My Adventures into becoming a switch were thrust upon me one evening, whilst, after a good seeing too, my boyfriend and I were engaging in pillow talk.
It had been a particularly enjoyable and energetic session, and, as was the norm, I was left feeling deliciously sore. I was bathing in the tender feelings of my spanked ass, which was now resting against the bedsheets, and my throbbing pussy.
I was, and deep down knew, I had always been submissive.
I don't know when this submissive side had started to shine out, it was over a matter of years, and never with my, now ex, husband. It had been straight up simple,, or to coin a term, vanilla sex with him, and whilst that was and had always had been good, it wasn't mind blowing.
I had started looking into BDSM as research for a piece I happened to be writing, my work had hit a plateau and I had wanted to spice it up. I stumbled across the colourful world of BDSM, and after a few weeks of reading about it, I signed up to a website. From there I took on a lover, and he introduced me to my various kinks. Who ever knew I liked to be spanked with a leather belt. Hard.
I certainly didn't.
I also never knew I would adore being tied up, nor would I enjoy being fucked in the ass. It was a revelation. This opened my eyes to a whole new world of desires and needs I had, and from then on I became fully emerged.
I brought oodles of sex toys, of which my husband was never interested in using.
I took lovers, but none had the same impact as that first.
Until, that is I met Charlie. Charlie took me to heights I never thought in a million years I could achieve. It took a while for him to weed out my kinks, but once he did...well, let me just say, that night, and subsequent ones were incredible.
This particular night had been one of pure, unadulterated, raw sex.
We had fucked like never before, and now lay panting side by side.
Charlie's fingers were idly tracing patterns across the base of my spine and we were discussing the recent bout of gymnastics.
"I've never been dominant with anyone before you know Lottie."
This shocked me, as, on this particular day he had been very domineering "Never?"
Charlie shook his head "Never. But I've been submissive."
I sat up and stared at him, was he for real?!
"I like doing it for you though." He said thoughtfully "I know how much it turns you on."
I smiled and kissed his shoulder "So..." I slyly intoned "...tell me about your joys of submission."
He shook his head "I like a women who isn't afraid to ask for what she wants, and takes it..."
"I know what I want!" I said, slightly offended
"I didn't mean it like that Lottie. You're right, you do know what you want, its just you take it in a totally different way."
"I don't think I could ever be domineering, its not in my nature!" I screwed up my nose in distaste
"Oh now you see, I have a totally different view on that."
I raised my eyebrow and Charlie kissed my still screwed up nose. He flipped me on to my back and hovered above me.
"I think you can be dominant. All you have to do is tell me what you want instead of asking for it."
"Yes but that's not me! I'm submissive, always have been."
Charlie nodded his head and pursed his lips. "It doesn't have to be princess."
I smiled contently as his lips descended from my jaw, down my chest and headed towards my breast. I sighed placidly when flesh met flesh and I felt his tongue flick out and work on my nipple. He pulled away slightly and blew hot breath on my now hardened nipple.
"You know how you always want me to bite your nipples harder?" he whispered
I moaned in agreement
"Tell me. Demand it Lottie, take it!"
"Do it!" I cried out.
"Do what?"
I groaned in frustration
"Bite me. Hard. Now."