"Sweetie, I have something I've wanted to ask you for a while now."
"Yeah?"
"Now, you don't have to agree, but this is something that would make me very happy if you said yes. So just listen with an open mind, and tell me if you think this is too much for you, or if you'd be willing to give it a try."
"Alright baby, what is it?"
"My first ever real boyfriend was a guy called Jake. And he had this thing that he was into, where he wanted me to control his orgasms. Like, complete control, he didn't even want to be able to get hard without my permission."
"Why on Earth would he want that?"
"Just the way he was wired I guess. But can't you see how it could be sexy, knowing that whenever he felt pleasure, it was because I wanted him to be feeling pleasure. Whenever he had an explosive orgasm, he knew it was because I wanted him to shoot his big load, normally into my mouth or hand. I think he liked it because it affirmed to him that I was interested in sex, not just putting up with it for his sake."
"That does sound kind of sexy baby. But how could he stop himself from getting hard if you weren't around, or didn't want him to? No-one has that much control over themselves that they can just soften at will."
"Exactly, no-one can do that. But anyway, I came to really enjoy the control I had over his orgasms, and mine became much more powerful and fun, and even more frequent, as it really did turn me on quite a bit, just knowing that he was waiting for my permission."
"But how do you know he was really doing it? I can't believe he stayed soft the whole time, no matter what he said. Sometimes you just get hard even though you're not horny at all, and it passes after a couple minutes."
"I know he didn't get hard once without my permission, because it was impossible."
"What?"
"I locked his cock up in a cage."
"A cage?"
"Yes. It just about fit in while he was soft, and attached to a ring that went around his balls. There just wasn't room to get hard."
"I guess it is possible then, but how do you know he didn't take it off when you weren't around?"
"I padlocked it shut. I had the only key."
"Christ. So what exactly are you saying? You want me to wear a cage for you?
"Yes I do. You don't have to if you don't want to, but it would really make me happy and turn me on very much. I know we haven't been going out for very long, but it would mean so much to me. It isn't a deal-breaker, we don't have to break up if you say no or anything, but please consider it?
"Alright. I'll do it. I've really enjoyed going out with you these past few weeks, and I'll give this a try to make you happy baby."