My wife is a sub who craves to be dominated. I, on the other hand, have always been more interested in cuddling. I mean, of course I enjoy having a submissive wife, but I would prefer to have her head in my lap so I can stroke her hair. She would prefer to be tied to a post and whipped by someone wearing leather.
We've never had good sex. I'm just so inept, that I can't ever get her to orgasm, and she doesn't really enjoy the things I do attempt. Because she doesn't really enjoy it, I never reach climax either, which just ruins it for both of us. I've always wanted to find a way for her to enjoy sexual stuff, I've just come to terms with the fact that I'll never be the one to provide that for her.
Quite randomly, I stumbled upon information about a local club for BDSM participants while reading an online message board. It had a weekly meeting for partner swapping that sounded intriguing; "Let your slave experience a week with another master," read the post.
It had an address, and listed 6pm Friday as the event time.
That evening, I playfully swatted her behind while she was getting undressed for bed. "You know, I heard today about a way you could get properly spanked by a real master." "Oh?" she asked, turning to look at me. "Yeah, I guess we have a local bdsm-themed swingers' club or something" I said nonchalantly.
Her eyes grew wide with interest "Ooo... Tell me more."
"Well, there's really nothing more I can tell, except that they have weekly meetings."
"We should go to one. she said matter-of-factly. "Might be fun."
A week went by, and no further mention was made. Then one Thursday, I saw her rubbing herself while she was reclining on the couch. "Mmm, whatcha thinking about?" I asked her with a grin, sitting beside her, and caressing her cheek.
"Getting spanked" she moaned. Then she looked up at me "wanna go check out that club?"
I ran my hand down her neck and breast, then lightly pinched her nipple through her light blouse. "Hmm, we can. You'd like that, wouldn't you? Getting tied up and spanked, then maybe even fucked hard by another master?"
As I said those words, she closed her eyes and started to quiver and moan.
The next day, we drove to the address listed. It looked like a supper club, save for the lack of windows. It was situated at the end of a long driveway, surrounded by trees. There were a dozen or more cars in the parking lot.
After parking, we made our way to the door, and entered a small waiting room.
We walked up to a desk, and the lady behind it smiled, asking how we were doing tonight. I told her that I as doing well, and that we were interested in taking part in the swap. She nodded, then asked if we'd been involved before, I said 'No', and she handed me a clipboard. "She will need to be assessed, what's her name?"
"Lacey," I replied.
"Good, I'll get you started on this paperwork, and someone will be out to take her back to assessment shortly. Go ahead and take a seat." "Thank you," I replied, then we headed to the chairs across the room from her. We sat down, and I looked at her "Are you nervous?" "A little" she said with a grin. "Excited? Still want to go through with this?" "Oh definitely. I really need to get spanked."
"Oh, I'm sure you will soon enough." I replied, and looked down at the form. It asked questions like her name, age, marital status, whether her spouse consents, how long she's been actively living as a submissive, as well as boring things like allergies and phobias. The last section of the form was a list of hard limits, with checkboxes. At the top, it explained: "All hard limits listed below are automatically applied for the slave listed. Check all hard limits that you wish to waive."
I glanced through them, but they all seemed pretty obvious; permanent scars, body alterations, pregnancy, unprotected sex, diet control, significant changes to appearance, temporary marks on typically exposed areas (face, hands, wrists, forearms, neck), needle play, electrical play, mud/dirt, humiliation, exhibition, sharing without consent...
I glanced up at Lacey. "You want to skip any of these hard limits?" I asked her. She looked at the list, and slowly started to grin, then giggled. "Maaaaybe" she said, then held out her hand for the pen. I watched as she check the boxes in front of "Bruising" "humiliation" "sharing without consent" "mud/dirt" and "needle play"
"Wow," I said, "Are you sure about all that?"
"Of course, or I wouldn't have done it" she said confidently.
"Lacey?" A tall woman said, entering from a door beside the front desk. "Come with me."
Lacey got up, turned to grin at me, then followed her out of the room.
I continued to read the form; "Please list the slave's preferred role and turn-ons" "Hmm... I know she likes to be spanked, but I don't really know all that well what she's into. She definitely likes things rougher than I do."
I quickly wrote "Lacey likes to be spanked, and likes rough sex. Enjoys being tied by her wrists."
The next question asked for a description of her submissive role; I thought for a moment, then wrote "She enjoys being dominated. She would probably enjoy being a domestic slave with sexual overtones."
"Josh?" I heard the lady at the front desk say. I looked up, and walked over to her. "Her assessment is finished. She scored 8 points. Are you familiar with how that works?" I shook my head, confused. "No problem, let me explain. See the list of hard limits, here? Oh, I see you've already waived a few, that's great. So the way this works, we only swap slaves equally. If a slave is absolutely perfect, she would score a zero. That would mean that she doesn't need anything extra to make her worth the same as the rest. If a slave is old, fat, ugly, untalented, etc, she wouldn't be worth the same, right? So in order to make that balance, we introduced waivers. The way it works, is that the points are canceled out for every waiver applied to the slave. Lacey scored 8 points, so that means she needs 8 waivers. I see you've already got 5, that's great, now we just need 3 more. Go ahead and add those 3, and then we can move on to the signatures, and let you into the event!" She smiled at me, and I picked up the clipboard and walked back over to the chairs. I studied the list of exemptions again; "changes to hair, piercings, breath play..."