It is highly recommended that you read "
the Misunderstanding
" before this story. The first story gives important history to fully appreciate this new story.
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Phil was dissatisfied. But why? Now that he was living with Mary his life was much better than before. He was finally getting the bondage he loved, he was getting the spankings he craved, he had a warm woman to snuggle with in bed. Sometimes they even had sex.
Compared to his earlier life things now were a zillion times better. What was he lacking?
Before he met Mary, when he was living in his world of fantasy, everything was exactly right. Every rope was placed just so, tensioned just right. Every smack of his mistress's hand conveyed just the right combination of pain, pleasure, love and compassion. When his 'mistress of the mind' permitted him to view her body it was perfect; she had no blemishes, no hairs were out of place. When he was allowed to sleep in her bed (remember, it was imaginary) she didn't snore, or wake up looking a bit disheveled. On those few occasions when his mistress permitted him the ultimate expression of her love for him, the ultimate reward, it was accompanied by soft violin music, trumpets, drum rolls and the appropriate spanks, all perfectly timed to his unexpressed wishes.
His life with Mary involved all those compromises that real life requires and the loss of his fantasies saddened him.
This would probably have been a real problem for their relationship but for one saving grace: after their initial tragi-comic misunderstanding they had both worked really hard at communicating honestly with each other. They shared what they were thinking, feeling, desiring and missing. That had led to a closeness that they had come to realize few other couples enjoyed.
Although they each tried their best to tell the other what they were feeling they weren't perfect. Phil had let too much time go by from the time he became aware of these feelings to when he told Mary about them. He was afraid to tell her. He knew that he was being unreasonable expecting Mary to be as perfect as his fantasy mistress was and he was afraid of disturbing their domestic tranquility. Except he wasn't tranquil. He knew it was
his
problem but he also knew that his problem would become
their
problem so on a Saturday morning he started to talk about what was going on for him.
Phil told Mary everything as she listened attentively. When he was done she sat silently for a few moments and then acknowledged that she had similar feeling regarding Phil. She was much better with him than without him but ... he didn't fulfill the dreams she had used to satisfy herself in the past. They were at a loss for what to do. They didn't want to lose what they had with each other but each wanted more.
Phil came up with an idea:
"How about if we look for another couple who can satisfy us? In other words, a man and woman who are each dominant who want a submissive woman and man they can be dominant over. Kind of like a mirror of us."
Mary thought about this for a moment and decided that Phil was brilliant.
"How will we find them?" she asked.
Phil thought a bit and replied that they could look for this dominant couple the same way they found each other but, this time, they would be more accurate with their communication.
Mary had second thoughts about how brilliant an idea this was. This could go in dangerous directions and their relationship could go off the rails if they brought additional people into it in an intimate way.
"Phil, let's back up a step or two. Let's talk about what it is that we each are
really
wanting. I'll go first.
"What I really picture is a dominant man sweeping me off my feet. He is a guy who is supremely confident in himself. He knows what he wants and he knows he wants ME. He's confident is his attractiveness, he doesn't question himself if he's good enough or desirable enough. He
knows
he's more than good enough. And he single mindedly wants ME."
Phil thought about this. "When I was in school I did a lot of acting. I enjoyed it and was pretty good at it. I wonder if I could fill the bill for you if I was acting the role you just described."
Mary thought about it and laughed. "That would be convenient. I'd have my very own live-in dominant man. When we were done you could do the dishes, if it was your turn."
Phil accepted with a laugh, "OK, I'm up for it. Do you want to do this?"
"Sure"
"Do you want to do it now?"
Mary nodded slowly, apprehension and fear rising in her throat.
"I'll need you to give me a general scenario that you want to play out. Then it'll be up to me."
Mary thought for a moment. "I'm a haughty princess. You're a pirate captain who's captured me on the high seas. You want me and you take what you want."
"Got it. I need a few minutes to get into character. Change into that frilly dress you have. Pick a safe word."
"Sassafras"
Phil left the room. A few minutes later
Captain
Phil burst into the room, looked at Mary and laughed.
"Your
powerful
ship and its
brave
crew weren't much help to you." Captain Phil said sarcastically. "Now you're on