Tease And Denial Games

Alana and I have been together for 12 years and like experimenting with tease and denial every once in a while.

Here are a few of the things that Alana has done to me in the past that you could try with your partner too.

Do let me know in the comments if you guys end up trying these or have other fun ideas for us to try!

1. Blue balls or Ruined orgasm -

She makes me choose between the two after teasing me for a while.

I've even written a blog about one specific time when she did this. She does this very often and it's incredibly frustrating! I can never choose and always end up making the wrong choice!

To add to the frustration, she makes me double guess my answer by telling me all the negatives of the option I've chosen.

"Do you want me to stroke you, tease you, lick you, kiss you and give you the best blowjob of your life, then give you a horrible case of blue balls? The kind you remember for days!

OR

Do you want me to stroke you, tease you, lick you, kiss you and give you the best blowjob of your life, then give you the most disappointing orgasm of your life? The kind you remember for days!"

This above line stuck with me and fucked my mind for days! How do you choose? THERE'S NEVER A GOOD ANSWER!

2. How Many Seconds?

This works both ways.

Once Alana is close to orgasm, I'll ask her how many seconds she can hold on at 99% or at the edge. Then, whatever she says, I increase 5-10 seconds and ask her to start counting. (E.g. she says 10 seconds, so I'll ask her to count till 15 before she can cum)

She has to tell me when she's almost about to release and that's when she needs to begin counting backwards from the number you both decided. (WHILE ALSO KISSING YOU)

Side Note: Take as long as you wish to negotiate this number, because the longer you wait before she starts, the hornier she gets.

With every passing second, she'll get even more desperate to start the countdown quickly so she can orgasm. If she gets too close during negotiations, slow down or stop for a few seconds. Take off your hands from her wetness and watch her desperately negotiate against herself just to start the countdown and release!

Once she starts, the trick is to kiss her passionately while she tries to mouth her counts. She will be struggling to hold her orgasm and as well as be tempted to keep kissing you. Contemplating how to ration her counts to maximize her kiss time and minimize her time to orgasm... Double down by increasing your finger's pace on her vagina or by adding a vibrator once she starts counting.

You can also make this experience more frustrating by alternating/ increasing your fingers' pace and slowing your kisses vs intensifying your kisses with slowing your fingers.

Both of us always end up with amazing intense orgasms after this game.

Another trick is to completely stop at 2 or 3 for about 10--15 seconds and ask them to do a redo just because.

3. The 2 in 6 Dice Game

Alana would tell me to roll 2 dice and the numbers that came would decide the fate of my next 6 orgasms.

The 2 numbers that i roll decide the session numbers in which i have full orgasms.

E.g. I roll 2 and 5

That means the first time we have sex next would be a ruined orgasm. Second time full orgasm. 3rd & 4th again ruined.

5th full orgasm

6th ruined

The worst fate in this game is when you roll the same number on both. Then you get 5 ruined orgasms.

If you're a beginner, then you can reverse it and the 2 numbers are ruined orgasms.

If you roll doubles, then make that the permanent ruined number and roll again, making it a total of 3 ruined orgasms instead of 2.

This game is a lot of fun on vacation.

4. Tricked into Ruined

Ever since Alana found out that guys last longer with this trick, life hasn't been the same.

The trick is to give a ruined orgasm first.

Basically, the refractory period after a spoiled orgasm is much lower, and you get hard again... Really quickly (Almost as if you've not cum yet)

However, since you have theoretically, it does take time to reach the edge the 2nd time.

Alana has exploited this hack way too much. It's basically a trick for men to last longer in bed.

So every time she's in a mood to have a nice long good night of fucking, we would spoil my first orgasm, wait for a bit and then fuck for long...

Now, here comes the tricky mind games part that Alana plays. She realized that I was getting very comfortable ruining my first orgasm because I was going fuck her well and have a nice session post. The domme in her hated that.

So now, every once in a while, she tricks me into having a ruined orgasm and THAT'S IT!

She would text me all day how she wanted to be pounded all night or how she was craving a night of deep passion. She'll really up my appetite before the session. She'll get me all riled up. To the point where I'm almost excited about spoiling my orgasm.

"Tell me when you're close."

"I can't wait to fuck your hard cock after this."

"I've heard the earlier I stop during your ruined, the harder you're the next time. So tell me early this time."

"I really want to fuck you hard today."

"Are you close? Should i stop now?"

"Wait, was that too early? Sorry, I'm just excited about starting our session."

"Let me try again. Tell me to take my hand off the second you feel it coming. I want you to have the smallest, weakest dribble for this one so we can have the hardest session after that."

"Tell me a few seconds earlier rather, so there are no mistakes."

She would do all this after having released atleast twice and most of the time ensure that I'm still either licking her or touching her while she's giving me this ruined orgasm.

She would say all this so seductively that I would be excited about a small dribble. I would try to have the worst ruined orgasm and happily so because it would follow up with great sex and an amazing full orgasm afterward.

Sometimes, she would count me down so I knew when to get close.

I think this is the most frustrating trick in her quiver. Especially because you stupidly get excited about a ruined orgasm only to realize that's it, and you're still crazy horny!

Do try these out and let me know how it goes. Cheers!