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HOW I WANT MY FIRST M2M SUB EXPERIENCE TO GO DOWN:
First, I should be ritually undressed and made to present naked while my dom inspects his new toy. A blindfold or hood can be applied as part of this process. If the dom wants me to assume a position it's fine. I can also be ordered to masturbate until hard (if I'm not already) but I should not be allowed to cum.
If the dom wants to mark me up with a washable skin-friendly marker that's fine, but no pics.
The dom should then apply a leash to my genitals and pull on it, forcing me to my knees. He should anchor the leash to a weight to hold me in this position for a period of time. If he wants me to fellate him or hold my head and fuck my face during this period it's fine, but he shouldn't cum unless he can cum again, later. If he does cum I should be made to hold the fluid in my mouth for a long as possible, until I have no choice but to swallow. If any dribbles out I should be slapped and made to lick it up off the floor.
The dom then drags me by the leash over to the bench or rack, where he applies ropes or straps in such a way that I am completely helpless and my "access points" are open and accessible. The restraints should be tight, I should not be able to free myself or resist any activities.
A penis gag can be inserted if desired. If the dom wishes to penetrate my anus it's okay, but only with a small plug, vibrator, or dildo. Nothing that uncomfortably stretches the anus and nothing organic (i.e. no tongue, finger, or penis.) This device could be left in place for the session if the dom so desires.
Light punishment, like spanking or whipping, can now be applied. If it excites the dom to increase the intensity until I start to make some noise that's fine, but no permanent markings or blood, and backs of the thighs and butt, only.
As far as my mouth is concerned, if the dom wants to prop it open with some kind of gag or spreader that's fine. If he then wants to wash it out with his urine that's fine too, but not in such a way that fills it up or forces me to drink any of it. Alternately, he can pee into a dog dish and force my face into it, making me lap up the liquid.
Light genitorture, like pinchy clips or clothespins, can be applied, but to the head of the penis or scrotum, only. The testicles are not to be involved in any way. If the dom wants to apply manual pressure to increase the pain to the point where I start struggling or making noise again it's fine. The nipples can be tortured in a similar fashion if so desired.
Now oral penetration begins in earnest. My head can be propped back to accommodate the dom's penis, which can be inserted as deeply as he wants, but not TOO deep (i.e. no deep throating.) This activity can continue for as long as the dom desires, or stopped and started as many times as he likes in order to edge him to orgasm. Other parts of the genitals can be inserted as well, but the mouth should not touch the anus. This activity proceeds until the dom is satisfied and all the fluid is forced down my throat. If any drips out it should be collected and put back in.
Afterwards, I should be made to clean up the dom's groin area with my lips and tongue.
Now I should be forced to cum (if I haven't already) by milking or Fleshlight. Extreme edging can happen if so desired. Upon orgasm, the fluid should be captured in the dom's hand or a cup. Then it should be dribbled or smeared on my face, with some of it being forced into my mouth as well.
Last, I am released, made to clean everything up, get dressed, thank the dom, and leave until next time.
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I emailed this to my dom and waited.