My boyfriend Anthony came up with an ingenious way to torture my husband while we have fun together.
It all started about three years ago. My husband and I had been married for five years, and he was taking me for granted. He has a demanding physical job as a construction carpenter and spent all his time at home relaxing and sleeping. I tried to be understanding, but I was frustrated with the lack of attention in general and the lack of sex in particular.
Masturbation just wasn't enough anymore. I needed something more.
One Sunday night, as my husband and I were lying in bed, I confessed how frustrated I'd become. He cuddled with me as I poured out all my feelings. He patiently waited until I was done talking to respond.
"I guess I've been selfish. I'm just so tired by Friday evening that all I want to do is relax and sleep. What do you want from me?"
I was so happy that he understood my frustration. I kissed him, and before you knew it, I was on top in the cowgirl position having some of the best sex in months. We cuddled afterwards until he fell asleep.
Sunday evening sex became a routine for about six months. The sex became less and less frequent until it just stopped.
Masturbation sufficed for a while, but one Sunday evening when my husband and I were in bed together, I confessed my frustrations.
After I finished, he surprised me with his response. "Maybe you need a boyfriend."
I lay in bed, stunned, I'd never thought about having sex with another man after I got married. I believed in "death do us part". I was still thinking about his comment when I heard my husband snoring. I put the thought out of my mind and went to sleep.
I didn't think too much about our conversation for a couple of days. By Wednesday, I was warming up to the idea of having a boyfriend. I knew about Tinder, but I didn't want to just have sex. I wanted a boyfriend.
After an internet search, I found OkCupid. I searched for men in my area and came across several profiles I liked. I created a profile and crossed my fingers.
That night, I told my husband about my profile. He seemed to like what I'd written since I was honest and said I was married and looking for a boyfriend. I asked him to take some pictures of me with his smartphone for the profile. He agreed and took a lot of pictures of me dressed, undressing, and naked. I figured he should get something fun from the pictures.
Before he went to bed, he uploaded the pictures on the computer so I could add a couple of them to my profile. I was feeling frisky after stripping for the camera, and I wound up on top in the cowgirl position having the best sex in weeks. We cuddled until he fell asleep.
Over the next couple of weeks, I got more than 100 responses. I was spending 3 to 4 hours each and every weekday reading. Most of the replies were looking for hookups, but several replies were lengthy and seemed like they wanted more than sex. One reply mentioned cuckolding, which I had to look up on the computer. Once I found out what it was, I updated my profile to mention I was cuckolding my husband.
That night, I told him about learning what cuckolding was. He just smiled and cuddled with me. It took me a minute to realize that my husband knew very well what cuckolding was. I wondered what other sexual secrets he had been keeping from me, so I asked him what his sexual fantasies were.
"Are you sure you want to know?"
Now, I was more than curious. "Yes, I want to know."
He hesitated, then blurted out. "You're so nice to me. You make lunch for me every day and take care of all the housework. You usually don't nag me. Sometimes, I wish you'd be more of a bitch."
My husband never ceases to amaze me. There had been lots of days when I didn't feel like doing housework. Some mornings, I dreaded getting up to pack a lunch for him. But he gets up every weekday morning at 4:30 to get ready for work. He does his part, so I suck it up and do my part. Making his lunch takes maybe 20 minutes, and we don't have kids, so the housework takes a couple of hours most days. I have a much easier life than he does.
While I was thinking, my husband relaxed a bit and continued. "I guess you're wondering what I mean by bitch. Do you know what a dominatrix is?"
Nope. I had a vague idea, but no I didn't know. I could tell my husband was getting really tired. I kissed him good night, got up out of bed, and let him go to sleep. I went over to the computer and looked up "dominatrix". I didn't know how to spell it at first, but Google was nice enough to correct it for me. I saw a world I'd never seen before. I went through hundreds of pictures and several links before I found a couple of helpful articles describing domination. The best part was finding out that I didn't have to wear a leather corset or play a specific role. I could find out what my husband wanted and see if I was comfortable providing it.
The next evening, after we had dinner, I took my husband into the living room and sat with him on the sofa. I told him I did a little research into domination and I wanted to know what he wanted from me.
He seemed really animated and happy as he told me about the porn he'd been watching. It was fun listening to him talk about the mistresses he'd seen. After about an hour, he took me to the computer and showed me the bondage equipment he'd been fantasizing about.
I agreed that all of it looked interesting and we could purchase all of it. He was so happy. We couldn't afford to get it all at one time, so I had him buy it as we could afford it over the next six months.
One device intrigued me, so I made sure my husband ordered it first. A Kali's teeth cock ring. It looked interesting and painful. When my husband explained what it was meant for, my pussy tingled.
I didn't think about dominating again until the Kali's teeth arrived in the mail. My husband was so excited when he got home and saw the package on the dining room table. He wanted to try it out that evening, so after we had dinner, he brought one of the dining room chairs into the bedroom and put it at the foot of the bed.
I had him strip and by the time he was finished undressing, his cock was very stiff. I was afraid the device would hurt him the second I locked it on. I had him sit in the chair and I tied his wrists behind the chair and tied his ankles to the front legs of the chair. I fumbled with the cotton rope, not knowing how to tie knots at first.
After I had him tied to the chair, I picked up the Kali's teeth and the padlock. I made sure the key unlocked the padlock before I put the key on the nightstand. I picked up his cock and held it for a moment. I could feel it throbbing already. He winced when I closed the Kali's teeth around the base of his shaft, but I didn't stop.
Honestly, I didn't want to stop. Part of me wanted to give my husband the experience he wanted, and part of me wanted him to suffer for all the times he'd ignored me. I guess I harbored a little resentment over the lack of our sex life. I snapped the padlock shut.
I slowly undressed. Once I was naked, I got into bed, reached into the nightstand drawer for one of my dildo vibrators, and started masturbating.
I don't think my husband knew I had toys before this. I closed my eyes and tried to pretend he wasn't there, although his moans made that difficult. Finally, I gave up and thought about how I was making him suffer by pleasuring myself.
I had a huge orgasm. I let the vibrator slip from my grip and just lay there panting heavily for what seemed like a long time. After I rested for a while, I got up, went over to the chair, and straddled my husband's lap. I wanted after play, and he was in no position to refuse me. The fact that it hurt him made it that much more fun for me.
After kissing for a while, I untied my husband from the chair and unlocked the Kali's teeth. The nail points left little marks, but I was glad to see that they didn't puncture him. We took a shower together and went to bed. He wanted to have sex with me, but for once, I told him I'd already had enough and he'd just have to wait. That made his cock stiff again.
The next afternoon, I spent two hours researching rope bondage and practicing making knots. I wanted to be better the next time I restrained my husband.
As the bondage equipment arrived in the main, my husband spent weekends converting part of one spare bedroom into a dungeon. He didn't paint the walls black, but since he's a carpenter, he was able to put together an impressive wooden stock.
Once I started dominating my husband, our sex life improved greatly. I hadn't forgotten about the dating profile, so one evening when we were in bed, I asked him if he still wanted me to have a boyfriend.
He didn't hesitate. "Yes."