rock?
After 30 minutes I walked into the room knowing his toy would be soft. I was wearing a hot black patent leather outfit with high black patent leather shoes. I told him from now on you are to stand when I enter the room, he stood up immediately and answered yes dear. The shoes were high enough and him being in his bare feet he had to look up at me. Then I told him he had my permission to sit down. There he was sitting in my chair and me in his chair wearing his little thong underwear oh did I mention their pink.
By the way I'm 5 feet 5 inches tall. I weigh 112 pounds and have been blessed with a size 36 C and a size 4 waist. My husband is 5 feet 8 inches tall he weights 190 pounds, but he works out 3 times a week. He also plays racquet ball 3 times a week. All these activities are done in the morning when I am sleeping. I allow him to play golf on Sundays with his golf buddies. After golf he must come home immediately to serve me no drinking with the guys. He is built like a real man, that's what makes total control over him much more exciting.
I sat down in what
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