As I swiveled my office chair, the movement caused my butt to move and I could feel it. My skin wasn't raw but even a mild touch brought a noticeable discomfort. The muscles below had that pleasant ache like a good workout. There was still a tinge of the nice warmth, almost a glow, that I had experienced last night over the whole area.
The best spanking is one that you can still feel the next day.
I'm pretty sure that my sexual development was mostly normal. I was a slow starter and during the first couple of years after giving up my virginity, my activities were limited to missionary position and me going down on the guy.
I loosened up in college where I had a couple of serious relationships. I also had several hooks-ups, including a couple that I wasn't proud of and would rather forget. I found out what the receiving end of oral sex felt like and became an addict. I tried anal sex and decided that once was more than enough to satisfy my curiosity. One night, drunk, I had a heavy make-out session with another girl and afterwards decided that, even though I liked her softness of her breasts, I would stick with boys.
I wasn't spanked until six years after college--two years ago.
Rob, my boyfriend didn't exactly panic me when, as we lay on his bed making out, he gave me a tentative swat on my butt. We had come back from dinner and soon headed to the bedroom. I lay there topless and he was running his hands over my back, my breasts, my butt, and the back of my thighs. I could feel my nipples poking against him and I knew that I was getting wet. Rob was a really good lover and I was sure that it wouldn't be long until his tongue was massaging my clit.
Then he swatted my butt.
I wasn't shocked and I wasn't offended but I was surprised. He hadn't said anything about wanting to spank me and I hadn't asked him to. I had a friend in college who described her boyfriend spanking her during sex and how she loved it when he did. So, I knew that sexual spanking was a thing but hadn't given any thought to doing it any more than I had thought about a list of other things I had heard described during late night conversations with my roommates and friends.
Rob didn't pull me over his lap and spank me. In fact, other than that one swat, our lovemaking that night didn't vary from our normal satisfying but tame practices. Soon, we were both naked and he was lying between my thighs. His tongue brought me to my first orgasm of the night and any thought of that swat escaped my mind as I concentrated on the pleasure that his tongue was bringing me. Orgasm number two came as I lay across him in the sixty-nine position, me edging him as he continued to lick me. Number three followed as I straddled him in cowgirl, my second favorite position. That was when, after entering me, he finally got his own well-deserved climax.
It was later on that I remembered that he had swatted me. I lay snuggled against his left side, feeling the afterglow of having been well fucked. His right arm held me close, caressing me. It slid from my breast to my side and then to my hip when I remembered.
"What was that with spanking me?" I asked him. I wasn't complaining and wasn't even challenging him. I was just curious about where it had come from.
"Did you like it?" he asked?
"I didn't either like it or dislike it" I told him after a pause to think about it. "To be honest, I hardly felt it over my pants."
He stared at me and I could tell that he wanted to ask me something but was hesitating. I decided I wasn't going to help him out and I just stared back, letting him squirm. Finally, he asked his question. "So, if I did it again, you wouldn't mind?"
I had my answer ready before he asked. "I guess I won't know until you do it but if you're going to do it, I think I'd want to feel it this time." I didn't exactly tell him to spank me but, looking back, I know that I had given him permission.
I didn't really think much of it over the next month. Rob and I were both early in our careers and sometimes our jobs got busy at the same time. We did managed to get some regular us time but our sex wasn't any different than it had been. Until Labor Day weekend.
We had already agreed to spend the three-day weekend together and, since his roommate was going out of town, we'd have the place to ourselves. On Friday, I packed a suitcase with enough clothes to last the weekend and headed over to Rob's. The aroma from the kitchen told me that we were going to eat in and I joined him, slicing veggies to toss into the salad. After dinner, we did the dishes then sat together on the couch.
I sipped my wine and then put my glass down on the table, thinking that he was about to kiss me. Instead, he sighed and stood up, getting a coaster that he placed under my glass. He looked at me like he was going to say something and I remembered that he had asked me at least once or twice to use a coaster. "Sorry," I told him contritely. He didn't say anything but kept looking at me. I smiled and decided to make a joke to bring him back into his earlier mood. "I won't forget again. Please don't spank me."
I really wasn't thinking about him swatting my butt or our talk afterwards. Really, I wasn't. But as soon as the words were out of my mouth, I remembered it. Evidently, so did he.