The Change to an Flr

Jack, who was forty, walked back into the bedroom and saw his wife, Emma, who was thirty-six, doing her make-up.

Emma looked across at Jack and said with a smile, "Most of the redness has gone from your eyes, so when we get to the restaurant none of our friends will know that I have thrashed you again today. Of course, that restaurant does have hard wooden benches to sit on, so just make sure you don't squirm around and wince, because, if you do, you may well get asked questions about why that's happening."

Emma looked back at the mirror and finished doing her make-up.

Jack had pretty much recovered from being thrashed by his wife. They were in a mutually agreed FLR marriage. Jack was actually an alpha male at the office, running a large team and very successfully. However, from his late teens, he had had the desire to be wholly submissive to a woman, and that led him to look for girlfriends who were authoritative in their demeanour. Emma certainly fitted that description.

However, even after Jack and Emma became an item and later when they were happily equals in their marriage, Emma had no idea about Jack's feelings which he had never verbalised to anyone.

On the other hand, Jack continued to have those submissive feelings, and over the years browsed the Internet looking at sites where women dominated the men, not just mentally, but physically as well. He looked for sites where the women spanked the men, slapping their faces, smacking their legs, and using wooden-backed hairbrushes, leather belts, and even the cane. It was on those sites that he looked for and happily studied photographs, but also watched videos, satisfying those desires through masturbation when dreaming of the real thing.

Jack even joined an Internet forum mainly of men who told each other how much they wanted to be submissive in their marriages but weren't. Jack admitted on the forum that he just could never bring himself to ask his wife to dominate him, as much as he wanted it to happen. Many on the site encouraged him to have that discussion with his wife, saying so many women felt like they were treated like the weaker sex and would be so up to have a submissive husband. Several of the women on the site supported that view. However, he never plucked up the courage. Some men on the site had done so, or at least said they had done so but had never been able to convince Jack that was the case.

As Jack looked at his wife completing her make-up, feeling only love for her, he remembered the day that it had all changed. It had been a particularly busy day at the office, but a very successful one when he had won a large new contract for the company. He was still elated when he got back home and saw that Emma was sitting at the dining table working on her PC as he went over to her. He thought she looked so beautiful, as she always did, with her long dark hair flowing over her bare shoulders as she was wearing a vest top, and, he saw, a very short skirt. He always loved women's bare arms and bare legs particularly Emma's, and he went over to kiss her.

Just as Jack was about to bend down to kiss his wife, she said in a very stern tone of voice, "We have something we need to discuss, Jack. I was trying to look at my own browsing history when I saw yours. There are masses of photographs and videos of women dominating and beating their husbands. It is very clear to me that you have very strong desires along those lines. You should have told me."

Emma glared at Jack and wasn't surprised that he was blushing and silent, which told her that that was exactly what his desires were.

After just a few moments, Emma continued, "Like I say, Jack, you should've told me that you want an FLR marriage. After all, I can see how that would work for both of us. Anyway, I put that together with the photographs and videos showing women punishing men, by spanking them, using a belt, paddle, and even the cane, and it is very clear to me that you would want that to be part of the FLR relationship. As well as that, there are photographs and videos of women slapping the men around the face and smacking their legs. I could do all of that."

Emma again glared at Jack and he was still silent, or maybe just unable to speak.

Emma again continued, "I can see that an FLR marriage would have lots of benefits for me. One thing, you would have to accept every one of my decisions. You might have opinions yourself, but I wouldn't take those into account. After all, if any opinions you might have mattered to me, I am sure they would have been part of my original decision-making thought process. I wouldn't need you to tell me what your opinions were. In fact, your opinions would be pretty much meaningless."

Emma glared at Jack again and was coming to accept that he was listening to her and not interjecting.

Again Emma continued, "As well as the photographs and videos, I saw a list of rules you would happily obey, and suffer a punishment if you broke any. They included me telling you your bedtime, asking permission to speak, asking permission to watch TV, asking permission to go to the toilet or even to leave the room at any time. You made it clear that you would ask my opinion about everything and accept my opinion every time. You would not question a single thing I say or tell you to do, and if you did then that was another reason to spank you. It was clearly stated at the end of the list that every time you break a rule you get punished."

When Jack still didn't object, Emma continued. "That all set me thinking, and I worked out that you would have to accept me controlling everything. For instance, you would only be allowed to go out with your friends if I gave you permission. If I did give permission, I would tell you the time you had to be home which would be like a curfew. I would make no allowances if you were late but thrash you as soon as you did get home. I will organise our entire social calendar, which I do now anyway but going forward you will just have to check what we are doing and not have a say in it. If we go out together to a restaurant, I would tell the waitress what you will be eating. If with friends we will look as though we are discussing it, but I won't be listening and will choose everything for you. The same for your clothes. It will also be my sole decision if we have sex. I might just tell you to lick me to an orgasm but leave you without one. I would refuse you permission to masturbate. There are lots of other things that I will be controlling as well."

