Warning:
This is a bondage and discipline story about women spanking their husbands. It is also a CFNM story. And it is also a story that celebrates domestic discipline where the female, not the male, is the disciplinarian. If the thought of a woman using a paddle on her husband's behind upsets you, or if a story about men having to act as sex objects and sex toys offends you, do not read this.
THE BAD BOY'S CLUB
I had to write this description and reflection as the final requirement of my time in the Bad Boy's Club. As required by the assignment, I have written it for women who want to know what will happens to their husbands if they go to a Bad Boy's Club session.
Sara and I had been married for ten years with two kids when we both agreed that things had gotten stale sexually. Even though we enjoyed our sex together, we were bored and wanted more. We tried kinky date nights, but even that got stale. We talked about swinging, but Sara was leery of anything that seemed like traditional sexist, wife swapping. Then Sara was given the website for what became our CFNM Husband Swapping Club, and she liked what she read. While she thought the idea was great, I was leery about the idea that the women were clothed while I had to be naked. As I read the website, I found out that every three months, the club held weekend retreats for between 60-100 couples during which the men were required to be naked sex toys from Friday night until Sunday afternoon, and that before a couple could become a member of the club, they had to attend one of the weekend retreat. After that you could attend the small dinner parties, "cock-tail" parties, and play parties that occurred more frequently but for a shorter duration. In each event, I would have to be nude and powerless, and while that thought was interesting, it was also scary. Finally Sara just said, "This is the only way that I will get into swinging. If you want to spice up our sex life, we have to try this, even if it is just once," so I went.
So it was five years ago when we went to our first weekend party. CFNM club events always start with a game that gets the boys to take off their clothing one item at a time. At my first one, every five minutes each woman got to pick a color card, which allowed her to walk up to a man who was wearing something in that color, and then she could tell him take it off, or better yet, she was encouraged to take it off him herself. If she had a blue card and you had on blue jeans, a blue shirt and boxers with blue in them, you were nude by the end of the first round. I lasted two rounds; my boxers and blue jeans came off right away. So I pretty much started off the party naked from the waist down. The process of having different women come up to me to take off my clothes one piece at a time, and then, to parade around with no opportunity to cover my junk in a mixed group was challenging at first. But as soon as my boxers and jeans were off, I was constantly being complimented, ogled, groped, stroked. It got even better when my shirt came off and I was completely nude. By the end of the night, I could not count he often my dick was massaged and licked, or how many pussies I ate, or how, even with Viagra, I managed to keep it up so long and to cum so many times. Being naked all day Saturday was even better. It was fun for once to be the object of desire and not have to work for it. By the end of that party, I was a true believer. I love going to all of the parties, but especially the weekends. So to be clear, I would have done whatever was necessary to continue being invited to club events.
And Sara knew that.
It is rare for us to get to the weekend events while we have kids. However, with the kids away at camp, summer always meant that we could go to the weekend retreat as well as the smaller parties the go on year round. In June, we went to a "cocks and tails" party at Thomas and Suzanne's home. There were only 6 couples which allowed Sara to notice how well behaved Thomas was. He was actually doing as much or more of the party work as Suzanne. Since this was a CFNM sex party, I was not upset when Sara grabbed him and pulled him up to a bedroom. I was grabbed several times myself. However, I embarrassed her by making fun of Thomas. She said I called him pussy whipped because he was doing all the work. Sara yelled at me after the party, but she did more than that. Without my knowledge, she asked Suzanne how she got Thomas to behave, and Suzanne told Sara about the Bad Boy's Club. I didn't know anything about it though until it was time to sign up for the weekend retreat.
So when we received our invitations to the Summer Weekend, Sara told me that this party was going to be different. She told me that were going to attend the Bad Boy's Club on Friday night, and that if I participated properly, we would be attending the rest of the weekend starting Saturday morning.
I must admit now that I acted badly. I pouted. I said that it was not fair. We only get to go to the summer weekends when the kids are at camp, and I didn't want to miss out on Friday night for anything. I said that she was ruining one of my favorite things in life. I pouted some more. Looking back, I realize that I was acting like a boy, and that I deserved to be treated like one.
Throughout all of my antics, she remained calm and explained that she had a long conversation with Suzanne about the improvement in Thomas' behavior, and that it was the result of his spending time in the Bad Boy's Club and the resulting changes they made in their marriage.
She told me that when she and Suzanne were in the kitchen taking a break, Suzanne said, "judging from Chuck's behavior tonight, as well as in the past, you need to sign him up for the summer session. You go with 4-6 other couples and spend the Friday night of the retreat retraining you husbands. You learn how to properly spank them while you help them realize their flaws and learn how to correct them. Now, if you think you will also get sexual gratification from spanking Chuck like I get spanking Thomas, all the more reason to do it."
I said, "Spanking, you're kidding. No way." Then I went back to playing the victim.
Sara smiled. She was had planned this carefully and was set for my antics. She said that she wasn't so sure I had a real problem with spanking and mentioned a house party where the hostess was showing off spanking techniques and asked for volunteers to be spanked. She said, "I might have pushed you a little bit to be one of the volunteers. You could have said no, but you didn't. So don't give me the I won't get spanked bit."
"What if I refuse, to go?" I asked.
"Read your invitation to the party ."
I did. It was not the usual invitation that men get for the weekend retreats. It said that my invitation to participate in the retreat was conditional and based on whether I engage in the activities of the Bad Boy's Club "to your wife's satisfaction." The Bad Boy's Club lasts only Friday evening and night, and that I will be allowed to enjoy the rest of the summer retreat weekend, but only if I fully cooperate on Friday. It finished by saying that, "However, if you refuse to take part in, or if you do not do everything to her satisfaction, you will never be allowed to attend any other CFNM function again, ever. But your wives will still remain active members of the club."
When I finished reading and looked up at her, she simply asked, "Do you really want to lose your parties?"
She let that sink in. Then she continued stressing every word. "You will never be invited to the club again! Think about all the fun you will be missing in the future, and remember, (And she said this with a very evil grin) that I would remain a member. And you know, I could decide to go all by myself."
I stared and said, "You wouldn't!?!" That really got to me.
She said with a wink and another wicked smile, "Who knows? You would be at home with the kids, while I was out for the whole weekend with rooms full of naked men just for my enjoyment. I could go to every weekend party. What's more, Suzanne says that it's a lot of fun spanking bad boys, and I am going to enjoy disciplining you. The more I fantasize about spanking you, the hotter I get."
I got really stupid then and said, "That could be cause for divorce." I didn't mean it and fortunately she ignored it. She simply shook her head.
She said, "Get serious. We're not getting divorced. But you need to make some changes or that might actually become a possibility." Somehow, her tone became even more deadly. "You need discipline. You're 45 and you still tell stupid sex jokes. You don't do your share around the house, and you keep promising that you will change. You need the kind of motivation that only comes from a sore, hot, and red backside. And besides all of that, and maybe most importantly, I want to discipline you. I realized at that house party that it turns me on to see you getting your ass spanked. I know now that I get sexual gratification from watching you squirm, yelp and moan as something solid hits your very nice, solid rump. I realize that I get sexual pleasure from seeing it, and I want to see it when I am the one using the paddle. I have a right to my sexual gratification, and I believe the me getting mine will be very good for our marriage. Both parties in a marriage have the right to be sexually satisfied. Remember that I had to convince you to attend the club in the first place, and now you love it. I'm going to bet that you are going to love this too, judging from your last spanking. But either we are going to this, and you are going to take whatever punishment I dole out to you, or you won't be going to another party again, ever."