Trisha looked at me over the breakfast table, took a sip of her coffee, and reminded me that "your birthday is in four weeks. I need a list of what you would like in the next few days. And I want you to put a list together of bondage and torture tools that you want me to use on you. Choose a good number, I will then buy the ones I want to use on you, and we will celebrate together."
"Sounds like a challenge. Not often a sometime sub gets to pick what might happen to them."
"You know me well enough to know I won't be too hard on you. It will be interesting to see what you pick, what sort of things you want to explore."
We went on with life. In quiet moments I spent time surfing the internet. My browser history would make many people blush. I searched to the end, into nooks and crannies, of some of the dirtiest and deviant websites.
This idea was interesting to me, particularly considering the initial relationship based on Trisha's minimal femdom idea. We had grown together, and having thought about it, this idea was an extension of that growth. I wanted to choose a list that would add to our kink life.
I came up with the following list:
1 Leather parachute, including some small weights. This was to add a bit of spice to our cock and ball play.
2 A soft suede flogger. One that would deliver a slow burn on, and would not hurt too much when used with a full swing. I pictured Trisha in the chair, legs akimbo, while I ate her cunt, swishing at my back. An alternative to the crop.
3 A glans ring that included a plug that sat in the urethra. Sometimes called a "sperm stopper". This was a stretch for me to even suggest, and I really didn't know how Trisha would react to this idea.
4 A leather harness for Trisha to wear. It was like a web crossing her body, and it had a ring for attaching a strap on. Although Trisha did not really do the leather femdom thing we had developed our play a bit, and I hoped Trisha would go for this harness. I could picture her wearing boots and this this leather and I became instantly hard. It was more "femdom" than we had ever experienced, imagined or talked about.
5 A gag that had a six inch dildo attached, just the thing to aid oral worship of my mistress.
6 A combination nipple clamp and penis ring set. A one stop torture kit.
7 A set of glass ben-wa balls, purely for Trisha's enjoyment. Included as a sign of love and respect.
8 A purple feeldoe, six inches Trisha for Trisha to fuck me with, and a healthy bump to sit inside and stimulate her.
9 A penis "straight jacket". Not sure what this is called. It is a steel ring that sits behind the balls and a leather piece that attachs to the bottom, wraps over the penis and clips around the ring at the top. It is small and prevents the penis from becoming erect.
10 Spike leather confinement jockstrap. A lockable jockstrap that is lined with hundreds of little spikes. Another way for Trisha to torture me while I pleasure her.
This list was mild in content compared to some of the websites I'd looked at. There were all sorts of harsh, nasty, intrusive and painful devices available. Luckily our play was not like this but rather tended to loving and consensual with the odd bit of pain included. The list continued in that spirit but I hoped it would also stretch us a little as well.
I passed the list to Trisha at dinner one night. She told me that she would look at it later, and I would know what she liked when I opened my presents on my birthday.
We planned a three part birthday. One part would be our private gift sharing, the second a gathering of friends of like mind, and third a different set of friends, including parents.
Trisha also told me that her Hong Kong workmate and friend Delia would be visiting at the time of the party. It had been confirmed she would spend a fortnight at work, shadowing and working with Trisha. It was part of an exchange program that allowed some visiting among participants of the internship Trisha and Delia had undertaken in Hong Kong. Trisha invited Delia to stay with us, and to enjoy our hospitality in general and the birthday parties specifically. She was scheduled to arrive a week before the big birthday weekend.
Delia arrived, all hair and air kisses. She was as lovely as Trisha described her. Not as tall as Trisha, but tall for a girl from southern Italy, she was also somewhat curvier that Trisha. Her skin was as olive and her eyes as dark as Trisha said. The first few nights were spent settling in, and then Delia brought up the conversation they had shared in Hong Kong.
Trisha looked at me and asked "feel like playing? Are you okay with this?" she further enquired, knowing that we had decided that the time in the playroom was just us.
"I'm okay. Delia is sexy, but I want to know is she dominating me?"
"I'll take the lead, and we'll see what happens" Trisha responded. "Do the washing up and when you are finished come to the playroom naked. Knock and wait."
Fifteen minutes later and I was naked kneeling in front of the spare bedroom we used as our playroom. I knocked and Trisha told me to kneel and close my eyes.