Emma made the statement as though it was definitely happening and again waited for a few moments for Jack to say anything but he didn't. She continued, "If you didn't accept everything then you would have earned yourself a punishment. A bare bottom spanking with my hand would be a given. If I decided you needed more, which invariably I would, then I would use a wooden-backed hairbrush, like the one I use to brush my hair, or a thick leather belt like the ones we both have or a cane, which I see from the forum that you really would like to try given you were never caned at college."

Emma saw the bulge in Jack's trousers that told her he was up for all of this. She waited another few moments and with the silence continued, "You say in your forum entries that if your wife were in disciplinary control then you wouldn't want a safe word but would trust her. I see that entry was made well after we got married and so I am taking it that I am the wife that you trust. You have also said you would sign a contract giving you no get-out out and all your money would go to your wife if you did try to stop the FLR marriage. That was interesting given I am a Solicitor and would be the one drafting the contract. I would make sure as well that the contract confirms your wife, me, makes all the decisions, and if you even start to disagree that would earn you a spanking."

Emma smiled for a moment then continued, "You say the standard punishment should be a spanking with your hand or other implement but after every third spanking you should get the cane with the number of strokes decided only by your wife. I think that should be changed to me deciding what I use to punish you, and it can be the cane every time if that is what I decide. Also, you said on the forum that you would prefer to be tied down when caned so you cannot avoid a single stroke. We have a four-poster bed so we will get wrist and ankle cuffs and secure you in place that way."

Emma waited a few more moments and saw the bulge in Jack's trousers really expand with the description of how he would be secured in place on their bed. Cool, she thought. After waiting another few moments and still Jack didn't say anything, Emma continued, "I decided one more reason to discipline you should be added to the reasons you have set out. I can simply decide to thrash you just because I want to, and no reason is needed other than just that."

Emma saw Jack's eyes open wider, perhaps realising he was being told things he wanted to be told. She continued, "You will message me if I let you go out alone keeping me informed every hour of where you are, and if I tell you to come home, then you would have to."

Once again Emma glared at Jack but he still remained silent and noticeably still standing as though it was right that he should do so whilst being scolded. As he stood there, Emma could so easily see the huge bulge in his trousers which told her masses about what Jack was thinking about throughout the explanation of what was going to happen in the future. He may even want the pain to be intolerable as that might turn him on sexually even more.

As soon as Emma had seen the erection she knew she had done the right thing to dress in the short-sleeved vest top and miniskirt, leaving her legs bare, as Jack had described his liking for that skimpy sexy look on the forum.

Emma also was very happy with the way the discussion had gone. She knew that as soon as she had read that Jack wanted a female-led relationship marriage, that would make her life much easier as Jack would then have to agree to every decision she made. It was a bit of a surprise that he was clearly into being disciplined, but adding one and one together she worked out that she didn't have to ask Jack to agree to her decision for their marriage to become a FLR one but take it for granted. If he objected at all then she would simply order him across her lap for a spanking. She had worked out that she would enjoy that element of control as well.

Emma even wondered if she would be able to take financial control. Jack was on a very good salary, and it would be fun to have all of his money in her account and give him a monthly allowance. It would make him even more submissive as well. She didn't want to push it, though, as she saw so many benefits in him agreeing with her and simply doing as she told him, without making him feel so second-class in their marriage. Also, if he lost that control over his money it might adversely affect him at the office where she knew he was alpha, in a senior position, and well respected by his colleagues.

There was never any doubt in Emma's mind that Jack loved her just as she loved him. Therefore, she wasn't going to make it as dominating as it could have been. She knew that Jack wasn't into cooking and didn't make that change. They had a cleaner so there was no need for that to change. She loved shopping so was happy to continue with that as well. However, what Emma got excited about was being the one to make all of the decisions and control Jack in that way.

Emma also got excited at the prospect of disciplining Jack. She liked the idea of giving him a spanking with the hairbrush and with a cane. After all, if he was into that then it would get him sexually excited as well. That might even be excellent foreplay. As she thought about disciplining Jack, she realised she was feeling quivers flying around her vulva to the extent that she was really up for making him cry and the like, and even started to wonder whether whilst she would be so enthusiastic about it, he could regret making the change because her punishments would be too severe. However, he had specifically said on the forum that he didn't want a safe word or any get out so the punishment in his mind could be unlimited and certainly severe. That would be quite huge, she told herself, and certainly something she intended exploring because as Jack was getting his erection just thinking about being disciplined, maybe he would be able to take a far harder thrashing because of it, which could really make it more sexually arousing for both of them.

Emma saw Jack was waiting for her to give him further information on their FLR marriage and watched as she turned over a pile of pages that were next to the PC. He was very surprised to see the front page had in large letters, 'FLR Contract.' How come she had it done already?

When Emma saw the look of surprise on Jack's face she said sternly, "You said on the forum you would sign a contract. Here it is. Don't worry too much though, darling. It is slanted my way, wholly in fact, regarding your obedience and the consequences when you disobey me. Be assured I still love you, actually more than ever, and I am giving you what you want because of that love. Read it carefully, before signing it, but I think it is wholly right for us, and every alteration you propose will mean a stroke of the cane."

