I can remember the first submissive I enjoyed, it was not a situation that presented one in the aspect as we look at one another here. She was "easy" and I did not appreciate what she was giving at the time as I would today.
When I actually enjoyed my first submissive is like having sex for the first time in some ways. Or maybe your first threesome "who goes first, is their an order" it can be funny after it over.
Not that being Dominate is a problem, but taking ones time to "enjoy" another. Not for a half hour but for a day, maybe a week. The time may not be so important but the word enjoy in by far the key to what I always seek.
My first submissive to give herself to me was perfect in many ways. Her age nor her looks really matter, I could put many description here but to me it is not an issue.
We had met because we lived near one another and could not miss noticing each other in our passing. I worked my way into talking to her and thought her so very shy. But later she stopped by to give me an ice cold drink on a hot day while I was out working in the yard.
Days later we met in a local restaurant by accident during lunch. after telling her I would like to make a ritual out of buying her lunch at this place it became a regular thing. Our friendship grew until one day I told her I missed having a woman to play with and enjoy. I put it just so....
Her words were so unexpected that I still remember the grin I must have had on my face. she replied... " if you would like, you may enjoy me,...if you wish." " But we will have to make rules you know" , "sure" I responded.
I had my doubts about her but I was more that pleased with her answer... including the way she answered.
