Like most guys, I had always planned to be the sexually dominant one in our relationship. We started dating 12 years ago. But I guess even back then there were signs. I spent a lot of time eating her pussy. I love eating her pussy. I love how she tastes. I love how much work it is, but then how satisfying it is when she cums. I love having her juice covering my face afterwards. I also remember cumming in her pussy and then going down on her for the first time. The first taste of my own cum, mixed with hers. Kind of repulsive, but I also loved the thought of it.
Those first several years, I took charge. I had straps permanently tied to the bed. She loved getting tied up and fucked hard. As we took it a little farther, we actually converted a spare bedroom into a make-shift sex dungeon. We painted it dark. I installed hooks on the ceiling and walls. We had a leather ottoman I could fuck her on. We also had a pole in the middle.
Summer was really into pole dancing back then. I'd tie her up, whip and spank her a little bit. I'd make her suck my cock, although she didn't enjoy it much back then. And then I'd untie her, and fuck her. There wasn't too much kinky about it in hindsight, just a different venue for the same kind of play.
The more I tried to be dominant over her though, the more she resisted. I had visions of tying her up, whipping her, leaving her waiting for hours, fucking her ass, pulling out and cumming on her face. I wanted to make her leave the house with a butt plug in, and force her to suck me off in a restaurant bathroom.
I pictured her being naked in the house, a collar around her neck. I wanted to chain her up to the wall until I felt like using her for my own pleasure. I envisioned her desperately wanting to drink my cum, whenever and wherever. The more I suggested and the more toys I bought, the more I realized that she didn't want me to have control. She'd try to submit, but I could see she wasn't a natural bottom. Not for me at least.
I even said to her once, "I think you need to be more fearful of whoever is dominating you."
I can't remember exactly how I got interested in chastity. I remember my first cage though, a common plastic one. I'd wear it for a day or two. She'd let me out, we'd have sex, and that would be it. After a few months of that, I was going on a business trip to Florida. She told me I had to wear it the entire time. I could take it off before I went through airport security, then lock myself back up with a numbered plastic lock. She would text me randomly, demanding a picture immediately. I'd have to run to a bathroom and show her my trapped dick with the same number. It was a huge turn on for me. Sleeping with it on. Going to business meetings. The desire to want it on became intoxicating. When I'd get home, I'd usually take it off, she'd let me cum or we'd have sex. And then I'd feel a little empty. Like the wave I was riding was over, and I wanted more of it.
But I was annoying with it back then. I was trying to make the rules. I was telling her what she should do. I was still trying to be in charge. She was losing interest in it, and without a willing partner to take control, what's the point? We'd still play with it at times, but it wasn't that exciting. Then she caught me...
She caught me jerking off as she opened the bathroom door. She was so pissed. She was about to be on her period and we hadn't had sex for 3 weeks. Clearly this was a trigger. I stopped stroking myself and started going soft from the surprise and embarrassment.
I tried to pull my pants back up and she said, "What the fuck are you doing?"
"Nothing, I was just...," I started to say.
She snapped back at me, "You're going to finish. Right now. In front of me."
I didn't quite know if she was serious. It was in a tone I'd never heard from her before. I meekly grabbed my half-hard dick, and just gave her a quizzical look.
"Well..," she said, "I'm waiting."
I started pumping again, but my mind wasn't in it. I was a little turned on by her demanding tone, but I was unsure of where this was going. She just stood there glaring at me. It took forever stroking my semi-hard dick, but I finally felt like I was getting close. I reached for the toilet paper I had gotten ready, and gave Summer a quick look.
"Uh uh," she said, "cum in your hand."
Her telling me to cum got me instantly hard, and as I reached my hand up, I started cumming, quickly trying to catch it all. As I finished, I looked back at her, waiting for instructions.
"Lick it up. Down there too," she said.
I looked down at the floor where some of my cum had spilled. I sheepishly lapped up my own cum from my hand as she stared at me. Then got down on my hands and knees to lick my cum off the cold tile floor.
Summer turned around, walked out of the bathroom and said, "Now go put your cage on."