Jack licked his lips thinking how his dreams coming true may have the caveat, 'Be careful what you wish for.' However, he loved Emma and had masturbated imagining her spanking and caning him, and still felt aroused at the prospect. Signing a contract was also acceptable because he wanted to give meaning to his submission to her, and relished the thought. He knew he had a hard-on and supposed Emma saw it, but he couldn't hide that and didn't want to.

Today, as he looked at Emma applying her make-up he knew he still wanted the FLR marriage relationship to continue even though his bottom was stinging from the thrashing he had been given. He had definitely earned the punishment this morning. Emma had said that she wanted to go for a walk and wanted company. It had been nearly a week since she had last had to thrash him and he quite forgot himself because he wanted to watch the football and said, "But." He saw the stern look on Emma's face because that one word was always seen as him disputing a decision she had made, and knew what that meant. Whilst he had the trepidation of knowing it was going to be painful for him, he knew he was in the wrong and that it was right for Emma to correct him, and he quickly got another erection.

His erection stiffened when Emma replied sternly, "You know not to question my decision or commands. I wasn't asking you to come for a walk but telling you. Go and fetch the hairbrush and the cane."

Although fearful of the pain he was going to suffer, as he went to get the implements that Emma used to thrash him with, he thought how since the change happened he was really into the FLR style and loved it that Emma was far more relaxed and happier ever since FLR was in play knowing that he wanted to obey everything that she said and immediately. In fact, Jack was also more relaxed at home knowing all he had to do was obey Emma, and accept every punishment without question, as he should. After all, he was the one who made the mistake of questioning her decision and fully deserved a thrashing. He knew that just by saying, but, was questioning her decision.

As he came back downstairs his added concern today was that they were due to go out to the restaurant and he would certainly be struggling to sit down., As he saw the anger on Emma's face, with her beautiful blazing angry eyes, he knew the anger was rightfully there, and he respected her even more for being so strict with him and making sure that every punishment was a severe one.

Jack saw that Emma had already turned a dining chair into the room and sat down. As he went up to her he still had unquestioned respect and love for her, and fully accepted responsibility for the punishment that he was about to get, just as he always did since the FLR status started

Once Jack placed the hairbrush and cane on the table behind Emma, she glared at him and ordered, "Get undressed."

Emma always enjoyed watching Jack get undressed before a thrashing. He undid his short-sleeved shirt, slid it down his arms, caught it, folded it, and put it on the dining table. He then undid his slacks, pushed them downwards catching his underpants on the way, and when they were down on the floor he bent down, scooped them up, folded them, and put them with his shirt. Then he took off both his ankle socks and put them with his other clothes. Once all that was done, he stood back up fully naked and waited for the instruction to go across his wife's lap.

Moments later and following both the instruction to bend across her lap, and his wife pointing at her sexily bare thighs, he now had a really stiff erection, but he knew that Emma enjoyed that pressing down on her thighs as he lowered his full weight across them. The fact he had an erection also showed that he was really up for the punishment, and she learned very early on that she was able to take him well beyond what he could easily cope with because he was so sexually aroused. In fact, they had never had to use the cuffs to secure him to the bed because Jack managed to stay in position no matter how hard Emma thrashed him. Emma saw that as well and so never went anything other than severe, knowing the cuffs were there if ever needed, but they weren't so far.

Emma happily rubbed Jack's bottom a few times, which confirmed the control she now had over him, bearing in mind that as a man he could have forced himself up. Like all men in an FLR marriage or relationship, they obeyed what was always said to be the weaker sex, but the reality was they were obedient because they wanted to be. That was exactly how Jack felt whilst at home, although he was finding that he was being more and more subservient to women elsewhere, even in the office. However, he was still very much the alpha male and in charge when there.

Emma stopped rubbing his bare bottom, raised her hand, and brought her palm down on Jack's far bottom cheek, which as always flattened before swirling around and then bouncing back just as she spanked his other bottom cheek. She then proceeded to spank each bottom cheek alternately settling into the rhythm that she always did, turning his bottom cheeks darker and darker shades of red. After a while she started to spank the same bottom cheek several times in a row and then the other bottom cheek several times in a row, changing that in time to spanking the same spot on the same bottom cheek several times in a row and then the same spot on the other bottom cheek several times in a row. This way the stinging quickly intensified.

After several minutes, once Emma was happy with the colour she had turned Jack's bottom cheeks, she changed her focus to the backs of his legs. She knew that he would be wearing trousers for the restaurant so it didn't matter how red the backs of his legs were. She hadn't yet spanked his legs when she knew that he was going to wear shorts or swimming trunks and reckoned she wouldn't until the time came when their family and even their friends found out about their FLR marriage. She hadn't decided when that would happen, and, of course, had no intention of discussing it first with Jack, but kept it as an unspoken threat that she held over him. However, like everything else, whilst she was the one in charge and made all of the decisions, she wasn't going to do anything that affected their lifestyle including their relationship with friends and family, and, of course, Jack's status at the office.